my so called friend is being a pissy *****. I asked her to come over today and she said after she eats. Then after she was done i asked her to come over again and she said "No" she is always on a so called Gaiaonline website and the only time she ever wants to come over is when her mom kicks her off the computer. then she got mad when i said"You never want to come over" then she complained that i never ask her but the truth is that i asked her almost every day of the summer and she only came over ONCE, and when she did she left 20 minutes later after i wouldn't let her go on my computer cause i wanted to go swimming. then i tolf her that she could have asked to come over the days i didn't ask her or she could have asked me to hang out but she was like "No It makes no sense to ask". She is just so bitchy. What do i do? HELP!
2007-09-04 08:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Im not T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm so pissed right now
2007-09-04 08:44:58 · update #1
I think you and your friend do not have much in common and not to sound harsh,but I don't think she wants to be your friend.So don't spend your time and energy on this person,she probably is not thinking about this as much as you are.Move on and spend time with other and new friends. I hope I've helped you!
2007-09-12 02:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by ana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you can join in and see exactly what this website is all about. If she either says 'No' or it's something you don't want to get involved in, then just talk to her.
Tell her you miss her and if doesn't start treating you properly, then you won't hang around much longer.
If she's a real friend she'll talk to you and see your point of view, if she doesn't then she obviously isn't a good friend and is someone you can do without.
Hope this helps and things work out for you x
2007-09-04 23:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kirk_84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you're pissed, I would feel the same way. Your friend clearly has an addiction to the Web site that she's been visiting. When it begins to run one's life, it's a problem. Unfortunately you can't force her to purge her addiction, that's something she'll have to do on her own.
I know this isn't the popular answer, but you may want to start looking for other close friends. Don't exclude her or delete her from your life, but you can't wait around for someone who has other interests that have nothing to do with real-life people.
2007-09-04 08:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got the feeling that your Friend has a problem, being on the Internet all the time ,should show you all RED FLAGS all over the place. She is talking to some one who is telling her how much he cares for her or talk to me more,or even trying to have her meet this guy, its something in that order! You know that you can get in to deep trouble on the Internet. I ASK YOU DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHO YOU ARE TALKING TO THINK ABOUT THAT!
2007-09-09 22:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is your friend talking to online. i think you need to sit down and check out whats shes up to.
will she let you go online with her, at least you can see whats so good about this website it might be something bad and so you should talk to her about it before it goes too far!
if all is ok then maybe your just going in different directions but if not then be her friend ask her whats up and if you can help good luck x
2007-09-04 08:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by leanne_on_line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call her. let her call you. go places without her. she will see all the fun that your having and want to be apart. she will miss you and see why you was so concerned about her and her computer. right now she just don't understand.
2007-09-12 03:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by dachocolatequeen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not a so called friend and i would put her on the out list. you need to have someone that wants to interact with you and that is what you need to find a real friend.
2007-09-07 17:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY DUMP HER AZZ IF SHE CANT BE THERE FOR U WHEN U NEED HER THEN IT NOT WORTH IT MY BEST FRIEND DIDNT EVEN CALL ME ON MY B-DAY. SO I KNOW HOW U FEEL U CAN ALWAYS FIND ANOTHER BEST FRIEND WITHOUT A PROB
2007-09-12 06:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by hvtcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess your so called friend is human too
2007-09-04 09:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats great....Be angry at the world and everything will be better.....
2007-09-04 08:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Contorted Brains 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋