Would U consider him a cheater?

Question

We meet in April & have been going out since June. We have been out with his friends; I have been introduced to his social circle. But I just find out that as of July, he had a girlfriend. As of today, I do not know if he still does. WE haven’t said that we would be exclusive. So that said, Do U think he is a cheater?

What would U do?

1-Continue going out w/him, see where this thing take us.
2-Call him on the alleged girlfriend
3-Start to date other people without telling him that I’m dating others.

BTW: I really like this guy...I knw is stupid

Answer 1

If he had a "girlfriend" then unless their relationship was open, he was cheating on her. Since you don't consider yourself his girlfriend, he wasn't cheating on you but still should've been up front about not being exclusive with you.

Speak to him about it...don't date others w/o telling him (you don't like it done to you, do you?), but also don't just continue on as if there's no issue. Ask him about the girlfriend, their situation, and if he is cheating on her then you can decide if you want to put yourself at (the high) risk of him cheating on you as well.

Answer 2

2

Answer 3

2

Answer 4

If you guys never agreed that the relationship is exclusive, it's not cheating and you don't have a right to "call him" on anything. If you would like to make the relationship exclusive, you should sit down and tell him so but the absolute worst thing anyone can do two months into a non-exclusive relationship is start acting jealous/possessive - and if you mention the other chick, there's really no way that you're going to be able to convince him that you're not jealous. Don't go out and date other people and not tell him before you make your feeling known either. That's just playing games and no one has the time or the inclination to deal with that kind of bs.

Answer 5

I would NOT consider that cheating, and not just cause I am a guy. The two of you have not sat down and talked at all about what your relationship is or what it's limits are.
What I would do is sit down with him at some point, and ask him what he wants and expects from this relationship and then explain clearly what it is that you want and expect. Don't bring up the gf b/c it might not even factor into the discussion.
Remember, any relationship that is real and will hopefully last is built and based on trust, openess and honesty. Be honest with yourself and him and he should also do the same for you. Neither of you wants to be hurt from a misunderstanding, and if this relationship is not as deep as you think it is, then wouldn't you rather know now then go further and fall further with something that is not real? Good luck.

Answer 6

One you do not know for a fact he did have a girlfriend, now do U? Either tell him you heard he has a girlfriend besides U: or ask him. If he is cheating, it is on her not you; and he is a cheater on her why or what would stop him from cheating on U later if U two have a relationship?
But first find out if there really is another girl in the picture to be concerned about in the first place!

Answer 7

Did he do something to give you the idea that it was and exclusive relationship? If you felt that you were led on then I would consider it cheating, but guys tend to see things in a very different light.


I would not confront him about the girlfriend, but more about where your relationship together stands. If you are exclusive or both want to be in the near future. If it is something you want and he does not, then it might be time to move on.

Don't stoop to his level and see other people without telling him. It might hurt the chances of having something else in the future. He might have broken up with the girlfriend for you

Answer 8

Yes, he is a cheater. It doesn't have to be said verbally that it is an exclusive relationship. If I were you I would just end it and tell him it's because he cheated on you. It happened to one of my friends. She met this guy and then he asked her to be his gf. She said yes. About a few weeks after that she called him and his brother answered the phone. His brother said that he was out with his girlfriend. She asked him about it and he admitted it. His excuse was that all of his ex-gfs cheated on him and before she cheated on him he might as well cheated on her first. So, she broke up with him. Now she's been married with a wonderful guy and they got 3 kids. My suggestion to you is to get rid of him and find somebody who loves you and only you. To me, a cheater will always be a cheater. It's in the blood.

Answer 9

The same thing happened to me. I started really liking this guy, and we would hook up and stuff all the time. Then one day i find out he has a girlfriend, and the weird thing was that I've met his girlfriend before. But stupid me, i kept doing things with him, knowing he had a girlfriend, i was doing stuff with other guys too. Cause technically he used me, cause his girlfriend was away at school. Then i met someone else, that didn't use me. I was still friends with this guy, and i asked him about having a girlfriend while we were "together" and he denied it. I know he was lying.

But to answer your question, yes it is cheating, and i would confront him on having a girlfriend asap, before its too late, and you get even more hurt.

Answer 10

none of the above, question his alleged g/f if its true
move on
its my test if someone likes me they wont go out with others just as you dont
find a guy that cares enough to be exclusive to you

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