My boyfriend and I are crazy in love planning to get married in the spring and well he wants to have sex. I want to have sex too but to me it means so much. Its a special bond between two people in love and I want candles and music and he says sex is just sex and doesn't mean much. what do you think about sex?
2007-09-04 10:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by camdensmommy07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy sex means different things at different stages of life.When I was younger it was like a conquest,as I got older and fell in love with the girl I married it became something special between the 2 of us and still is.
2007-09-04 10:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the most special way to love your spouse. It can show how much the two of you really love each other. He should be able to wait until your both married. If he really loves and cares for you he won't make a big deal about it and should take your feelings on the topic into consideration.
Congrats on your engagement!!
2007-09-04 10:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by jose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon that is just his immaturity talking ! I am a 47 year old christian man and sex is a holy union between a bride and groom ! I am disabled and divorced and I will not have sex agsain unless I am on my honeymoon. It is just the right thing in the lord"s eyes ! I have been celibate for 22 years !
2007-09-04 11:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is very wrong. sex isn't just sex... it is a special bond between two people who care for each other. it sort of sounds like he is in a hurry to have sex...make sure that he doesn't break your heart
2007-09-04 11:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem female this is even from my own journey. If a guy somewhat loves a female, no longer something like intercourse has to do with the dedication ingredient. intercourse in spite of everything do no longer tutor dedication. dedication could be that a guy status by using you whether you have no longer have been given any actual courting. in no way have faith a guy in this one. save your virginity till marriage on your husband.
2016-12-12 18:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by behl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most wonderful thing I have come across yet. You might want to reconsider marrying this Neanderthal.
2007-09-04 10:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is a wounderfull way to express feelings, blow off stress, and showing your partner, what your likes are
2007-09-04 10:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better think about it carefully ask these questions 2 urself do i like him? do i wanna be wit him 4ever? does he like me? well up 2 u, like i say once u lose ur virginity u cant get i bak =)
2007-09-04 10:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course is wonderful, and is even more wonderful if you care a lot for that person
2007-09-07 11:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since i never had it, im guessing pleasure
2007-09-04 10:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋