Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

2007-09-04 17:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by bigchill2007 2 in Singles & Dating

Good friends for a long time, never saw him like that but he's always had something for me

then just this yr. we kissed - one of the most amazing things i've experienced...

now he's acting different: can't talk as much, doesn't know what to do, apprehensive, not as confident w. me but with everyone else he is, seems to always be thinking of his next move and you can tell he's more conscious, he doesn't go to my for advice or problems as much anymore and when i confront him, he's "got it", and there are no problems...he's normal with everyone else except for me...

Did the kiss change him? everything? it dictates everything for him now...

2007-09-04 17:15:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He steals my pencil, gives me nicknames, plays footsie, throws paper at me. I know he is flirting but how do I flirt back without being to obivious or send him away? I am a shyer girl and kinda nervous

2007-09-04 17:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by murmurlover 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this girl and she is moderatly attractive. we used to hang out a lot then 1 day i got the courage to ask her out she said "sure i'd love to" without stutter (this was during summer break). 2 weeks later and i have been having to reschedule everything twice a week (excuse , i am sick, soccer practice, friends hous ECT.) finaly school starts and she won't speak to me. did i come on too strong or what?

2007-09-04 17:15:40 · 9 answers · asked by greenbean 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy at work gave me his number a few weeks ago because he was leaving. I've seen him twice since then, and I haven't called. We flirted a lot, but now I've found out that I was not the only one he was flirting with. At least 4 other girls that I know of. He wrote two a note saying that he wanted to kiss them both. I'm moving, so I'm not looking for a relationship, but I kind of want to call him. I'm conflicted, because he's kind of a player, and it might inflate his ego to call him.
Do I just call him, or wait until his birthday so I have an excuse to call him? I'm really confused.

2007-09-04 17:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Just discovered during a camping trip, my nephew who seems to be a happy kid got to talking to me about dreams ....
he explains [with a smile on his face] that since he was in a crib he's had a LOT of dreams of being chased "and attacked".
He described his dreams as a baby "stuffed animals at night --their eyes turning into angry cartoon eyes ALL coming forward to him about to attack him" then he'd wake up.
He's 13 now. However still has dreams of being attacked within highly detailed dreams, many different characters, and many times he says "it's usually about authorities chasing him down and them becoming evil at the end of the dream about to hurt him b4 he wakes up or sometimes attack him."

I guess I am concerned because I mean really --a kid claiming he's experienced this on and off in dream state since he was a BABY?!?! --And the nightmares are still occuring?
The weird thing is, I've NEVER seen him unhappy, except very moody when he was like 2-8.
Since them, it's been

2007-09-04 17:13:13 · 6 answers · asked by deirdrefaith 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf has started being friends with her ex lately i don't like it but accept it. We were all out at a bar the other night and i went to the bathroom and two of his friends followed me in and when i went to leave they said i couldn't because the ex wanted to be alone with my gf. When i didn't listen they physically tried to stop we and in the end i had to hurt them to get past. when i came out out the ex's face was of shock he had known what was going on. Iv'e told my gf about this and she stopped talking to the ex but he keeps ringing and apologising and she so sweet she will forgive him. What is my next step

2007-09-04 17:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys,

i have met the love of my life and we moth feel the same way, he has been accepted to go play College Basketballl in Nebraska and will be away for 7 months... i will be going over there for christmas and new years...

i want your thought on how we can make it easier, and if anyone has had a similar experience your feedback will be greaty appreciated...

please only serious answers this is very important. i need to know if any other people out there has had a relationship survive this and how.

Thanks in advance!

xoxoxox

2007-09-04 17:11:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

GROWN WOMEN or GIRLS

GIRLS want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
GIRLS check you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN are too busy to realize you hadn't.
GIRLS ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN ignore the bad guys.
GIRLS make you come home.
GROWN WOMEN make you want to come home.
GIRLS worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
GROWN WOMEN know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
GIRLS try to monopolize all their man's time
GROWN WOMEN realize that a lil' bit of space makes the "together time" even more special
GIRLS get hurt by one man and make all men to pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN know that was just one man.
GIRLS fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN know that sometimes the one you love, doesn't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.

2007-09-04 17:10:42 · 6 answers · asked by leighn 3 in Singles & Dating

So next year, im moving back to a high school i've been to and this guy (who was with me in elementary school) is going to be there too..

i dont like him or anything, but we're kinda friends... except i havent told anyone

BUT he's known as the guy who acts like a girl... and has a horrible reputation

should i hang out with him? cuz if i do, im positive my reputation will be ruined! (and i actually have a good one)

and if i don't he'll be sad and i'll feel extremely bad!

please help? anyone...

2007-09-04 17:10:21 · 9 answers · asked by Mystified Sorceress 3 in Friends

A boy asked me out today. I have liked him for about 3 months and he seems like the almost perfect guy. You know the one...cute, smart, popular, intelligent, sporty, great personality...the only problem is, he is really quiet. Is this just him being shy, or does he just not like talking? I don't want to have a boyfriend that I don't talk to! What should I say to him to get him talking to me???

2007-09-04 17:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by frostie_icicle 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my x fiance for 4 1/2 years since I was 16 now am 21. And i always wanted a ring,that was my issue.So finally after all the talks of him not knowing bla bla bla.He took me to miami and proposed just as I wanted with a huge 3 1/2 carat ring.Almost couldnt beleive it.Planning the engagement party was the worst.I wanted a big party this ment alot to me and his parents wanted a small party.So I had planned everything myself.With none help from his mother who was the closest to me throughout the years and you would think she would be happy to help right?..wrong. The night of the party he was acting very weird, not near me almost the whole night instead getting drunk with his friends at the bar, I had came up to him and told him that he should stop getting drunk and instead be next to me for at least one second.He flipped, and walked out on me. His parents did not help the situation in any way.Did not try to stop him.Why would he leave me?

2007-09-04 17:09:22 · 19 answers · asked by alana s 1 in Weddings

ok is it wrong for a jurior to date a freshman and if theres no problem and how should i ask her out

2007-09-04 17:07:45 · 17 answers · asked by Ted W 1 in Singles & Dating

Purely because you thought they were absolutely hot to trot. Only to find out over a period of time, that you really deep down didn't like them as a person. And did you think it to be a cruel lesson.

2007-09-04 17:07:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cry after I orgasm from penetrating myself. I have never cried from orgasming after sex with a man. This has been happening off and on for a few months now. When it happens, I just feel consumed by sadness but I don't know why I feel that way..? What does it mean and how can I make it stop?

2007-09-04 17:05:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate having to answer to my parents all the time. My curfew is 9 on wkdays and usually 12 on wkends and Im n college. Well i was 20 min late from bein home @ 5 to hav a FAMILY DINNER. I was late bcuz i was visiting my dad. My step dad & my mom freakd out on me saying y can't i jus listen to them and follow the RULES? I told them that I dont go out and do drugs or drink or go out and hav crazy sex w/ evry girl i c. I askd them wat the worst thing i do is and they said that it was not bein on time. I think its ridiculous. Next month I will b 19. I askd if I will always hav a curfew while Im livin @ home & my parents said PROBLY. What can i do to make them let up on me. I almost hate comin home cuz then i kno that i gotta hear somethin stupid from them that im not n the mood to hear. I love em', but i need to hav more freedom than wat i hav. They r so restricting. Im not really able to move out bcuz of the money. How can I come up w/ a way to compromise w them? Ur advice is appreciated.

2007-09-04 17:05:42 · 15 answers · asked by Ty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-04 17:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by kittens 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This has been going on for 10 years! My 10 yr old childs biological father is NOT her biological father,and I can't seem to find it in me to tell him the truth.
How do I tell him?....When would the right time be?.....What would I say?........

2007-09-04 17:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She said she sent out 32 invites and nobody showed up. Shes done things like this before. What do you think???

2007-09-04 17:03:48 · 6 answers · asked by taylorvillegirl 4 in Family

she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across. i don't know who but he emailed me wanting money. $300 otherwise he said he'll show pictures of her saggy boobs to the whole school. I didn't believe him but their was an attachment with her fully topless. What should I do? Should I tell her? just in case there are people that don't believe me here is the picture i was emailed:

http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2316283150102099492pHtUlZ

i obviously covered her face and privates.

2007-09-04 17:03:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-04 17:00:53 · 4 answers · asked by dbell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wouldn't

2007-09-04 17:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I tried to help him and his kids in december he gets papers Could i call immigration and stop it? Even if i haven't file divorce yet? I know he is back with his wife and i don't want him to get papers and then dump me!!!

2007-09-04 17:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by killer4tu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 16:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by Donna W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

From my family's perspective I am a lazy, mean, angry *****.
I never clean up, I can't seem to respect anyone.

From my side I am always really tired so I don't do any chores.
My mom is a neat freak that has too much energy and always wants to clean up. I went to the doctor about my fatigue and was told to take to take multi-vitimans (never given to me).
I am a easily angered person and don't take well to authority.

At the moment our house caught fire and we're in seperate hotel rooms, my mom comes in every moment to criticize the room when seriously it aint that bad.

She is claiming she is going to send me to live with my grandma before I go to college (Sending me to Hell basically). Do I sound that bad, I feel more than unappreciated and can't stand to be around my family any more.

Please don't come to bash me, I got plenty of beating as a child and am not close to being "spoiled". Even under the threat of getting my *** beatin I'm still a *****.

Am I that bad?

2007-09-04 16:54:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

marriage that is...?? We have been dating for a year and a half...we have a wonderful relationship...we do live separately. All of my friends and family (and his) keep asking me when we are getting married or engaged...or just say...we can't wait for you two to get married or we are so ready for you guys to get married...but nobody ever mentions it to HIM...I don't know what to say most of the time because he and I never talk about it...it is odd...we talk about our relationship as if we will always be together...even discuss having children together and all of those things...but it's never, 'when we get married' or 'if we get married' or anything like that..I love him and he loves me and we get along great...I never mention marriage because I don't want him to feel pressured, but I do want that with him and would like to know that he feels the same, but saying 'oh, by the way, just curious...do you think you want to marry me one day?"...I just could not do that...suggestions? Thx!

2007-09-04 16:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Stealth_1 2 in Singles & Dating

She lived a sheltered life, no girlfriends, JW religion, strict parents, left home at 17 cuz she met someone "online" who happened to live in the same town, first bf, known each other for 2 months, and "He" is very smothering, has to know her every move, she can't go anywhere, he's suspicious of everything. I think she's way off target about getting married! But she see's it all as LOVE! And I (the Aunt) know the whole thing is doomed, foolish and don't want her to do it...but shes treating it like planning a birthday party, and not thinking about reality. And now her Mom (my sister) informs me she can't "host" the bridal shower, because she has a "class", and wants me to do it. I think thats horrible!, and it just tells me she's not taking it too seriously either. Bottom line...I don't want to be a part any of it...what can I say to my neice, her Mom, etc, so I don't look like the big bad creep?

2007-09-04 16:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by Peaceful 3 in Family

Hey, ive been talking to a guy on the internet for a while and he wants to meet up sometime. Not only is he 28 (im 18), ive always thought that anyone who meets up with someone on the internet is a dumb f*ck, but im still considering agreeing anyway. We get along really well and have a lot in common, but what i want to know is whether his behavior is more consistant with ppl his age, or more like a perverts. Hes often told me he wants to date me, which im open to. The thing that bothers me is that he hints at sex a lot, and the other day when he was completly trashed, he just came right out and asked me if i would have sex with him. so im confused, i havnt dated older guys before and i dont know if the relationships hes used to are more mature and therefore more open about sex, or if the dating rules are the same as im used to and hes just a pervert in disguise. What do you think? thanks

2007-09-04 16:51:14 · 52 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Singles & Dating

Please name the disadvantages or serious problems a virgin encounters. And if she doesn't find the special someone was that virginity wasted? (Asked in Relg. forum because she is Catholic.)

Please don't comment if you are in your 20s or beginning 30s because you have to walk the shoes of a virgin in her later years.....

2007-09-04 16:48:47 · 30 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

I saw my EX yesterday night..
I was hanging out with our friends all day..
ME and my friends were sitting on the bridge..
while my Ex...comes riding his bike down the street..
he stopped, and started talking to our friends.
every so often me and him,would lookup and smile at eachother and he was teasing me.
(then one of my friends left i was only hanging out w/ two.) and my ex was getting ready to leave and asked me if i was comming with him.
I wasnt sure if i should go or not..but idid.
We went down to the park..and he kissed me?
Does this mean anything?

2007-09-04 16:46:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating