2007-09-04 08:13:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends on what your revenge would be. I agree revenge is sweet, but it's something you have to be careful about. If you're angry or really upset at this point you may not be thinking rationally, and may regret what you do later.
2007-09-04 08:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a difference between a friendly funny revenge and or a evil revenge...
If you plan on bieng a BEE about it then I would suggest you step back and realize that in the end people get what they deserve, But if its like a innocent revenge then why not make the whole crew laugh...
It depends what you mean by revenge, COULD honesty be revenge or would it and could it be revenge on your part and doing a good deed?
Maybe thinking of treating someone the way you'd like to be treated.....
2007-09-04 08:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting hurt is part of the nature of dating and marriages. If you spend any time dating you will come to realize that you will end up with a broken heart and you will also be the one to do the breaking. Getting revenge doesn't make what he did any better. You might get a moment of satisfaction and you mentally visualize how he reacts to your revenge but then all the sudden you'll want more. It is best to just forgive him. He doesn't ever need to know you forgave him. Forgiving is about you accepting that it happened and knowing that it's time to move on.
2007-09-04 08:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a lot of fun to get revenge on someone who has wronged you, but it never seems to be enough. At the end of it, you may feel great about yourself for a night or so, but the next day you'll still feel hurt.
The best thing to do is just leave it all alone. Ignore him.
2007-09-04 08:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge can be a dangerous thing an you could go to far if he hurt you then just learn how to move on even thought you are still hurting from every thing that happen you must move on with your life.
2007-09-04 08:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by C.S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some who say revenge is not the answer and there are others who say revenge is a dish best served cold. You do not mention what the guy actually DID. Did he rape you? Did he hit or stab you? You do not say.
You are angry, you are upset, that is understandable. Find a professional licensed therapist and work through your pain.
2007-09-04 08:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but theres really no point. Getting revenge my help you feel better for a short while, but it will not undo the pain you are already feeling.
imo, just move on. The last emotion you need to be dealing with right now is regret.
2007-09-04 08:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting revenge just means that your still in love with this guy
2007-09-04 08:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Miss. K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really you will be giving importance to someone who really does not need it. Remember this about you and getting you over this pain.
My suggestion to you is move on and let go of the past and concentrate on getting better and feeling better and looking into a better future.
Let go of the hate and feeling of revenge this in the end will only hurt you more.
good luck
2007-09-04 08:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And your revenge is to be happier than you have ever been.
This would be determining what it is that you really want and going for it. Focus on the positives.
You being happy without him will be the SWEETEST revenge ever.
2007-09-04 08:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋