Family & Relationships - 4 September 2007

what should a wedding program consist of? The vows? What else?

2007-09-04 09:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have many friends why not many more

2007-09-04 09:38:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

semen on clothes? is there a product or lab where I can take it to test it?

2007-09-04 09:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by naughty_angel_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every year it seems like i change schools... well thts because i do... most of the time im changing because of my parents well this last time i changed becase i chose too. Well, its a new school with new people a new year... should i change from my old ways to new ways... if i stop hiding behind my past... is there any way that i can move forward and not be so scared of what people think? Plz Help!

2007-09-04 09:36:00 · 2 answers · asked by Hannah Lynn 1 in Friends

i like old men.

2007-09-04 09:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by the girl ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-04 09:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by Lonely Kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a 10 year reunion coming up,and im not going but it has come across to me that at least i wont have to explain why after 10 years im only making minium wage and not using my licenses i went to school for. doesnt it just really matter if your happy?anyone ever felt this way

2007-09-04 09:34:44 · 14 answers · asked by soulm8s7 2 in Friends

I am seperated after a 5 year relationship and 4 years of marriage...I have, I thought a best friend of 25 years that does not agree with what I have done...heck neither do I. I cheated, I own it and I did it. WELL, she has decided to play both sides...telling things that I entrusted in her for years and especially over the past months. She has her skeletons but I choose not to play that game with her. She says she told these things to her boyfriend and he went to my husband and told him. I have not totally told my husband everything felt like I had already caused enough pain. So what do I do...do I write her off...she is going in for gastric bypass surgery which I had back in October 2006 she has hers Wednesday and I do plan on being there...she doesn't not want to be with this guy. I keep thinking she is pushing me to tell her discretions so he will leave...maybe I should??

2007-09-04 09:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by Angela W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My step-daughter is a bed wetter. She stopped wetting the bed when she was 2, started again when she was 4, is now 5. I think it started again cause of stress a lot has happened in a year. We had been working hard with her when she stays with us to limit fluid intake at night and making sure she goes potty before she goes to bed. All of the things you can due to help a child who wants to stop wetting the bed. She tells me constanly that she want to stop and that she doesn't like doing it. Well last night she stayed with us cause her mom was going out of town today and I was to take her to school this morning. I had forgotten to remind her to go to the bathroom before she went and layed down. She had been in bed for about an hour and a half and was still awake and I told her to get up and go and she said but I already went in my pull up. I was so upset. Why did she just lay there and pee when she should of gotten up. She acted like nothing was wrong with that! What is there to do?

2007-09-04 09:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by Ashlen 1 in Family

Before my boyfriend and I started dating we were friends for over a year. Gradually we developed feelings for each other and now we date.
The problem I have is that he has a lot of female friends. 99% of his friend base is female. Further, he's also hooked up with 90% of the friends in one way or another. His bestfriend is also female and he used to be in love with her (he told me when we were just friends) and she calls him all the time and wants him to be available if she ever "needs" or "wants" to marry him (yeah, totally weird woman).

Okay, this huge female harem is threatening to me. I do not know how to deal with all these women, especially those he's had sexual encounters with. I don't know how to act around these women, I feel so uncomfortable knowing he's had intimate encounters with them. What do I do?

2007-09-04 09:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by polaris8215 1 in Singles & Dating

been dating 4 weeks, can i let one rip yet cos its hard as hell holging em in all night long.

2007-09-04 09:30:08 · 30 answers · asked by andy n 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend popped her cherry herself. She's still a virgin but did it on her own. I'm fine with it but I wanted to ask whether it will bleed more. She said it didn't bleed much when she popped it but I had heard that it may bleed again the first time.

Anyone know anything about this?

2007-09-04 09:27:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are we ashamed to tell the truth, but easy to tell the lie. I am 31 years old, since I know this world I have seen a very few people who tells the truth but why the very most of us is very hard to the tell the truth but very easy to tell the lie ?

2007-09-04 09:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Lion@yahoo.com 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i ask a qestion all i get is check yer spelling and that dont help me the people that answer my qestions are mean to me what do i do stop asking qestions

2007-09-04 09:26:49 · 1 answers · asked by Teehee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always been really introverted. I want to stand out from the crowd, but I don't see how I can do that (without dyeing my hair pink or something). If I'm really nice, I'm ignored, if I'm sarcastic, I'm called a *****.

I'm not that pretty or tall or anything, so I usually get guy's attention by being a little sarcastic to them. Trouble is, they never ask me out or anything because they think I don't like them.

It feels as if everyone got these lessons on friends when they were in kindergarten and I just missed out. I never know how to approach or just talk to people.

2007-09-04 09:26:38 · 2 answers · asked by Sarcasm Queen 3 in Friends

When you give someone a handshake or other hand greeting (clap 'n bump, high-low-bump-sparks, homie shake...) do you look at your hand or do you look at the other person? Is it un-cool to be watching your hand? What do you think?

2007-09-04 09:25:59 · 1 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want answers from all different backgrounds!!!! I'm curious to know what you think!
What's funny is that I can't seem to get the song from the movie "The Wedding Singer" out of my head...."Do you really want to hurt me?"- Ha Ha

2007-09-04 09:24:43 · 9 answers · asked by Angelino! 1 in Weddings

My fiancee and I are getting married on 10/20, and over the course of the last year, his mother has been battling cervical cancer. We thought she was in the clear early in the year, so we got everything planned. A couple months ago we were given the bad news: it spread viciously (stage IVb) and we're not sure how long she has. She's deteriorating every day and might not be able to attend. We nixed the idea of moving it up, we don't want her to think we're "rushing" her or showing any signs of something being wrong. We will do our best to carry on no matter what the circumstances. If she is still here we'll visit her and have a "mock" ceremony after the church and before the reception. If she's not with us, we'll try to do our best to continue with our plans.
I'm just wondering has anyone had to go through this before, with a parent? How did you cope with it? We're you able to go through with it? We're both obviously very down but looking so forward to this day.

2007-09-04 09:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ive always wondered about this and its really embarrasin and i dont want to get shouted at or anything but,

are you supposed to have pubic hair?! LOL!
or are you meant to get rid of it and if so do you?
i dnt really wanna shave it! cos' thats like so cringey!
im so shy about asking! by the way, im 15 going on 16.

2007-09-04 09:21:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

same as above, by law do both people need to file to prevent the divorce from happening or does one overly possesive partner have the ability to prevent it from going through if he or she has a change of heart?

2007-09-04 09:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by jpache04usmc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

especially lets say you were 11 going on twelve

2007-09-04 09:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is attempting to mediate a custody issue involving a woman he was never married to and is being told by the biological mother that he can't see his 1 month old daughter without her present for the first 2 years. We were hoping to mediate this issue without an attorney and can't find this "rule" in any of our research. There would be someone present who could help him with any new baby issues and he is only asking for a few hours while she is so young. Any information would be appreciated, the attorney I called today hasn't called back yet and he is worried sick.
Paternity has not been established but the mother INSIST the child is his and he believes this to be true.
My brother is gainfully employed and has no criminal record that would make his visitation a risk.
The mother is unemployed, has no car and lives with her parents and two other children and has been extremely unstable and threatening to our family.

2007-09-04 09:17:24 · 1 answers · asked by MissMaam 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She realy likes me and i like here alot but i dont want to mess everything up so the first date has to be nice? any suggestions on how to make everything perfect!!

2007-09-04 09:14:42 · 24 answers · asked by just call me vadim 2 in Singles & Dating

Cuz when I'm walking in a crowded hallway, most of the time when I look at a girl she's already been looking directly at me. And even when I look at her, she doesn't even look away. Should I try to talk to one of them? I know I'm not ugly, cuz some girls have called me hot in the past but now I'm not sure.
And even if I'm with a bunch of friends, they only reallys seem to look at me. Damn I want a girlfriend..

2007-09-04 09:13:46 · 18 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 yrs old and live with my parents me and my ex-boyfriend broke up 2 wks ago I found out this weekend that I'm pregnant. The thing is I had cancer cells when I was 18 and because of the surgery the doctor told me I was not going to have kids. I know the situation is bad but wat if this is a miracle child and I will never be able to have another one.... Should I keep it? Is it a miracle child?

2007-09-04 09:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by babyyaya86 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this age difference weird?
Would a 15 year old going out with an 18 year old be weird?
I know that the 18 year old would be considered illegal. But Im talking in terms as if that was not a law. I mean seriously you know how many people are dating "illegally"


Dont worry guys, Im not the type of girl to do stuff. I'll stick with kissing thanks.
I'd say we both have alot in common and get along great. He doesnt seem like the type to pressure me, and defiantly isnt a stupid immature kid.

Im pretty mature for my age, I'll admit, I can be immature, but for the most part Im not an idiot.
BTW, Im 15 and a girl..hes the 18 year old.

2007-09-04 09:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My frend is going to this school called Shaw and she is scared becuz all of her enimies will be there and she fears that she is going to get jumped or have no friends, I am nervous about the first day of school as well becuz of the usual, but her prob is worse. What can i tell her to help her feel more safe there??

2007-09-04 09:10:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean its mostly girls that act this way.. not boys. Its so annoying. Girls these days are so mean and so cruel for no reason.

2007-09-04 09:09:37 · 27 answers · asked by riley 2 in Singles & Dating

why do ppl do it? to get sex off someone? why does it occur? what makes the person do it? what reasons? stress? financial problems?

2007-09-04 09:09:05 · 16 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son turned 3 recently and his father has started spending time with him. He will usually get him on either a Saturday or Sunday a spend the day with him and bring him back home. I've recently decided to go out a little more on the weekends and i would ask him to allow our son to stay over with him (I'm 22). He has asked to keep my son every weekend before and i kind of said no at first because i didn't like the idea too much but my son loves him to death and i know his father would not hurt him so i guess i had a change of heart. Now my son's father makes me feel like i'm a bad mother and i neglect my son when i ask him to keep him on the weekends so that i can go out with friends. I try not to go out every weekend but i feel like if he's asked to keep him and let him stay over then why should it matter what i do with my free time. I spend time with my son and do things like going to the zoo and movies but his father has made me feel like i should not hang out on weekends.

2007-09-04 09:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Singles & Dating