I moved to Montana to be with my boyfriend. I lefted everything and everyone. To be with him.I come from the deep south, I do not understand the ways of the north. Things are so different and stressing. I have tryied sitting down and talking with him. To work on the issues at hand. Like for ex- He watch TV all the time or on the computer. Don't clean house that much. He has a housekeeper that does , that for him. He don't go out that much, at all. I thought I could help by showing him what he was missing out on. By sitting in the house all the time. He worries about the time, when there is no need to worry about it. Someone please help me......Not sure what I can do at this point. No matter how hard I try, he still don't get it. He don't see me sometimes.
We did break up, But Im staying here, intill i get the money to go home. He still touches me, kisses me. Says he wants me to stay intill his birthday. Other times he wants me to stay and give him a neither chance. What do I do????
2007-09-04 11:18:29 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetblue85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He not sure what he wants. Some days he dont say more than a few words to me.
2007-09-04 11:20:12 · update #1
Sounds like my ex. Is his name George?
Look, he's a hermit, and he likes to have the company of a pet (you, dear) nearby when he gets a little lonely is all. He sounds very anti-social, limited affection, selfish, reclusive, superficial (into non-human devices rathar than into you).
I tried to set as an "example" to my ex, and after almost 20 yrs, I gave up. He was happiest being miserable. Now, he is happily married to himself. My brother thought he could make his ex "happy", but she, too was happiest being miserable. You can't change people from the inside.
Either they are the right person from the get-go.....or they aren't.
Suggest you be respectful of him while you gather your pennies together to make your mad dash away. Don't let him in any further on your plans. You need to get back among "normal" people in a "normal" environment. He may have a fit once he figures out that you are going thru with your plans. Just quietly slip away at your earliest convenience.
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2007-09-04 11:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand. What has happened is that he's realized that you don't want to be with him anymore, so for him that means no kisses or a housekeeper/cook. DON'T go back to him!! By doing that it just makes him think he can get away with everything. Work until you can afford somewhere else to go and don't talk to him anymore. If he wanted you, he should have treated you right in the first time. It may seem hard, but you deserve someone so much better!
2007-09-04 11:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he has some problems. But I know my personality is sorta this way, I often spend a lot of time alone. I think if you were to ask my friends about me you would find I really care about others, but I just not the party type and like to stay home.
He sounds like a homebody, so I don't think it's going to work out for you.
2007-09-04 11:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it is a sad event but i think the problem has it root some where at the beginnning of your relationship something you did not noticed or ignored, my advice is that you search your heart if you want to stay or you can go if he still wants you he will come for you, you know what you want and only you know how to get it
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2007-09-04 11:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by kessy thug thing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in quite a turmoil here. Ask yourself this - is this how you want to live? Are you willing to remain unhappy and away from your family for this man?
Do not settle for anything less than what makes you happy, there's a lot of men out there......
2007-09-04 11:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by windandwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the middle starts off beating at 5 weeks so which you have gotten the skill to be sure it at 6 weeks. My sister observed her infant's heartbeat at 6 weeks. If there is not any heartbeat your medical expert could have you ever come back in at yet all over lower back.
2016-10-03 23:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like trouble to me.
The man has issues.
Go back before things get really bad.
2007-09-04 11:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to stay until his birthday? So you can get him a present?
And being from the North or South has absolutely NOTHING to do with your problems!!!! You saying you don't have "couch potatoes" in the south?
2007-09-04 11:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! well ur boyfriend don't know what he is missing out on u sound like a really nice girl because me i won't move n leave every thing behind girl u brave. i won't do that unless i know i had help. but I'm not here 2 pass judgment do what u have 2 do.
2007-09-04 11:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by chanel A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks as youhave already pretty much made up your mind and he dont have a mind to make up. Get out while ya still can and find someone that has same likes as you and have some fun.
2007-09-04 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by jtripiano 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋