I asked this man what his wife's name is and he stated, "Mrs. (his last name)." I said, "Doesn't she have her own identity?"
I later discovered that he is very unhappily married. Why would a man not say his wife's name? What gives?
2007-09-04 08:48:52 · 19 answers · asked by willow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it shows that they have a very cold relationship like a coworker since they are not so close he took it so formal
2007-09-04 09:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have four (4) choices #1. wait and see if any more incrimating evidence shows up least risky. #2. call the number again and find out why the number is in your husbands phone,it might just be a buisness contact. slightly more risky as if it's your hubands mistress she may allready have a prearanged answer just in case you call and for sure she will tip off your husband to your calling and he may also have a prearanged answer that might end up with you being on the defensive in a argument about marital trust. #3. hire a private detective or investigator to shadow your husband whenever he's not with you THIS MIGHT BE COSTLY ESPECIALY IF IT DRAGS ON I WOULD HAVE HIM SHADOWED FOR ABOUT A WEEK TO TEN (10) DAYS AND SEE WHAT THE DETECTIVE COMES UP WITH. Even more risky, being that if your husband figures out that he is being shadowed he might confront the detective and find out why he is being shadowed and who hired the detective and then again you end up on the defensive end of a argument about marital trust.#4. Confront your husband with the fact that you found a strange number in his phone and when you called it a woman answered .most risky as now if the number is something innocent then you are going to look like a wife that can't trust her husband and the fact that it was nothing will only compound the problem and your husband may leave you on the grounds of your lack of trust. But another thing may happen, the woman who's number is on the phone is his mistress and now since you know whats going on he may leave you anyway.
2016-05-21 03:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to give you information that would help you to contact her if you wanted to. Do you know he's unhappily married, or is that just him telling you that?
2007-09-04 09:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you know any more than you did if he said his wife's name was Mary... and it wasn't?
He could have told you anything.
Don't worry about it. If he's having an affair, that's not your concern. And if he gave you a wrong name... he's also a liar.
Move on.
2007-09-04 09:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by ahnikarose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants it kept private. Who cares anyway? Don't get caught up in the details - some people are more private than others, some people choose odd issues to exert their privacy. You know he's married, just move on.
2007-09-04 08:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ann 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something there is no need for you to know his wifes name becausse he didnt want you to have her name. you found out that his marriage wasent going to well and now you think you have the answer it could be him or it could be her men only give enough informatin to let you get interested and then.
best of luck
2007-09-04 14:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does wanna be with her and he just trys to block her out of his personal life since hes unhappily married
2007-09-04 08:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't matter what her name is. But you know that he has a wife so stay away from him. If he is unhappy then his wife needs to be there for him not you.
2007-09-04 08:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by vvvlambert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it important for you to know her name? what purpose does it serves?
i don't know why we as females always want to know the other girls name.
i guess like you say it gives them an identity of their own. maybe it is our way of coming to terms that that other person exist.
and it is a control thing on his part. he knows you want to know something that he only has access to. be alert when he is talking or others talking around him to him, her name will come up.
or best next thing ---snoop around. you will find what you are looking for
2007-09-04 08:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely he is probably having an affair...and not knowing her first name...will make it more difficult to contact her if anyone were to find out about the affair.
2007-09-04 08:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was this in a casual conversation with a man or is it a man that you are getting involved with??? more than likely, you're involved with him...don't worry, i don't judge. he won't tell you her name because he's afraid you'll seek her out and tell her. or because he can't speak her name when he's with another woman...it makes him feel too guilty! men are strange creatures. they think we're hard to understand?! well, they are even worse!
2007-09-04 09:00:56 · answer #11 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋