my guy Nic is planning on moving to Washington until i turn 18, which is a while, he is wanting to leave because he doesn't want to hide our relationship from my mom, but if we tell her... we are taking a risk of her not approving because of my age, she knows Nic very well, and trust him, but that doesn't mean that her mother instict isn't going to still kick in, ya know? but he promises that if she were to ok it, then he would for sure stay here in Utah with me. we are almost possitive that she will not approve right now, and niether of us know what to do, we can't imagine not being together... he is the most amazing guy out there and we feel so strongly toward each other. we don't need anything but each other, we don't need sex, all we need is just to be able to hold each other, i just cant imagine him leaving, and not being able to see him anymore, so if any of you have any idea's just please, help. thank you very much.
2007-09-04 08:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw that is such a sweet relationship, Ok first of all u need to tell your mom, and say that u are sorry that u didn't tell her earlier, u are lucky your mom likes Nic, I can't really say more bc i don't know your age difference......... sorry but gl!!! and remember nothing can stand between u and your love! if he moves keep in contact with every way u can think of!!
2007-09-04 08:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by TakeMeAway_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Under Age status is not limiting your mental age, as is apparent from your Questions and Contents of the questions... This is Genuis in the guise of Under Age.
OK. If you wish to move with Nic you can take bold step of moivng with him. Decide firmly and willfully,
As your mom is still with you by heart she will not object once you move.
Nic's mind will be with you whereas his body in Washington.
Better you go with him and settle him till he wants you there.
But other things of you , your study, job or whatever you want in life are not important to you at this time and age . but you will need skills and that too Gainful skills to survive..
Nic may be OK. but what about his job, careers , ambitions, once he is also getting ahead in work, age, he will develop his own world and you need to keep pace with him, must acquire good education, skills , and all that most Will Power to Restrain YourSelf from Getting Tempted to Pleasure of Adult World.
Your mom will not aggree to this at all unless you totally go against her wishes or desert her.
Do you recall the movie Blue Lagoon , the story I am not familiar with but boy and girl are lost on island and inevitable happens. A child is born.
But father of girl is rich , He tries to search her out. But in end he finds their dead bodies.
what was the story I am not clear as I fail to cacth english dialects.
but here you try to find best you can.. I hope you are UnderAge at this time . But I suspect from your wisely worded questions you carry wsdom of Ages.
2007-09-05 04:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jhentee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he leave?
I would tell the mom because this is just prolonging the inevidable. So just start out right, and explain things to her.
Goodluck!
2007-09-04 15:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, if its true love then time won't matter and you will both be together when you turn 18.
Good luck.
2007-09-04 15:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant hurt to ask your mom.
2007-09-04 15:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋