Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

This question is for a friend, Im not married.

How do you know if your husband is lying to you?

How do you know if your husband is cheating on you?

If he is, can he change? Will things get better?

2007-09-04 17:41:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 17:41:29 · 32 answers · asked by Kate H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im the baby of three(now 39) and my middle sister, whom has proven to be a compulsive liar and has done at the very least, id fraud on me. she hurt my mom (whom just died)many times and has seemingly railroaded me soooo many times and i kept quiet cause i USED to be needy for family acceptence... i recently spoke up and made the break. then my oldest(an angel on earth to everyone whom knows her and a mom to many) was diagnosed with Burkitts lymphoma(rare, almost always fatal) and i find myself trying to be the strong one for everyone. is it wrong to not want to deal w/ her at all?

2007-09-04 17:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by reedtexass 3 in Family

I'm not sure but it really feels like he's jealous. He went into my profile and read my comments (I don't mind this at all, just to let you guys know) and I think he saw my guy friends flirting with me and stuff. I told my friends to stop, but they keep doing it anyway. He hasn't said anything TO ME about it, though. One time, he did confront one of my guys friends, but he didn't tell me, and my friend told me instead and I told him that we're only friends and not to worry.
I don't want to ask him about it, because it might bring that "jealous feeling" back and then he'll get frustrated with it and argue? I'm not sure but I don't want him to be more upset. I assure him day to day that I have no other interest in other guys but him, and he fully understands yet he still seems to get jealous.
Is that natural for guys? (I don't really understand how a guys brain works...haha) And why doesn't he tell me? Should I confront him about it? :/ It's making me worry.
Thank you guys >_<

2007-09-04 17:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by 2514 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in college and moved in on the 25th of August. My roommmate and I at the time had discussed moving in and such for months before we moved in. On Sunday the day after we moved in my roommmate decided she hated the school and she wanted to move out. I was VERY UPSET!!!

Last Friday I got a phone call that this other girl really wanted to be my roommmate. I was packing to leave to go home and walked downstairs to meet her. She seemed very nice didn't drink, didn't party none of that stuff.

I wanted to wait until Monday since it was my room and I had the choice as to whether or not she was my roommmate I had asked if I could wait until Monday. Well, the girl's mother was there and was pushing me to allow her daughter to stay with me. She said that her daughter would not be here until Wednesday and they would have really liked to get her stuff moved that day (Friday)

Unsure of what to do at that point I agreed and signed the contract allowing her to be my new roommmate

2007-09-04 17:34:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my last bf broke up with me at the begining of the summer because he said that he wanted to hang out with his freinds and didnt want to worry bout havin a gf.after he dumped me he was being a total jerk to me by like always ignoring me whenever i wanted to talk to him cause i was so confused and he would say all these things to me when he was around his freinds.he sent me an email sayin he was sorry. and we never talked since and through most of the summer i still liked him for sum reason and now that school started. its so awkard bewtween us and i dont know how to get over him. becuase he was the biggest jackass to me. how do u get over sumone?

2007-09-04 17:34:50 · 11 answers · asked by dandy-xx* 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been off and on for 5 years (mostly on and dont council me on this cause its not part of my question). and we love eachother very much. i am a logical thinker, think things threw and make good decisions. im in college and in 2 years ill have my architecture degree. my parents are SUPER strict and dont let me stay out to late and call a billion times . im 21. i live in there house and cant move out till i graduate. (we've all decided). i love and respect them and care sooo much about what they have to say. for some reason they dont like my bf. he comes over a few times a week ad we go out. its a normal relationship until u figure out that they DONT KNOW ABOUT IT. they can't be stupid. they MUST know but ive never flat out told them. he does come over and call me beautiful and acts a litte affectionate towards me so they MUST KNoW. once i tried to tell them and they said they would lock me up if they had to cause there is no way i was going to end up with him.

2007-09-04 17:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to be as plain as possible.
My wife works 8 to 5 days I work 3 to 12:30 nights
During the week unless I come home for 20 minutes during lunch we don't see each other at all. I tried waking to see her before she leaves but I have too hard a time getting back to sleep. She tried staying up but she's dead tired and barely makes sense. The weekends seem to be primarily about the kids & extended family anymore. I miss her! Our sex life has become mediocre. Even when we have it, it seems she's distracted uninterested or tired. I blame myself for not being able to cope. She's not expressed the same sentiments but she tells me she loves me and seems able to do without the interaction better than me. If I could do without her long enough I wonder if she would seek me more often or just live with it?
I wish I could help myself in this since I seem to be able to give good advice sometimes. Why can't I figure this out?
How do I resist being disheartened?

2007-09-04 17:33:08 · 14 answers · asked by Fixguy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Right now its a plain white tee with "future mrs.." on it in black letters, very BLAH. I want to spruce it up a bit...

2007-09-04 17:32:50 · 9 answers · asked by ChicagoGirl 2 in Weddings

mom calls and said a couple men with FBI papers in front seat were looking for my wife. I asked her about it and she admitted then that she might owe some past child support then I contacted her sister and she thought by then I knew everything and said she oh god they are coming after her for the whole 46,thousand and now I'm scared, am I responsible for this? I don't think I would be. but I'm scared

2007-09-04 17:32:41 · 22 answers · asked by jamie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 17:32:29 · 20 answers · asked by vivin p 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and girl see each other in the same chemistry class once a week. she's pretty sure he's interested. he looks at her in class very often. smiles alot when he talks. holds the door for her, changed his bus route for hers etc. but, he

1. can talk to girls very easily but is tongue-tied around you. he'd pop to the loo sometimes instead of going over to talk when your alone

2. he has no probs sitting with girls and all but has problem having physical contact with you. he leaves a "space" when he's beside you

3. made like he wanted your no on that bus trip but took out his phone, looked at you and kept it after awhile. and didnt actually dare take the seat beside you on the bus til you made way for him

4. doesnt talk when your/his friends are ard. and, doesnt look at you when his friend is there.
5.you text him, he texts back actually but you didnt receive it. then he texts again asking if you've received it and wishing you a goodnight.

wth is he doing?

2007-09-04 17:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is really sad and doesnt know whats wrong.
Every thing is okay at home and at school but she is just so sad and quiet.
She is really scared herself and is always wondering why she isnt crying.
Please help
jess xoxo

2007-09-04 17:31:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I turn 18 on February 18th and I want to move out of my parents house due to fighting (verbal- parents, physical- sibling), lying, and false accusations. I have tried to look up the regulations of me moving out but have come up empty. I am not sure if I can just leave my house and my parents not put me in as a runaway or missing, or if I have to emancipate myself from them. If you have any information on the regulations of this in the state of Texas that would be great.

2007-09-04 17:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by llamasrawr 1 in Family

This is going to be a silly question, but I don't know much about weddings and I'm currently planning my own. Are you supposed to have the same amount of bridesmaids as you do groomsmen? Or does it just look nicer if you do?
Also are there any other traditions at weddings I should be aware of? I really don't know too much and I have just the bare basics. Like how long should it go on? How does the typical wedding go? Who walks down the aisle first, etc? Really, a "rough draft" of how a typical wedding goes would be awesome. Thanks!

2007-09-04 17:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by Tic-Tac 2 in Weddings

ok i think i might have a crush she doesn't know i exict yet how should i approach her and wat do i say to her

2007-09-04 17:27:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to surprise my guy friend tomorrow, so need some responces from guys thats a guaranteed turn on & starts rather innocently...so spill it!

2007-09-04 17:27:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On anything you have tried or mantain

2007-09-04 17:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm shy. and thats because i care too much about what people think of me. what can i do to not care???

2007-09-04 17:24:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently moved halfway across the Country and i don't know anyone. Any suggestions on how to meet new friends?

2007-09-04 17:23:28 · 7 answers · asked by curious 2 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend of 2 and half years just broke up 2 days ago. She told me she still loves me but, has to find her self and what it's like to be alone. Do you think I should let her go and find her self? or ask her to give it one last shot with the relationship and see if this is what she needs? thks guys

2007-09-04 17:23:07 · 12 answers · asked by chad b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if anyone remembered those hologram portraits that were available back in the '90s?? I was wondering where one could go to purchase one of those. I already tried Ebay. They used to sell for about $400 back in the day.

2007-09-04 17:22:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey im 15 and i got invited out 2 my frends cabin which will be sorta fun but then earlier today i got invited to hang out with my frend his GF and a girl theyre tryin to hook me up with.. i think hangin out with them will be funner but he invited me first.. what shud i do in this situatiion and how do i tell my friend about my choice if i dotn go to his beach????? thnx for the help

2007-09-04 17:22:39 · 4 answers · asked by iversonfan3rox 2 in Singles & Dating

In spite of the fact that their fiance loves them the way they are, they somehow feel the need to go on a crusade to loose a bunch of weight for one day. No wonder men are disenchanted so easily after a wedding. The woman looses the weight for the one day, then plows it back on one month later. What a let down. Don't you think it would be better just to stay the way you are?

2007-09-04 17:22:32 · 63 answers · asked by Sondra 6 in Weddings

theres this guy i have classes with hes 15 almost 16. and i'm 14. but we were talking on myspace couple of days ago and he said he liked me he said it this way -"i like gummybears! [youuu]".and i knew he liked me it was so obvious. but at skool lhe doesnt really talk to me, he teases me a lot, and throws stuff at me like parts of an eraser or balls of paper and when he washed his hands he threw some water on me. he teases me that kinda way but hardly talks to me!when we get on myspace he talks to me normally and he says "luvya" and he said "gummybears are hawT" i think he was telling me i was hot because when he told me he liked me he said gummybears too lol.weirdo. i'm also #2 on his myspace. why does he act immature at skool tease me and makes fun of me but online hes all mature and stuff and acts serious! its kinda annoying! we met like 2 weeks ago.

2007-09-04 17:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

my bro is a senior and he dont want his name online so he wants me to ask for him he is going to take the best answer and do it he is a big prankster.

2007-09-04 17:20:05 · 8 answers · asked by alpha777 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just curious, my husband had a drink with his friend when we all played cards at his friends house.but when we got back home I had to be to work in 2 hours so I left. I found out he went to a house party drinking where their were girls at.I just couldn't figure out why he went back out

2007-09-04 17:19:05 · 31 answers · asked by caramel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 17:18:35 · 8 answers · asked by hanna 2 in Singles & Dating

We went shopping today and I was called into work, so I left home to work and before I left, he asked me if I would like to come over for a beer after work. I bought 2 six packs yesterday and we never drank them because once again I was working and exhausted.
At about 8 pm, I called to tell him I was on the way home and he didnt answer. I called again at about 9 pm and he still didnt answer. I called his cell phone and he must have left it on the charged because he didnt answer. He is on vacation and probably out having a good time somewhere. Should I just forget it? We are both pretty much work a holics.

2007-09-04 17:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

Sh*t!! there is no hot guys at my school and i count on him for eye candy now he is gone... aaggh i swear it was like angels singing and all that crap when he walks by... now what?

2007-09-04 17:18:26 · 3 answers · asked by ShakeDatLaffyTaffy 2 in Singles & Dating