She realy likes me and i like here alot but i dont want to mess everything up so the first date has to be nice? any suggestions on how to make everything perfect!!
2007-09-04 09:14:42 · 24 answers · asked by just call me vadim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make it very romantic :) girls love that kind of thing trust me lol I am a girl and i'd know ;)
2007-09-04 09:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheap, but a perfect spot would be the Melting Pot if you have one near you. Dinner takes a while and is a slow process, figure 2+ hours for a full 4 course meal, meaning lots of time to talk and get to know each other. Usually they have low lighting and a generally romantic atmosphere. Some people enjoy skipping the main course and getting a cheese fondue and then a dessert fondue. Good Luck!
2007-09-04 09:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by Brett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what area you are from but anything near nature is a good thing in the summertime. A little tiki torch place by the water, or dinner on a boat, or a romantic dinner on a rowboat...dont use candles on the rowboat, but they have little fake candles at the local grocery store, you put some batteries in them and voila! Romance! A bottle of wine, poetry if that is what our into, or a little radio with some tunes, sing to her, tell her your dreams, feed her with your mind and if your lucky your body...hehe...bring some passion fruit or something romantic that can fit in a satchel like cheeses and fruit, a blanket/sweater so that if you choose you can just nap in the rowboat together after having a good romp...its totally up to you...Watch out if you are in florida, or if you are anywhere that wildlife can attack you. You can rent out cabins with hot tubs in Tenn. If you are in the USA...east coast...they have something everywhere for every desire...I dont know what all your planning but if she is a city girl, take her to a restaurant and then a horse and carriage ride, look it up, they are available in most cities. I hope this gives you some classic answers...oh yes and I just saw something yesterday that reminded me of another nice place to walk and talk and then have dinner, and that is the botanical gardens, I am sure they have something to offer, look it up :) Take Care-Rachel.
2007-09-04 09:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you overdo it, you will seem desperate or manipulative. Besides, if your first date is really, really expensive, then you are creating a false expectation in her that every date with you will be like that, and you cannot afford it.
So, don't go over the top, as one guy has already said. Try a reasonably priced restaurant that you have been to before, and you know that you like. You will be more relaxed in a familiar environment, and the date will go better if you are relaxed. Outdoor seating is nice this time of year, but not required.
Women seem to like plesant surprises, so don't tell her ahead of time where she is going. Just tell her what to wear (casual, formal, or something in-between), and when you will pick her up, and keep her in suspense until you get there.
2007-09-04 09:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with not going "over the top". That wierds girls out. Too much too soon. Olive Garden was a good suggestion. Casual but nice. Applebees. That type of place. Somewhere you can talk and have a nice dinner. Do not go anywhere with the word Waffle in the name.
2007-09-04 09:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha not the macoroni grill. I'd say don't go to crazy romantic, that might be a little much at first. Are you from LA? If you are I'd suggest you go to the penthouse In santa monica. It is a great really hip place. It can be romantic and fun at the same time and it will show the person you have class.
2007-09-04 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, as a woman i can tell you that i like restaurants that are dimly lit and have booths that are not so close to other people.(incase you need "under the table" privacy) if you don't know what she likes to eat, find a place that has a diverse menu. ask the waitstaff ahead of time to bring flowers to the table for her after you're seated.(that you brought) oh! don't forget to ask for the "most romantic" table either! when you are seated, ask if she would like to share a bottle of wine or champagne. order a dessert "for two". if you both are too full to eat it there, take it with you...if things go well, maybe you'll be eating it off each other later! if sex isn't appropriate, send it home with her. she'll think of you when she sees it in the fridge and while eating it!......if you can cook, then by all means, cook for her! it's a huge turn on when men cook for their lady!
2007-09-04 09:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by sassy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go over the top you will screw it up. Try a nice dinner at a local cafe, outside patio is the most casual and fun. If you have a dog take it for a walk in the park. I use this trick on almost every first date, works awsome!
2007-09-04 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a semi-nice restaurant. If you take her to some crazy *** expensive place it will just look like you're trying to flatter her. I suggest something like Olive Garden or a place like that. Italian food seems fancy regardless of how expensive it is, so it's a good place to go. As for making things perfect? That's tough... but you can start just by being a good conversationalist.
2007-09-04 09:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by thewhistles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some cozy little candle light resturant where you two can chat and get know each other. Or if you two or more of the socialites...pick a trendy place at a the best table (usually in the middle of the room where everyone can see you)
2007-09-04 09:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes to eat (fav food) and if it's not too hard, cook it yourself. Otherwise, find a place that serves it. Cold plates (meats, cheeses, veggies, and fruits) are also romantic when paired with the candlelight mentioned above.
2007-09-04 09:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by tubazrcool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋