I just wanna know how to get his attention and want him to get back because we broke up.Any help?
2007-09-04 14:33:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. Either he will want you back or he won't. Either way, if he dumped you, he probably isn't the right guy. There is someone else better for you, you just have to be patient. I used to be the same way and I wasn't patient, but I met and started dating my husband at age 19 and have been with him over 5 years now. I know it doesn't mean much now, if someone would have told me this 6 or 7 years ago, I would have been like, "Yeah right." But it's true. So my answer is PATIENCE. The right guy will come along.
2007-09-04 14:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by princesspink 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-06 00:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Julio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on why the two of you broke up and how you both feel about getting back together!! Alot of guys are jerks and like to see you hurt over them so try not to throw yourself at him! Let him see that your independent and you dont have to have him in your life if he is going to cause problems or whatever the reason is that you two broke up and he will realize what he has lost sooner or later and want it back maybe it wont be too late by then!!
2007-09-04 14:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant. Anything you do wont work and you cant manipulate or entrap someone into being with you. You just have to learn to let go. Whatever reason you guys broke up must have been a good one. Dont waste your time. If he wants you back he knows where to find you. If you go up to him, call or text telling him how much you love and want to be back with him you will seem desparate and he will run in the other direction.
2007-09-04 15:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him just to see how he is doing, and if he doesn't sound bitter and uninterested, then let him know that you miss him and would like a second try at the relationship.
But be sure this is what you really want, and that you don't want him back just because you're lonely and can't find another boyfriend.
2007-09-04 14:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn2Dusk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that... but I think you should really just move on. I know it's hard to ever imagine loving anyone else because he seems so very perfect, but I'm sure there is someone better out there for you. And you'll never find that guy if you're stuck to this loser that can't recognize how great you are. Forget him. I know it seems hard... but you can't change his mind for him anyway!
Much luck...
2007-09-04 14:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by a-mac 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well don't play any games with him, re-establish the foundations of your relationship, become his friend but let him know you are interested by flirting with him. If he is interested the nature will take its course. Take things slowly do not expect him to come back simply because you ask give a few weeks to a few months.
2007-09-04 14:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by James G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well honestly if you want his attention dont talk to him for atleast a bit of time or like 1 month ..and soon if he really has feelings for you or wants you back in his life he'll come back his self. you dont need to give attention to a guy who doesnt respect you if he really loved u.. yud never break up. so i'd say dont talk for about 1 month and see what happens
2007-09-04 14:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm there isn't really a way to make a guy want you back. you can't make someone do something that they don't want to do =) there are a lot of guys out there girl, let him go and move on =)
2007-09-04 14:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by *just me* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you why would you want him back? If I were you I would forget about him and move on.
2007-09-04 14:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kellie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋