Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

2007-09-04 15:09:09 · 15 answers · asked by Donna C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,this dude is like calling me fag,****** and gay and stuf but i am not lol but i need good ones

2007-09-04 15:06:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not trying to sound like one of those bitter people here, and I honestly am not bitter about things from past relationships. But I was wondering if you think (or if you are) is it possible to be completely happy with the person you're with. I think that so many people get sucked into the idea of that "perfect" person. I think it's impossible to find someone that you find "perfect" who fits you perfectly. Am I just heartless, or would you agree?

2007-09-04 15:06:39 · 3 answers · asked by angela 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so a guy I've liked for about 6 months told my friendhe liked me, and he also said to me that i was hot.
We've made plans to meet at school, and he, luckily stepped out of his shell and approached me at school for a hug.
So i was 100% sure that He was into me.
Today, at luck i saw him so i waved. He only smiled and kept walking. Then when my friends called him back (ugh!) he seemed like he didnt want to be there and didnt talk to me directly at all.
What is his deal?
Can someone clear this up??


Thanks!

2007-09-04 15:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Random Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

He slept with other girls as I knew he would. He was honest and told me about it. He said he did it because we didn't have "the talk" before he left. I didn't say anything to him about it before he left, I wanted to see if he would behave on his own, and he said he thought that I was sleeping with others. I did sleep with one other person but only out of spite (very immature, I know). I was heartbroken and crying while he was gone. Also I found pictures of him having a threesome in his phone. He's a musician so it really is a part of thier lifestyle. He's never slept with anyone else while we've been together, and we weren't even officially together when he left, but we'd been seeing each other for months. He says he wants us both to be commited and not sleep with others, but I broke up with him because I can't deal with it. I thought I could handle it, but it was killing me--I tried not to think about it but I still did. Did I do the right thing ending it?

2007-09-04 15:04:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 15:04:18 · 10 answers · asked by tina17512 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for two years. This past weekend one of my old friends from college texted me after not talking to him in probably 5 years, which was before I even knew my husband. I was out of town for work and little did I realize that over the course of the weekend this old friend and I ended up texting probably 150 times. I didn't realize it until I checked on my wireless account online. My husband and I have a family plan so if he logs online he'll see that I texted a particular # so many times. Needless to say, I want to sit down and tell him about it tonight. I feel sick to my stomach, but I know that I need to tell him so it doesn't freak him out when or if he sees it. Any advice on words to use to make it easier???? I don't want him to wonder if I cheated on him, cuz I didn't and won't, but I know it'll put strain on our marriage probably and I'm scared for that. I know honesty is always best but....... scary at the same time. Any words of wisdom?

2007-09-04 14:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 11 years is sending instant messages and personal e-mails to a girl who is just starting college. I am sure that it all began quite innocently, but from the messages thay seem to be quite familiar with each other. Do other people consider this to be cheating, I'm pretty sure I do.
What do I do next?

2007-09-04 14:58:20 · 27 answers · asked by jamie t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay this very hard to explain..but have you ever felt guilty about someone dieing and you didn't do anything? For some weird reason ever sense Dale Earhart has died..I feel like its my fault..i know it isn't. but its makes me get all sad and crying cuz I just felt like tis my fault...I don't know if its because he is just like my Dad, or if because they race where he died i was like Dale will be alright..and he wasn't..I just don't know...any idea why i feel this way?

2007-09-04 14:49:20 · 1 answers · asked by ~*Lucy*~ 3 in Family

i think a law should be made that they have to have a vasectomy or have a woman tubes tied because what if a convicted child molestor serves his sentences and gets out and haves a baby with someone(God Forbid) dumb enough to love him or have sex with him or her, shouldnt they be banned from concieving children after such a charge? or is there a law of some type already in place that im not aware of?

2007-09-04 14:46:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think? Do i need to improve? And if I do? on what? :(

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee296/SirBoxer/JoenBrianna.jpg

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee296/SirBoxer/Joe.jpg

http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee296/SirBoxer/Errbody.jpg

the last pic I'm in the orange shirt

2007-09-04 14:41:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 14:40:07 · 2 answers · asked by ~LoVe bUt OnE~ 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the wildest thing youve see happen on bourbon street. I cant wait to go this year. im going with my gf

2007-09-04 14:34:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just wanna know how to get his attention and want him to get back because we broke up.Any help?

2007-09-04 14:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been feeling lonely lately because my husband has been working a lot, my mom and sister live about 2 hrs away so i dont get to spend much time with them. I usually go to my sis in law's house so i dont stay home alone but it's not the same, they're just there, we dont really talk much so i just watch tv. It makes me feel lonely and i get depressed a lot, i get frustratred and it's obviously hurting my husband because i kind of take my anger out on him. Any advice?? please?? He's looking for a better job so he doesn't have to work as much.

2007-09-04 14:33:17 · 12 answers · asked by Pat's Angel 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So this "old friend" who my boyfriend says means NOTHING to him was his first kiss when he was 16 years old. We're 20 now. He hasn't talked to her in over a year. I asked him if he always will hold a place in his heart for her, and he told me not to get mad. He said that, he probably will just because she was his first kiss and a good friend. He told me that their relationship was nothing, but I don't believe that. I did get upset, and he told me that he didn't mean anything by it, and I took it the wrong way. He said by "place in his heart" all he meant was that he'll always remember her, but there's no emotion/feeling there. Do you think he is lying? What do you think he meant?

2007-09-04 14:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by LateBloomer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm inlove with this guy but my mom doesnt like him and it hurts me a lot, she just doesnt like his race and she's so mean to him, i try to ignore it and my boyfriend does also but its just hard sometimes, ive tried talking to my mom but she never listens and just tells me to leave, i'm so lost..i'm her only daughter and i dont wana disapoint her like i have, but i love my boyfriend and i dont wanna leave him. i'm confused, i duno what to choose, to leave him or stay with him.

2007-09-04 14:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 17 years old, and I have a 4 year old daughter and a 2 year old daughter. (Both from the same guy, we are still together) He is very supportive and always has been.

We have been together for 6 years. Most people don't take us seriously. I mean, we aren't going to get married as soon as we turn 18, but we would like to sometime in our early 20s and have one more child before then.

We both have part-time jobs and are doing online schooling to earn highschool diplomas.

We don't plan on going to a 4 year college- just like a 1 or 2 year to earn an Associate's Degree (both mine and his parents are very wealthy and this isn't a problem).


People think we're odd...but really, we're not.

Does this sound odd to you?

2007-09-04 14:28:37 · 39 answers · asked by Jennah 2 in Family

and then begin doing more practical things for you once in the relationship (ex. having your car checked out)?

2007-09-04 14:24:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a younger couple.

2007-09-04 14:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by jt23pa 1 in Weddings

im in my junior year of highschool and i have a morning double period with my gf. there was recently an opening in an advanced singing class that you have to try out for. i want to try out for it but it would mean that i would have to leave my double period class with her. she tells me not too do it and that she would consider breaking up with me over it.
i need help because i love her alot but i really love singing as well

2007-09-04 14:17:47 · 31 answers · asked by DK455 1 in Singles & Dating

he ask me out and i didn't know what to say??

2007-09-04 14:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by SHORtiE 1 in Family

I am planning a wedding and I am on a budget. I live in Houston , Texas. I plan to do most of the stuff myself. So all I nedd is a hall with tables and chairs. Does anyone know of a hall that actually will cost this much?

2007-09-04 14:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by chiple 1 in Weddings

Some people can relate to this & some don't even know what I am talking about!! Anywayz, in a society which supports arranged marriages, the parents expect their girls (i'm seeing it from a gal's pt of view) to be "nice", not be "social" with guys- all the girls need to do is study & be good until the parents find their match.. once the girl has finished her studies (& may be working too), she is introduced to a guy all of a sudden- she is expected to 'interact' with this guy & give her consent for marriage.. what an hypocrite-
worse than this, while premarital sex is so much of taboo here, the newly-weds are expected to have a baby by their 1st or 2nd anniversary- WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?!!

2007-09-04 14:12:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are you staring at? Is it just the butt- or the chest- stomach? WHAT?

and is it true your imagining us without our clothes on sometimes???

2007-09-04 14:10:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wedding was a disaster in my eyes. I was sick and ended up getting two shots the week of the wedding just to make it there. Our rehearsal dinner was so messed up. My music and slide show didn't play, no one could hear us, no one introduced us, everyone left their gifts, our food left over food even got ruined....shall I go on

2007-09-04 14:09:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-04 14:08:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am making a cd for my boyfriend and was looking for suggestions as to what good songs to put on it.any genre will do.i just want good 'love' songs. thanks =)

2007-09-04 14:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by katelyn b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 16 years old and a sophmore in highschool. i have always been shy of people in general. but my father says that if i keep that up i will never end up with a boy friend. they don't seem very intrested in me anyway. but i am not that shy, and i am not that bad looking. click on the links to see.

2007-09-04 14:08:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for 15 years and have 8 wonderful children. My relationship with my wife is fantastic except for one detail. Whenever my current girlfriend comes over, my wife never gives us the space that we need. It seems that she always has to be in the room with us. I know, she is my wife and I do include her in many activities. Occasionally, she will go along with me and my girl friend on a date. That's fine, but she's been wanting to do it more often. Frankly, I'm glad that they get along so well. Also, I'm always careful to give my wife all the love and attention that she deserves. She's a great home maker. It just bothers me that she always wants to be with me and my girlfriend. Heck my girlfriend never wants to go on dates with me and my wife. My girlfriend has been nothing but outstanding on respecting my relationship with my wife. How can I tell my wife to give us a little space?

2007-09-04 14:07:35 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family