Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

I am in the 10th grade. My friends make fun of me because I dont like the same music they like. I love Aerosmith and I love classical music. I hate most rap. Some it okay but most if it is garbage. My friends say that I dont listen to rap because I think that I am better than they are and they call me a sell-out. They say black have no business listening to rock music.I am not trying to be better than anyone. I just know what I like and waht I don't like. I have told them that it hurt my feelings but they just make fun of me even more.What should I do??

2007-09-04 10:35:50 · 4 answers · asked by Laila C 1 in Friends

My boyfriend recently lost his mother. Since then he's been really worried about his dad. His dad isn't taking care of himself & is grieving really bad. My boyfriend doesn't talk to me as much. I understand what he's going thru & told him I'm there for him if he ever needs to talk. But now, he's avoiding me. I feel he's pushing/shutting me out of his life. He tells me he doesn't want to burden me with his problems, but he's not. What should I do, give him space or put the relationship on hold until he's ready? And if I give him his space, should I let him know first?

2007-09-04 10:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by ladydiana_a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone in the Galveston area recommend a good wedding photographer? I'm getting married on the beach in May and only need one for about 2hrs and would like digital negative. Any suggestion???? Thanks in advance

2007-09-04 10:31:54 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda W 2 in Weddings

we have been bf/gf for almost a year now.

2007-09-04 10:26:57 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to take a girl skating on a date (holding hands and all that!) and so need somewhere nice and in a good setting. Ideally it would be fairly central.

2007-09-04 10:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Gavin C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 10:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP ME!!

2007-09-04 10:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in December of 2008. I already know my colors are a deep deep red (like a burgundy or a merlot) with touches of cream and very little accents of silver. It's not a Christmas theme wedding but there will be certain Christmas touches (this is a wedding, not a Christmas party). Any ideas for centerpieces, place cards, decor..anything would be great!

2007-09-04 10:18:26 · 17 answers · asked by Cindy 3 in Weddings

so at what age should u lose ur viginity
i really need to know

2007-09-04 10:12:07 · 40 answers · asked by Pierre Andrews 1 in Singles & Dating

we've known eachother for a week now, and talk to eachother at least 3 hours a day on msn .

i need to know if he's only going to use me for his own pleasure... what should i do?.. please help! :(

2007-09-04 10:07:25 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK im in a long distance relationship? And i want to buy my gf a vibrator, and i talked to her about it alittle and she's alittle iffy, like she doesnt want one. What should I do? Do you think she really wants one, but is trying to cover it up?

2007-09-04 10:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by jdf 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is in the same first period as me and besides him i dont know anyone else and the teacher put him right behind and i really dont know what to do cuz the way we broke up i can never forgive him cuz he was wrong and wouldnt talk to me so i said sorry and still he wouldnt talk to me ....wat to dooo =[

2007-09-04 10:06:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 10:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I stayed with my Ex and the kids this past weekend. I had been sleeping on the couch .. the first two nights she left to go visit friends while i stayed with the kids.. which was ok with me because she has her own life and needs some time away. Anyway. the last evening i stayed there.. she had went to bed and i had made my bed on the couch... about an hour had past and i heard her moving around back in her bedroom.. i went to the kitchen to get some water, and to kinda figure out what was going on back there.. she heard me, came to the door and whispered out ,,, hey,,, you wanna fool around,, ,so i did, of course. She's a beautiful woman hard to resist.

I guess my question is this.. we have been talking about working things out but until the other night she has acted as if she has no interest in me in this aread (sex). now she sleeps with me and the next morning cant give me a kiss on the lips. im wondering if she just used me since i was there or not? Any advice or suggestions?

2007-09-04 10:03:37 · 28 answers · asked by drew71670 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He doesn't trust her @ all. She has changed so much for him over the last year yet he is the only one who hasn't seen the change. I have tried to get along with him for her sake. He said some disrespectful things to me & I told her I was done. I'm don't even want to be around her if he is going to be there. Was that wrong of me? Let me clarify NOBODY in our circle of friends likes him or thinks he is right for her. Yet she claims she is in love.

2007-09-04 10:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by nosugamomma 2 in Friends

My son is 13, he was very attached to his stepmom and finally just got back to talking to his father. His dad has mental problems and the stepmom's went into a depression during the divorce from the dad's constant harrassment. She had a protection order but he was always in the gray area. He constantly dissed the stepmom to my son and refused to let him speak to her (per a court order). It was a stupid drawnout fight that the dad would draw my son into.

The son pulled away from the dad with all this drama and refused his summer visitation. He just finally started talking to his father now, guardedly but at least talked to him.

He adored this stepmom and she was a good stepmom, we got along fine.

I had the school counselor help me tell him, they notified all teachers, he is in counseling at the school for this they said. What else if anything do I do? I am at a loss now. I forsee him hating his father and right now he of course doesn't want to talk to him.

2007-09-04 10:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by Mulereiner 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 4 years in November. I take offense when my husband goes in the shower right after we make love. I do join him in the shower sometimes, but I'd rather cuddle for a few minutes. I mean I shower twice a day, so I know I don't stink. Whats up with that????

2007-09-04 10:01:49 · 15 answers · asked by Tristan Robert Due March 20 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so my guy and i have been seeing eachother since mid-june. Basically our "relationship" has been based on sex and i was fine with it. Now i have really began to like him and fall for him and i don't know how to tell him i want more. Lately we've been cuddling/watching movies but everytime we see eachother we have to have sex, we just cant "hang out". it was a FWB relationship but iwant more. We see eachother 2-3 times a week, call eachother "babe" and "hun" and are really affectionate to eachother. But the thing im scared of is he is embarressed of me. Im overweight and he only has me over when his roommates are in bed or not home. Once his roommate came home when i was over and he locked me in his room til he left. And whenever i have an empty place for the night he will stay for a few hours and go home, he wont sleep over. He makes werid excuses and says "next time". But everytime he makes a new excuse. What should i do? should i tell him how i feel or just end it? i really like him.

2007-09-04 09:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live in different towns because of college, but I travel 7 hours every weekend to see her. This past weekend she left me, saying that she has too much trouble for a relationship and feeling guilty about me putting so much effort into the relationship while she is not doing the same. The troubles that she is talking about is her mother's sickness. She has cancer, and it has gotten really serious lately. I know that she is going through really hard times, but why has she dumped me if I was only helping and supporting her? She also said that she wants a relationship with me when she gets over her problems, but I am really confused because if she still wants to be with me, why is she leaving me? I love this girl and I am willing to wait, but I don't want to live in an illusion. What should I do? What can I expect? Does she really wants a relationship with me or she is saying that just to be nice to me?

2007-09-04 09:58:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are, they only want a Thug and a Dope dealer and someone who will live off them and beat their asss, unlike the white woman, she is loyal, kind , commited and is straight forward and not to mention she knows how to keep her snatch smelling fresh unlike most sisters

2007-09-04 09:58:11 · 9 answers · asked by Loco 1 in Singles & Dating

I am preparing another argument for my Bioethics class. I would appreciate your thoughts. Thanks in advance!

2007-09-04 09:57:44 · 18 answers · asked by PoeticMD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 09:55:24 · 28 answers · asked by Bina Berry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 09:55:00 · 15 answers · asked by Linda M 3 in Friends

what I always hear is that the couple just stops communicating. I find this strange and alarming. I am planning to get married soon and my fear is this will eventually happen to me and my hubby to be. He is sometimes like this already. What do we do bout this?

2007-09-04 09:50:39 · 1 answers · asked by =) 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I posted a question earlier about my neighbor (also my husbands friend/co-worker). I get the feeling this guy does not like me at all. He is very friendly to my hubby but refuses to speak to me. All the responses so far everyone's saying that I am wrong for not wanting this guy on my property..... So what everyone is saying is that it would not bother them to have someone at their house they know doesn't like them??? You would have a cookout and feel comfortable inviting your nextdoor neighbor who refuses to speak to you?? So if me and my husband are in our yard playing with our kids and this guy comes into my yard with his girlfriend and introduces her to my husband but acts like I am not even there and does not introduce me.... you don't think that is kinda rude? Wow I am really suprised by all the responses and everyone saying that I am over-reacting. I think you people are wrong. I gurantee that if you thought someone didn't like you, you would feel uncomfortable around them!!

2007-09-04 09:48:26 · 3 answers · asked by missy1525 1 in Friends

bc he asked me out and i dk what to do!

2007-09-04 09:48:07 · 48 answers · asked by ballerina 33 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 09:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by party grl 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that ive liked for a long time.
a very good friend of mine asked him who he liked. he said he wanted to keep it a secret.
he only told her that it was someone on the tennis team (which narrows it down to 7 girls and i am one of them)
he told one of the girls on the tennis team and i already asked her but she wont tell me. she told another girl and she wont tell me either. so that narrows it down to 5 girls. then i heard the two girls talking to another girl on the tennis team and they were only giving the girl hints. they said it was either me or two of my friends. so that naroows it down to 3 girls. he has given me signs that he likes me but i dont know. the guy i like knows that im friends with the girl who asked him who he liked. i dont know. some hints hes given me were.......
1. said i had pretty eyes
2. drew a picture of me
3. he is always starring at me
4 and other things that are smaller. but he didnt do it to the other 3 girls. does he like me????

2007-09-04 09:46:48 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan A 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 09:43:08 · 27 answers · asked by Schlogy 1 in Singles & Dating

and then apologized for it the moment she turns back?

think HS

2007-09-04 09:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Thesheet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships