Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

Should I go out with this boy again, we used to go out until he said he wanted to break up to go out with my friend but she turned him down. Do you think I should go back out with him?

2007-09-04 11:29:47 · 12 answers · asked by a_nicole313 4 in Singles & Dating

The reason I broke up with him is due to his physical abuse.He was charged and spent a year in jail (2nd time).He's out now and cannot contact me or our children; in/directly for 6 mths as per my request. I decided to b-up w/him n went to family court 2 get/got sole custody of both children as he was threatening to take them. Now he refuses to pay child support as ordered by the Judge.I had no choice but to apply w/maintenance enforcement to get the pymts for me.This is all b/c I refuse to take him back and b/c I no longer want to be his punching bag. What do I do now? Sit and wait...patiently???

2007-09-04 11:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how come we laugh when we see peoples buttcracks hanging out? the other day i was in a supermarket called (somerfield) anyone no of it? and i was looking at the lower shelf and i didnt no my buttcrack was showing till to girls who worked there walked past n seconds later started laughing! but why laugh at a girl or boys butt crack showing? i didnt mea for my crack to show but hey it happens to evryone im sure even them how laugh at me! so why laugh or what do you do when you seen one?

2007-09-04 11:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime a girl wants to break up with a guy, I always hear the girl say the word "clingy." It's just overused now, honestly. I'm not saying all, but almost every girl I hear about, uses the word 'clingy', when breaking up with a guy, whether it be a relationship, or just a friendship. If a girl wants to break up with a guy...just do it. Don't use a ploy, like the word 'clingy'. If anything, using that, is colder than just ending it.

What do you think? Guys and Girls

2007-09-04 11:19:13 · 9 answers · asked by βread⊆ℜumbs™ 5 in Singles & Dating

What do I do?
I know this guy at school who's a year older than me. (I'm a sophomore and he's a junior). I've never really talked to him but he seems like a cool guy to get to know and it'd be nice if he asked me to homecoming. I don't have any classes with him so how do I get to know him? I'm pretty shy and not the type of person to just go up and talk to somebody.

2007-09-04 11:18:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved to Montana to be with my boyfriend. I lefted everything and everyone. To be with him.I come from the deep south, I do not understand the ways of the north. Things are so different and stressing. I have tryied sitting down and talking with him. To work on the issues at hand. Like for ex- He watch TV all the time or on the computer. Don't clean house that much. He has a housekeeper that does , that for him. He don't go out that much, at all. I thought I could help by showing him what he was missing out on. By sitting in the house all the time. He worries about the time, when there is no need to worry about it. Someone please help me......Not sure what I can do at this point. No matter how hard I try, he still don't get it. He don't see me sometimes.
We did break up, But Im staying here, intill i get the money to go home. He still touches me, kisses me. Says he wants me to stay intill his birthday. Other times he wants me to stay and give him a neither chance. What do I do????

2007-09-04 11:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetblue85 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 11:16:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am best friends with this guy that has been there for me through thick and thin... he is always hugging me and telling me he loves me... I'm sure he means it in a friendly way... but I have feelings for him. I am a non denominational christian and a worship leader at my church... and he is a Latter Day Saint.

I didn't start out loving him... or even liking him in that way. We have been best friends since the very start and it is because of that and all that I know about him that I started to fall for him. Help me know what to do with all of this.

2007-09-04 11:12:25 · 22 answers · asked by Sarah 3 1 in Singles & Dating

ashley r. love or amber r. love

2007-09-04 11:12:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what i like am i supposed 2.what do i supposed to look for you guys and girls tell me.guys do you like the girls with short skirts and belly shirts or what?girls do you like the guys all lined up and with a GREAT body or what?tell me how you like em kissy-bubbles

2007-09-04 11:09:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My niece who is 18 year old turning 19 years old in the upcoming weeks wants to get pregnant so her 15 year old boyfriend he turns 16 i think at the end of the school year will have to marry her?I am very concerned her parents are divorced have been since she was 10 yrs old .Since then she has gotten kicked out of 3 different boarding schools and caused so much trouble failing classes,getting arrested for assulting her step mother, and a DUI neither of her parents want to deal with her.I was asked my her mom (my sister) to take her in for her senior year of highschool.Its been a year and half since she's been living with me. I got her to graduate HS through a lot of nagging and even got her to sign up for classes at the local community college.She seemed to be turning around till i found the ovulation kit and when i confronted her she said she wanted to ensure her bf would have to marry her?What do i do?

2007-09-04 11:08:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Apparently, it is not against the law.

2007-09-04 11:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Lou 1 in Singles & Dating

My social life... is terrible kids are always making fun of me just because im a little over wieght and i probably have the brain they wish they had so i wonder should i keep my head up or should i just give up on llife!! and should i just give up on f****n love becuase nobody likes me at sk00l!!! so really i think i should give up on love please tell me what to do. Thanxx!!

2007-09-04 11:08:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

umm ok well im 14 and i just got my 1st bf and he wants to start kissing but ive never in my life kissed some 1 on the lips before so i just wanted to know how your suposed to do it! like are there any ways i can practice kissing so that i can get good at it?? lol

2007-09-04 11:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by emo kid 1 in Singles & Dating

what would u rather have a expensive ring or not? my soon to be finace bought me a ring off of ebay and it was between 70 -100 dollars. i love the ring even though it doesnt have real dimonds in it. yes i have seen it.

2007-09-04 11:03:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i broke up with him because he got better looking and girls started hanging with him and im the jealous type its almost been a year sense we broke up and now i cant get him off my mind should i talk to him more tell him please but just to let u know im the kind of person whos very shy

2007-09-04 11:01:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a good full time job.I was the only assistant til the doctor hired another person who had no experience.He had 1 assistant for 25 yrs,so I don't understand why he hired her when we don't need 2 people to do 1 job.I do my work and never leave til all my work's done.The other person is part time.Eversince he hired her, they have been buddys.They sit and talk at lunch, when she leaves for the day he is always extra thankful to her.They whisper to eachother around corners and makes me and the office girl feel uncomfortable.The office girl has been buying his daughter things for her bday.etc.since she's been born and he hardly thanks her.But when the new person buy his daughter things,he is always thanking her.I'd say he's doing her but she's too Edith Bunker for that.Maybe it's because she's the oldest of me and the other girl.She's 45.She's nice but he favors her alot.I even get blamed for things she leaves undone.I say it's her but he just walks off and don't listen to me. Ahhhhh!

2007-09-04 11:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by toothfairy.2006 3 in Friends

only once he cheated on his past girlfriend last year,
and he likes me and i like him...
im pretty sure he is going to ask me out but idk if he'll cheat again, i dont want to take that risk of being hurt, but i really like him...

so do you think people who cheat deserve a second change, [he didnt cheat on me, but one of his past g.fs] or should i just move on and forget him [once a cheater.. always a cheater..?]

thnx<3

2007-09-04 11:00:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If anyone can send me the links to a good site with clear images of the stationery I would appreciate it greatly. Silly as it may seem my hubby likes to see the stationery rather than just blank notebook paper :P Thanks All!!!
_Proud Marine Wife_

2007-09-04 11:00:12 · 1 answers · asked by Siren 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat does he/she do to make u feel on top of the world

2007-09-04 10:57:39 · 47 answers · asked by Carolyn S 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i just got molested by my aunts fiance b cuz i was living there n all but then my aunt dont believe me after he said he was guilty of all the charges n so now she kicked me out of the house n i was living with my botfriend which is 250 miles away n now i live with my dad But my Man Shane says we can still make this work b cuz i am his one true love n he really is mine do you think we can still make this work if we really love each other???????

2007-09-04 10:55:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy is more 'calm', like sometimes doesnt say much ?? not as in never saying anything, just like being 'noticeably untalkative.....(but being otherwise nice kind cool bla bla )
does that make you feel like hes not interested? or arrogant? or boring????
how could i avoid it?

2007-09-04 10:54:13 · 1 answers · asked by rtyertyret 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this possible without the possibility of sex?

2007-09-04 10:53:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I are crazy in love planning to get married in the spring and well he wants to have sex. I want to have sex too but to me it means so much. Its a special bond between two people in love and I want candles and music and he says sex is just sex and doesn't mean much. what do you think about sex?

2007-09-04 10:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Singles & Dating

im movin and im levin all my friends behind im kinda scared help me!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-04 10:52:17 · 3 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Friends

How do you act around a girl you like?

Here is a short story can you give me your opinion on whether or not you think this guy likes me?

Ok. Theres this guy in my graphic art/ webpage design class at school and he is also in my finance class. In graphic art, he is always trying to make me laugh (it works too) and he is very friendly and talks to me all the time. He also follows me to my 3rd block Pre-Algebra class. Everyday in finance when he walks by my chair, he tries to tickle me and pokes me on the back or messes up my hair. Every single time I see him, he smiles at me. Do you think he likes me? I think he does but what is your opinion?

By The Way: The guys name is Cordell

All opinions are greatly appreciated!

2007-09-04 10:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

the guy i like is really shy around me, is it ok if i make the first move and give him my number and/or ask him out? any hints on getting him to say yes?

2007-09-04 10:48:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I say it was a shallow conversation, and couldn't tell much about a person by it. What comes to your mind?

I was in class and said this. We had to ask each other questions about our interests and hobbies.

The whole class, teacher included misconstrued what I said. They thought I was saying the girl was shallow.

Was I unclear?

2007-09-04 10:44:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like girls that have morals and dont sleep around...so it always saddens me when i like a girl and i hear or see pictures on facebook of her doing disgusting thigs like drinking herself to death, taking drugs and going around with guys...but i like this particular girl and i cant tell if she gets around...what are the signs, and how can i tell?

2007-09-04 10:44:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

100 guy secrets. are they true?
I KNOW ITS ALOT TO READ, but im just wondering if these are true. So, guys tell me the truth!



1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
11. When guys want to meet your parents...let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is...drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up...believe me...he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what...uh...never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"...or makes any excuses when you'reasking him to do you a favor, he's actually
saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no",guys hears it as "try again 2morrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime...he does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve...girls are guy's weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty...even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but...her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive...so watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl...he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms...no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed on you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain...when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things...not their hair!
97. If someone says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships.


REMINDER: Test a guy first if he's really the one. Some are just pretending to be the one.

2007-09-04 10:38:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating