and your just one of their options do not waste your time on them........ do you agree??
2007-09-04 08:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes of course i do. Why would anyone ever choose to stay with a loser like that, who will move on the second someone else comes along and just cast you aside. No thanks i have more respect for myself than to let anyone treat me like that.
2007-09-04 09:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by claire 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. what i mean is that in relationships schiool usually comes first and then the person you love...i believe that if you do not put them as a priority in life yet call them sweetie or babe and say you love them you are aso bullshitting!i am there in the situation of where i have to be the one who has to break up with this guy be because he puts all these people like family,class mates,study group people,friends,etc before me..i do not have anything against him,his friends or his family but what i have against him how he "does not have time" and "is tired" so that he does not see me or hangs out with me.i realized that being the last on the list is not good and if someone actually loves you then they would make sure that they wanted to do everything in their power to see you as much as possible. whoever said that comment is one smart person..love=committment=time made to spend with the other person=top priority on the person's list.
2007-09-04 18:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on how deep your feelings are for this person. If its a first date kind of situation then I could see casting them off but if you have considerable time and emotion invested in the relationship then it may not be an option at all. Sometimes going through the tough times reaffirms that it isn't a waste of time at all.
2007-09-04 22:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by rollmanjmg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I'm sad because I realized that a woman I thought was a close friend is just calling me when she wants something. So, I give up on our "close friendship." Another longtime friend thinks it's OK to solicit me for American Heart Association contributions, even though she must know I hate that kind of thing. Bye Bye. No response to e-mail!
2007-09-04 15:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Never make someone else a priority to you, when all you are to them is an option."
I fully agree with this statement because if you make them your priority, and they choose another of their options, you only have heartache and pain left to show for your efforts.
2007-09-04 15:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Miss. K 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't agree. An emotionally high maintenance person constantly needs someone at their side attending to their every need and feeding their ego. An emotionally stable, complete person doesn't need the constant attention but will gladly share time with someone else when they are available.
Be complete within yourself. Bring joy and happiness to your own life, independent of anyone else. When you are happy within yourself, you will attract other happy, complete people.
The emotional co-dependent relationship is for two needy, weak people.
2007-09-04 15:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2007-09-04 15:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Constance M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree, for a relationship to last,i truly make my woman top priority.if not ,then there is no point in the farce.it as to be sincere and honest,or it becomes a waste of time.
2007-09-04 15:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i agree life is to short to waste,
2007-09-04 15:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by blueendred 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whole heartedly if we're talking about a relationship.
2007-09-04 15:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by justus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋