Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

I dont get this. My bf is always so obssessed with celebrity women. Now let me mind you i am a fine @ss woman. I have my own long hair, all real, not extensions. I have the booty and the boobs. I am lightskinned and always get the stares of other guys when we go out.

But again, he still doesnt act like he appreciate what he has until i end up trying to leave his @ss. What is this about???

I think about it like this...you are damn lucky that you are with me, because someone who looks like me who also has the brains, and loves football, wrestling, video games, and mostly a tom boy woudl definitely be appreciated more by someone else.

2007-09-04 12:44:17 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother in law lost his house (got behind on the rent) his wife & family went to stay with her parents and he has been working and looking for a new place. he has not found anywhere (not really looked) and has no money because he spends it all drinking and calling his wife on a prepaid cell phone. he has been "couch surfing" but they are tired of him. now my mother in law wants my husband and i to let him stay with us. well, we have a 2 bedroom place and a 1 1/2 year old little girl. the house guest in question has a drinking problem and has stolen stuff from us in the past so I don't trust him. my husband says it would only be for a week but he won't have money for a place in a week or 10 weeks because he can't save any money. I don't want to have to play the role of the bad guy but I don't want someone I can't trust staying at my house. my husband is supposed to call him in a little while when he gets home from work, i assume because his brother wants him to pick him up and bring

2007-09-04 12:44:15 · 19 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Family

We live in the same city and are the same age.

2007-09-04 12:42:47 · 2 answers · asked by italiangirl 1 in Singles & Dating

on someone you barely know?? ok i had a crush on this kid in middle school!!! middle school! we did talk but barely and whatever i moved on...now i saw his pic on this website and the feelings resurfaced....what to do...he's single but nothing can coem of this crush...

2007-09-04 12:41:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my current boyfriend about a year ago, but he was too shy to ask me out. We lost touch and in the interim I dated another guy. I had sex with this guy, and it happened to be my first time. I have strong convictions about sex, but little self control and a lot of curiosity. I just sort of gave in, I was never in love with this guy and never saw a future with him. He is the only one that knows that I had sex with him. I never told any friends or anyone else for that matter. Unless he told some of his friends- we don't even socialize in the same circles, no one knows but him and I. I see myself having a serious relationship with my current boyfriend. He has the same strong convictions about a sexual relationship that I share. I know the right thing to do is tell him I am not a virgin, but how do I do it without sounding like I have a flippant attitude about it? Saying, "I was just curious", which is the truth, sounds a lot more harsh than, "I was in love with him."

2007-09-04 12:38:56 · 4 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

i caught my husband cheating about 2 years ago..i forgave him and moved on..hes doing alot better and everything is going great again..but sometimes i feel like im not good enough for him....i feel like im holding him back from his life..i feel like me and the kids are not what he wants...things seem to be going good i just cant get over this feeling.....

2007-09-04 12:36:22 · 11 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For our rehersal dinner we have the option of choosing between a two meat buffet (chicken, roast beef...), or a pasta buffet (lasagne, fetuccini, spaghetti...) I'm a vegeterian and would really enjoy the pasta...fiance doesn't care, but should I only take my feelings into consideration? Meat or pasta? EEp!

2007-09-04 12:28:45 · 23 answers · asked by LeenaJo'sMommy 3 in Weddings

This was over a year back. I have got out of this relationship. Got back with my ex that I was with 5 years prior and got married. My Mother has every excuse why my daughter should not move home yet. I think she is scared to be without her. What she needs to understand I am her Mother and I am the one missing out on the Mother and daughter relationship that I will only get once. My Mother has gotten to the point that when someone asks a question about my daughter she will talk over me like I don't know anything about her. She is buying her everthing she has even went as far as to buy a house 1 block from my daughters best friend. She's buying her off. I still pay for what she needs and doctor bills ect. She has asked for $150.00 from me and my husband a month. Also, any child support I receive. She has also said that my husband should pay if he wants to be stepdad, he's been more of a father to her in over 5 years than he own dad. I don't want my daughter in the middle. Any ideas?

2007-09-04 12:28:10 · 6 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a pretty intense foot fetish, and I was wondering if that would be a problem to you girls?

2007-09-04 12:27:02 · 1 answers · asked by iloveme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's definately a good catch .. but is he ready? could he be ready for dating?

2007-09-04 12:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by Chiquis 1 in Singles & Dating

My bachelorette party is this weekend. We had mentioned a long time ago about going to a concert and then decided we'd rather just hang out and have a good time. One of my bridesmaids mom is also invited. I talked to her today and she said that her mom wants to go to a REO Speedwagon concert so they're gonna do that instead. It hurts my feelings more then anything that she is able to go and choosed to do something else. How would you feel about it?

2007-09-04 12:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

Like to think i am a half-arsed philosopher, poet and prophet but my hopeful nature keeps me going back for another lesson.

2007-09-04 12:18:48 · 29 answers · asked by JIM 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy this year in high school. he told me he liked me. online. and asked if i had a bf i said no but he ddin't ask me out. at school he doesnt even talk to me and we have 3 classes together. he will look at me sometimes and he sits infront of me in 7th period and acts really goofy and hyper lol. but he acts like i'm not even there.he flirts a lot with this girl that sits next to him right infront of me. he does poke me a lot for some reason. and says random stuff to me like the teacher told him to be quiet and hes like "yehah jazmine be quiet!" he just says random stuff like that but doesnt actaully talk to me. at first i thought he was just shy but he doesnt seem shy at all he talks to everyone.he only talks to me online..hes really nice but just seems to ignore me. why does he do that?

2007-09-04 12:15:17 · 18 answers · asked by jazmine 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a friend whom you have known your whole life, and are still the best of friends but this person still wants to do, and talk about the same things that you did when you were 15? But there are things that you want to do that you know would never interest them?

2007-09-04 12:13:56 · 2 answers · asked by avidreader 3 in Friends

I am going to an wedding in early October. Is it okay to wear a halter dress? It wraps around my neck.

2007-09-04 12:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Jules 4 in Weddings

she claims that she still loves me but doesn't want the "added on pressure" of a relationship with college and what not. She was not the best girl friend ever but I just cant seem to get over her.

2007-09-04 12:06:51 · 10 answers · asked by J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

people tell me i have a shot with this girl but i think shes way too hot for me but everyone says shes not and i think if she met me she wouldnt like me anyway but everyone else tells me different idk if im retarded lol or just shooting myself down cause i really like this girl but too scared to even say hi or anything

2007-09-04 12:06:12 · 2 answers · asked by Diplomat/Byrd Gang 2 in Singles & Dating

I would prefer to get a really nice card and put a check in it but how much is acceptable? I can look her up in registrys but am at college having a hard time getting to a store plus, I would rather not have to bring something huge with me to the reception. I have not met this sister yet but have met the rest of his family so I am wondering what an accpetable gift of money would be or if I really should get a gift or a gift card...any suggestions?

2007-09-04 12:01:22 · 7 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Weddings

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2007-09-04 12:00:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 11:57:45 · 5 answers · asked by baywitch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has been really grumpy of late. He keeps snapping at everyone and he wont tell me whats bothering him. It's been 2 weeks now and I don't know what to do. Please help!

2007-09-04 11:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv'e had up and downs-i have anxiety and depression.
And I have put on weight, im not huge but i am only 5' 3'' so it's noticeable. Im not a fat lazy cow so please don't call me this.I do eat healthy and exercise but
i think maybe anti depressants have made it hard for me to lose the weight-i have been trying which is upsetting that i have had little or no results.
This has led to problems with my long term boyfriend and he openly blamed my weight gain on his 'looking else where' for other women and increase in porn use.
(I am two dress sizes bigger than when we first met, i have never been small)
This has pretty much hurt my feelings and self esteem real bad
I don't know how to feel good about myself anymore as i know he fancies other women more than me. I do make an effort but when we go out and he notices someone slimmer we end up having a rotten time because he has made me feel so low.
I just feel really angry inside, i could just explode.
Please help

2007-09-04 11:57:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want the white dress, bridesmaids .. yada yada yada... but Neither myself or my man are in a religious community at all... so who can we have marry us since we don't belong to a church?

2007-09-04 11:56:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here is the deal. I started talking to this girl about a week ago just threw emails. We met from friends we know. So we met up at a club Friday night and had alot of fun. We have been sending about three emails aday back and forth to each other. So my question is just got home and read her email and wanted to know should I not write her back today just to give it a break and to let her be and to think about it. Would it be good to maybe make her want me to write her back and make her wait a day? Or should I just keep going on doing what I'm doing or maybe call her instead? How about some girls opinon's on what would make them like a guy more in this situation.

2007-09-04 11:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jim H 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get orange ribbon to trim my wedding cake (the baker asked for 1"), but I have been looking for the past 3 days for 1" ribbon and can't find any anywhere!! I swear, I see 5/8", 7/8" and even 1 1/2"...but I can't find 1" to save my life! I've been to 8 different stores in 2 different towns!

Am I just crazy, or do they really not make 1" ribbon?

2007-09-04 11:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It's my best friend's wedding this weekend and I agreed to play a solo as part of her wedding ceremony. I'm just playing in the middle of it, not when she walks the aisle, or when she leaves, or during the unity candle lighting or vows... just the middle.

Help!!! I only have a few days!!!

2007-09-04 11:45:53 · 3 answers · asked by butterfly98880 1 in Weddings

About a year ago I met a young man and before I knew it we became best friends, we would always hang out, call eachother etc. I never saw him as more than a friend. Then he confessed to me that he liked me as more than just a friend and that's when I started to set a distance between me and him... Although we still spoke to eachother I was obviously not so interested anymore and it wasn't the same as before. And even though i said "no" he kept on insisting and I became annoyed and was pretty mean towards him. We stopped speaking to eachother for a while. Now I look back on how GREAT he was and regret saying "no" to him and now i'm too embarassed to tell him what I really feel, maybe HE'LL reject me now. I've tried calling him once, we had a short convo, nothing serious though... I couldn't tell if he still feels the same... I was hoping that after calling him maybe he would call back, but he hasn't. I don't know if I should call back or go see him or what?! Can someone help please?

2007-09-04 11:45:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to have a strong desire for a spanking even though you haven't completely healed from the one from a few days ago?

The bruises are a little bit painful, but they're a constant reminder of how much I love to be spanked....

I can't stop thinking about it and can't WAIT til I have another "session"!!!:)

We'll see if this one gets deleted....:)

I sure hope not! I just want honest answers from honest people!!!:)



Chunk up the duece!!!!;)

Love you guys!:)

2007-09-04 11:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 11:34:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it help to list the reasons you have to file for divorce for the judge to grant the divorce even if the other part does not want to sign?

2007-09-04 11:29:48 · 1 answers · asked by Carol F 1 in Marriage & Divorce