Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

my guy Nic is planning on moving to Washington until i turn 18, which is a while, he is wanting to leave because he doesn't want to hide our relationship from my mom, but if we tell her... we are taking a risk of her not approving because of my age, she knows Nic very well, and trust him, but that doesn't mean that her mother instict isn't going to still kick in, ya know? but he promises that if she were to ok it, then he would for sure stay here in Utah with me. we are almost possitive that she will not approve right now, and niether of us know what to do, we can't imagine not being together... he is the most amazing guy out there and we feel so strongly toward each other. we don't need anything but each other, we don't need sex, all we need is just to be able to hold each other, i just cant imagine him leaving, and not being able to see him anymore, so if any of you have any idea's just please, help. thank you very much.

2007-09-04 08:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont. =[ i did in july though.

2007-09-04 08:26:06 · 6 answers · asked by ♥i'm her♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm bored at work, so I figured I'd post this question, regardless of how stupid it is.

Is there any truth to the "two-day rule?" I usually don't date much, so I wouldn't know. But this guy asked me out on Sunday, so I gave him my number. He was really sweet, and we talked the whole night, so I'm pretty sure he's into me. The feeling is very much mutual, but he hasn't called yet.

I know you guys aren't mind readers, but you think he's just playing it cool. After all, it has only been two days. If you're a guy (or even if you're not), do you typically wait a few days before making the big move?

2007-09-04 08:25:17 · 15 answers · asked by Bella 4 in Singles & Dating

i found out 6 weeks ago that my x fiance was cheating on me. we havnt spoken in 2 weeks and i know i deserve better but i cry everyday still and am feeling depressed.i live alone so i feel lonely.i try to go out but i still feel crappy.anyone been though this before?any ideas on how i can feel better?thanks for your help!

2007-09-04 08:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ missing a soldier in Iraq ♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-04 08:21:36 · 2 answers · asked by leong k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can i make my own bouquet to look nice using silk flowers???? i am going to have a low budget wedding, and I feel that a lot of silk flowers look like the real thing.

2007-09-04 08:21:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im a guy and when i hang out with girls who wear low cut tops and they knowingly have their boobs hanging out of their shirt, i naturally stare at their boobs. why does if offend them/(you) when a guy stares at your boobs when ur flashing half of them for us to see. its like you want us to look at your boobs if your wearing something low cut and when we do you get pissed off or think were purvs when we do

2007-09-04 08:20:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 08:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First date was something of a group date with some friends of mine. she had a good time and wants to see me again. Since it's a weekday, i asked her if she wants to come over to my place, have dinner, sit on the deck with some music and a drink, and she said Yes! Now because she said yes to coming to my place on a second date, what should i expect? I don't want to miss an opportunity or mess it up by being too forward. what do you think? We haven't even kissed yet but she said she felt the same way i did after our first date (i told her that I thought she was drop dead gorgeous and i guess i was playing my cards to close to my vest because she didn't think i was that into her). So what is it that you think she's coming over for?. we're both adults (i'm 39 and she's 28). I don't want to blow this by being too forward or not forward enough.

2007-09-04 08:17:08 · 20 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Singles & Dating

In the bedroom?

2007-09-04 08:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My favorite song is "She's Everything to Me" by Brad Paisley... it makes me cry sometimes ....I had to take it off my ipod because it hurt to listen to it...

2007-09-04 08:14:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Constanty? I had a fight with a friend because of it. She gets 200 - 300 $ a week from her rich boyfriend and finds that normal. I beg to to differ. Plese dont be judgemental and dont insult.

2007-09-04 08:14:11 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 08:13:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and my dad absolutely hates him, (of course I live with my dad, since my Mom died last year) my question is we want to be together so much that we are thinking about moving far away..is this wrong to do?

2007-09-04 08:11:55 · 43 answers · asked by Ge Ge 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if a guy proposed setting up a situation where you were both naked on old (but clean!) sheets and you had much fruit and chocolate set up. It would start out orally: you both would feed one another. You would open your mouth and let the guy feed you and vice-versa. You could lick each others’ fingers clean with chocolate on them and kiss with whipped cream in your mouths while your tongues played. Then, as hormones intensified, you would begin to lay back and massage inner thighs and concentrate more on the other things.

Would you like to do this kind of thing that leads into something more?

2007-09-04 08:09:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well theres this boy that i've liked on and off for a year now and so did he. My friend told me that he said he really liked me but over the holidays we had fallen out and she had said some things about me but we made up and found out about what he said: which was he really liked me but what do i do i really like him and care for him soo much..

2007-09-04 08:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have u ever run away with sum1 u met online even though u have bin married to the other person for a few years.was there kids involved?was it the right thing to do.r u happier now like u thought ud be.
im not doing it by the way.im just bored and want to ask sum questions.

2007-09-04 08:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by cfcbluesgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and your just one of their options do not waste your time on them........ do you agree??

2007-09-04 08:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

I love this guy and i told my parents i want to marry him, but my parents are against it because he is from different caste. He's a great guy and i have known him for about 4 years now. My dad is very upset and my mom is always crying and they woun't talk to me. I hate the fact that im hurting them. How can i make them understand that i love them and don't want to hurt them but im doing this for my future and happiness.

2007-09-04 08:03:56 · 35 answers · asked by Sania 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He took me on one its my turn!

2007-09-04 08:03:42 · 24 answers · asked by Save the rave ;) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 08:03:14 · 33 answers · asked by williepuller 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When your spouses family is being rude, should you, or your spouse address the problem?

For me, I always confront my family members, and do so quickly, when they say things that are offensive to my wife (ie political references, personal beliefs, etc.). However, when my wife's family makes rude comments she does nothing about it.

I do not want to create an adversarial relationship with my in-laws by arguing, but my wife won't "step up to the plate" and address the rudeness. What do you do? What do you suggest?

2007-09-04 08:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-04 08:00:49 · 9 answers · asked by edsgirl3652 1 in Family

My husband and I are seperated, well not legally, but not living with each other anymore. I have a job at the local home depot, my daughter goes to school and son at daycare. I am not legally divorced because my ex pays about 350 a month for his son. And if I take him to court, #1 he may fight for custody, #2 I won't get as much child support from him (I already checked the percentage). So my question is, do I qualify for food stamps if I am legally still married? He makes good money, but he doesn't pay for anything for me except the 350. So since I am married, would they still take his income into account, or do I have to be legally divorced or seperated or what? Or do I just have to tell them we live apart. Thanks for your help.

2007-09-04 07:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes this happens, though they seem understand it was wrong and are punished sometimes. What makes a teen repeat the same mistakes, promise sincerely he/she won't make it any more, but end up doing again? Is this juat immaturity, part of growing up? How can we know they finally learned from their mistakes. What to do when we think they finally learned?

2007-09-04 07:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My good friend/roommate subleased her room to this girl. She wasn't a stranger because she was our other roommate's best friend. Well, those two both graduated and my friend's subleaser ran off without paying one month's rent! The subleaser girl moved out a day early too! They signed some papers with the leasing office just so that they knew the room was being subleased, but they say they can't do anything about it. We've called her many times, using many different people and many different phone numbers. We've tried emailing the subleaser girl as well as her bestfriend who was our old roommate. They both refuse to respond. It's really difficult to handle this because we are both out of the country. My friend was being nice and letting the subleaser girl pay later because she kept saying she didn't have the money on her. But she ended up running away. Is there anything we can do? It's $600 and we're college students that can't afford to lose $1.

2007-09-04 07:57:14 · 2 answers · asked by sunshine27 1 in Friends

Not only housework, but massages, pedicures, etc

2007-09-04 07:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We want to have a large wedding 250+ people. The more flowers and scenery, the better. We are looking for a park or possibly a golf course, or whatever will look nice.

2007-09-04 07:51:41 · 1 answers · asked by SamBo 1 in Weddings

i have a child with a guy that is now married. and the last visit they had he came back at me saying he feels that our child should be calling his wife mom, I am against the idea until it is our child is old enough to make this decision for herself, for one her father and the wife hasnt been in her life long enough for my child to be all that comfortable with either one of them, and he thinks im insecure about my place in my daughters life, which im not. my daughter is already confused by us not being together and why hes married and im not why would he want to bring another confusion for her? I know i do need to have a talk to her about the wifes involvement in her life but it is hard to tell her some things since the father tells her different on things i do talk to her about, to get her to think im lying to her and dont have her best interest at heart. I do need some ideas on how to go about this any ideas appreciated.

2007-09-04 07:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by augustgrl80 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so my boyfriend and I love to lay next to each other on the couch when watching a movie. He loves to cuddle, but I've never really been in a relationship where I actually loved the guy and cuddled with him and stuff, so I feel retarded, lmao. But, anyways, I'll get to my question now. Ok, so he's laying on his back and I'm laying next to him (his left side) and I lay my head on his chest and my arm is on him and all, but what the hell do I do with my friggin right arm?! I mean, I "lay" on my right arm for a while but it falls asleep, lol, so I have to do something?? And my couch is small, so yea. Help? =] lol. I feel so dumb xD But yea, help pleeease =] Thank you!

2007-09-04 07:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating