Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

We meet in April & have been going out since June. We have been out with his friends; I have been introduced to his social circle. But I just find out that as of July, he had a girlfriend. As of today, I do not know if he still does. WE haven’t said that we would be exclusive. So that said, Do U think he is a cheater?

What would U do?

1-Continue going out w/him, see where this thing take us.
2-Call him on the alleged girlfriend
3-Start to date other people without telling him that I’m dating others.

2007-09-04 09:07:08 · 40 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Singles & Dating

My 8 month old baby was taken 5 years ago. My abusive ex husband stole him out of my car. I am tormented every day. I am not allowed to see my baby boy. I don't know what to do anymore. I am tired of the pain, hurt, humiliation. Please help.

2007-09-04 09:04:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay, this is wat happend i kissed by bffs brother and he is 16 and he stayed back twice and noew he is my 9th grade class. it feels kinda weird to be near him in skool. well also because he tried doing other things to me to but wouldnt let him. but what do i do
please give me better answers

2007-09-04 09:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 in Friends

I was wondering if it was wrong for some one that is 15 (10th grade) to date some one that is around 11 or 12 (6th grade). I am just wondering. Please help me out here.

2007-09-04 09:01:38 · 34 answers · asked by Janessia 2 in Singles & Dating

i used to tell my boyfriend that i loved him everyday, at least once a day.. but now, i find it really uncomfortable. we had a little bit of a fight and ever since it's been uncomfortable. i've tried to figure it out but, i can't. any ideas?

2007-09-04 09:00:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They need to understand that don't be so scare or fear that asking black women out. There some white men are fear of rejection but maybe it's the black women are scare of rejection from y'all but know I am scare of rejection from a white man bc I'm not White or Asian.

2007-09-04 09:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You see, I had a -HUGE- crush on my best friend/his ex, and right then I knew that I was bisexual. And now I am going out with my current boyfriend, James, and this is KILLING me on the inside, but I don't know how to tell James because I am DEATHLY afraid he won't love me anymore because of it! Help D: I don't know what to do!

2007-09-04 08:59:42 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15...hes 15...He says he liked me.... the first thing he said apart from "hiya" on msn was "will you suck my dick"... he said he would come to my house 2 days in a row but failed to make it either even though it was his idea.... am i right in presumeing he does not like me at all??

i know i should stay away but the truth is i really love him andi just want him to love me back....got any ideas/??

2007-09-04 08:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend knows I'm a virgin and he totally respects it.. I'm ready to give it to him but I also know he has a thing for the Catholic schoolgirl uniform.. So do you think it would totally blow his mind if I lost my virginity to him in the uniform..I mean, its basically the essence of that fantasy. Or is it a little crazy for the first time?

And no he's not a pervert and we're of legal age.

2007-09-04 08:59:12 · 24 answers · asked by caliblonde100 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and me have been off and on latly but we are back on and everything was going good like it was when we first started dating untell i went and hung out with him this past weekend i mean he would not hold my hand and he would try and push me away but he would do it in a joking kind of way but it steal hurt and he had some of his friends over i was wondering is it b/c his friends where over that he was acting like that or was there more im worried i may lose him agian but he says i wont should i trust what he says?

2007-09-04 08:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I work about 20 mins away from my house and my car is no good anymore I have to get another one. But he doesn't work but does work over the internet that's how he makes money.....but sometimes he makes me catch the bus home because he calms it's to far to come pick me up....is that fair....and I can't drive his truck because I don't know how to drive a stick and he needs it sometimes.

2007-09-04 08:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then they cancel

2007-09-04 08:54:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was married for almost 10 years and, every guy I date is a waste of time. We married early so I think of this as a selection process. But the more I date the less progress I think I'm really making. We've been seperated for almost two years now, and I haven't had a relationship since. The crazy part is, I never look to date men, I get asked out all the time and alot of times I do say no. But I feel lonely, so I will go out with someone. Every now and then. Has anyone ever felt they will stay unattached? I'm not looking to remarry, simply companionship.

2007-09-04 08:52:17 · 26 answers · asked by RDark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this man what his wife's name is and he stated, "Mrs. (his last name)." I said, "Doesn't she have her own identity?"
I later discovered that he is very unhappily married. Why would a man not say his wife's name? What gives?

2007-09-04 08:48:52 · 19 answers · asked by willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you've seen a guy a couple times... you're interested but its been a few days since you've last seen eachother. whats the preferred method of him contacting you?

2007-09-04 08:46:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 08:46:11 · 27 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating

Is the attraction (physical & mental) strong enough that this is someone you would choose to go out with if it was an option.
(This has nothing to do with having kids together. This is strictly how you look at your spouse.)

I can honestly say, I doubt I would even notice my husband let alone be interested in going on a date with him.

2007-09-04 08:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by candy'sroom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week I came home and found used condoms all over the place. I know they were not mine because I have not used condoms in 2 years. My girlfriend said that she and her friends were just playing with them. I then tasted the stuff inside one and realized it was semen. Do you think she is cheating on me?

2007-09-04 08:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my so called friend is being a pissy *****. I asked her to come over today and she said after she eats. Then after she was done i asked her to come over again and she said "No" she is always on a so called Gaiaonline website and the only time she ever wants to come over is when her mom kicks her off the computer. then she got mad when i said"You never want to come over" then she complained that i never ask her but the truth is that i asked her almost every day of the summer and she only came over ONCE, and when she did she left 20 minutes later after i wouldn't let her go on my computer cause i wanted to go swimming. then i tolf her that she could have asked to come over the days i didn't ask her or she could have asked me to hang out but she was like "No It makes no sense to ask". She is just so bitchy. What do i do? HELP!

2007-09-04 08:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Im not T 2 in Friends

today i was walking to the bus after school and some 9th grade guy starts yelling out a window at me- "hey sexy!yeah! woohoo! sexy!" to me this was soo irritating because i dont even the guy . just want some opinions. thanks!

2007-09-04 08:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

girlfriend and i definately will get married sometime in the future. but she doesnt want a destination wedding, nor a big wedding-elaborate, not a simple justice of the peace thing. so what type of wedding choice is left? married ladies help me out! i am so lost! this doesnt make sense! what in the world "other" type wedding is there? i am clueless! thanks.

2007-09-04 08:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by gr33n_babe 1 in Weddings

months and the first two months were great, but then he pulled this I'm not ready for serious relationship because of his last break-up and that he just needs time to himself. I confronted him about the fact that I think that if he thought I was the right one he would get over and want to be with me. He denied that and still tells me that he cares about and likes me so much and that he is sad how things turned out. I think he's just sad that I wasn't the one, that's what I think. I really want to be with him and only him, but I can't be with someone who sees no potential for a possible future. We are both 23 and I don't want to get married anytime soon, but still. It just hurts so much. I just can't do the "casual" thing. He still wants to see me and he calls me EVERY night even though I told him he doesn't need to feel obligated. FYI-and he doesn't want to keep seeing me because he is getting free sex. I don't sleep with a guy that isn't my boyfriend. What should I do?

2007-09-04 08:35:59 · 20 answers · asked by Psychgirl35 3 in Singles & Dating

They are all so loyal but I need a best friend to talk to about personal thoughts and feelings !!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-04 08:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by annapaige DD 1 in Friends

I bring home the bacon, I should get to spend the money on bacon for myself.

Mmmmm.. . . . . Bacon. . . . . . .

2007-09-04 08:33:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My stepbrother is doing and selling drugs out of my 78yrs old dads house. He has stolen from my dad and does not work. My dad says not to do anything because it just causes problems. (That is hard to do) This step is 24 and is making my dads life hell. If we turn him in to the law i am afraid that my dad will go deeper in debt to get him out of trouble and also give him a stroke. How do i get this step to leave, get help or to get arrested without my father getting hurt. I do have more on this subject, so let me ask me anything. Please help me......

2007-09-04 08:32:39 · 3 answers · asked by tallorder60 1 in Family

My 15 year old daughter is now living with me. She lived with her father from age 10 until now in another state. He moved due to job reasons and sent her to me.

She is starting in a new High School tomorrow. She found out that the high school where she is going has low test scores and a history of gang related incidents. There are also bad influences around the school.

My ex-husband gave us both a choice of coming to where he lived so that we could start over as a family. I did not go because I did not see his controlling or verbally mean nature changing.

I feel bad now because she will not be going to a good High School and its all my fault. I am very nervous!

I can not change schools and afford to send her to a private school now.

Have I messed up her life forever?

2007-09-04 08:32:16 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I am 62 and want to be very active sexually but my wife only will allow it one or two times a week.Can anyone offer me any help?

2007-09-04 08:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and for the past month and a half we seem to just sit in silence when we call each other. We live 7 hours away from one another so we're basically limited to talking on the phone inbetween weekend visits 2 - 3 times a month. We used to talk constantly on the phone, but now I can't seem to think of anything to talk about with her that would result in more of an answer than "Yes" or "No". I know it's frustrating for both of us and I just want us to be able to talk again... cause I know that this can't keep going on otherwise I'm going to lose her. I know I'm not the greatest conversationalist in the world, but I just want to be able to enjoy talking on the phone with her again.

2007-09-04 08:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A lot of people think that the initial rush you get from being sexually intimate with someone new is the best. I do think that sex gets better over time once you find out what buttons to push and completely get to know the other person.

2007-09-04 08:29:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had a drug problem, lost his job, never completed his studies and has been unemployed for 4 years. He is possessive, controlling and selfish. I have to leave town often due to the nature of my work. He always calls, emails and says the worse things to me, implying that I am cheating on him, not concerned about our kids, want everything my way. We may not get visitors because he is not comfortable around people, as a result I don't have any friends and feel completely isolated.

2007-09-04 08:27:59 · 22 answers · asked by gregorywer 2 in Marriage & Divorce