Before my boyfriend and I started dating we were friends for over a year. Gradually we developed feelings for each other and now we date.
The problem I have is that he has a lot of female friends. 99% of his friend base is female. Further, he's also hooked up with 90% of the friends in one way or another. His bestfriend is also female and he used to be in love with her (he told me when we were just friends) and she calls him all the time and wants him to be available if she ever "needs" or "wants" to marry him (yeah, totally weird woman).
Okay, this huge female harem is threatening to me. I do not know how to deal with all these women, especially those he's had sexual encounters with. I don't know how to act around these women, I feel so uncomfortable knowing he's had intimate encounters with them. What do I do?
2007-09-04 09:30:41 · 9 answers · asked by polaris8215 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you remember that they are his exes..or even just flings and he is with you. if you don't trust him, don't be with him.
2007-09-04 09:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Moosey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't take the online game so seriously. As for the calling, he should tell her that he'll return his calls and that she needn't keep calling if he doesn't pick up the first time. She can be retrained into a less annoying person. As for the other stuff... if she's not getting all up on his nuts, then just let them be. If she annoys you (and other people), then don't be around when she's around. Your bf might end up realizing that this girl is a quick way to lose the company of others and drop her, or he may continue being friends with her. Just be glad she's not one of *your* friends, and that you don't *have* to deal with her.
2016-04-03 03:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this is gonna be hard....I was one of those "best friends" That my fiance had before we were together. We had known each other since 7th grade he had girl friends and I had boyfirends we both always said that we loved each other but I didn't think it would work. But when things didn't work out with my ex, We gave it a try and we couldn't be happier. My advise is make him chose (but his choice may not be what you want.) But if they have a bond like me and my boyfriend you maybe outta luck.
2007-09-04 09:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call Gene Simmons girlfriend, Shannon Tweed!!! Boy oh boy has she put up with some stuff!!! Other than that - be confident in yourself, love yourself and don't worry about the other ones. He chose you and that's all that's important. Ü
2007-09-04 09:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by CluelessOne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's your friends or me. BUT, you have to be willing to give up all your friends. OR you can weed out the friends that have had the encounters and just keep those that are truly friends. SIMPLE!
2007-09-04 09:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill her.Jusy joking.Have a serious conversatio with her and tell her he's your man now.But, also you need to talk to this with your boyfriend.Be careful how you do it though, you don't want to sound desperate.
2007-09-04 09:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jessicca Francis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try developing friendships with one or more of them. This will change everything.
2007-09-04 09:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you knew this going in, there ain't much you can do.
2007-09-04 09:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE CAN ONLY BE OOOOOONNNEEEEE!~
Kill them all. It increases your power.
2007-09-04 09:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋