Ok I work about 20 mins away from my house and my car is no good anymore I have to get another one. But he doesn't work but does work over the internet that's how he makes money.....but sometimes he makes me catch the bus home because he calms it's to far to come pick me up....is that fair....and I can't drive his truck because I don't know how to drive a stick and he needs it sometimes.
2007-09-04 08:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes doing nothing, i dont see no reason he cant pick you up. He shouldnt want his lady to catch the bus if he really can help it, and he could. I think hes been selfish and lazy.
2007-09-04 11:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people on here are probably going to tell you to drop him because he's a lazy bum...but I won't. Sure, he may need to work on going out of his way sometimes to help you out, but my BF used to be the exact same way before I bought a car of my own...I ended up having to take wake up an hour earlier than I would have had to if I had a car, to take the bus every single day, and he couldn't be bothered to drive me and pick me up. The worst part? He and I worked at the SAME office! Just on slightly different schedules. In order to drive me to and from work when I needed to be there, he would have had to switch his kooshy 9:30-6:30 shift to 8:30-5:30, and he just couldn't be troubled to wake up that early. It used to bug me a LOT, but I love him and he is a very good guy every other way. As soon as I bought my own car, everything was much better. In your case, I would tell him that he needs to come and get you, or he has to help you out with a loan for a new car, but you won't be riding the bus anymore.
2007-09-04 09:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wasn't in your life would you take the Bus..Yes, you would.. Even though he works at home through the Internet, trust me he can get tired, and believe me pick you up every night is a pain. Don't want to be mean or anything i'm just trying to explain the reality here, and that would make you not to depend on him..
2007-09-04 09:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ajlina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 11:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by cosner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fair.
Its YOUR car that needs replacing (not his)
YOU are the one that needs to come up with the cash to do it (not him)
Its really YOUR problem.
YOU are an adult now.. YOU are the one responsible for getting you little butt to work and home. YOU. NOT him. YOU.
Anyone who says "have him buy you a car them" is just blowing smoke... why would you want to be indebted to someone like that? especially someone who can't seem to hold a job of his own.
Now.. all that said.. if he can't find the time to help you out.. then maybe he really doesn't even need to be around at all? I'd break up with him... who need the added stress? sounds like he is just using you anyway (for you internet connection and computer i would bet)
2007-09-04 09:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to dump this loser. A 20-minute drive can't be any more than 4-10 miles. Come on. What is that lazy dope's problem?
Find a real man -- one with a real job too while you're at it.
2007-09-04 08:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
UMMM can we say butthole. Hell no I wouldn't catch the bus. Tell him to get up and come and get you. He plays on the damn computer all day!! He definitly should be picking you up
2007-09-04 09:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you need to talk to him about this because if hes not willing to come pick you up then he better be willing to help buy u a new car!
2007-09-04 08:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No if it's only 20 mins away y can't he just get off his *** and come get you .....tell him to stop being lazy!!!
2007-09-04 09:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you need a new car, if can afford it he will buy you a new one, don't push him
2007-09-04 09:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋