we have been bf/gf for almost a year now.
2007-09-04 10:26:57 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a little odd, but shes over 18
2007-09-04 10:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ill admit its a lil wierd but i kinda know where ur coming from cuz this dude likes me and i used to like him and hes 26 n im 16. to some ppl it may seem wierd but it dont matter what u think. all that matters is that u know whats right. n people need to get a few things straight!
1. its spelled **pedophile** (at least im pretty sure thats the most accurate spelling)
2. u r not a pettifile she is of legal age and theres nothing wrong with that.
3. if that did consider you anything wrong (wich it doesnt) u would be an ephibophile wich is an attraction to young adolencents wich consdiering shes 19 that does not consider her and adolecent although in some ppls minds she still may be thought of one.
4.something i think is rly good and ppl should watch it a show on MTV called real life the episode i believe is called 'im dating someone older' or something like that it shows the point of view from two different couples and their major age differences.
5. if ur happy n shes happy dont let anyone stop you from living your life the way you want.
2007-09-04 10:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this doesnt sound rude, but what is a grown 44 year old man doing with a young 19 year old girl? I'm sorry, I shouldn't say that. Love doesn't have an age. If you truly love this girl, and she truly loves you. Then age does not matter what so ever. Be with her if it feels right. But if you are having doubts. End it. There is nothing worse than doubting yourself.
2007-09-04 10:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might go fine for a while, but sooner or later I think those May/December relationships fall apart, although you are not that old, there is certainly a big gap in life experience between you.
She hasnt even begun to know herself yet. You will face much controversy over the relationship, and if you spoil her, you're just setting her up into circles and situations where she's bound to find a younger model of you.
I just don't think generally they work out for most people, but stranger things have happened; if she is mature enough and truly loves you, then hopefully in your case it will.
Good luck!
2007-09-04 10:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why even ask the question?? Other people opinions are of no concern, do what you want, it's your life, not thiers. And for every stuck up idiot looking at you funny, theres 3 more smiling and giving you the thumbs up. Society is what society has brainwashed itself into thinking, back in the days, this wouldnt of even been a question. dont be part of the herd, and just be yourself and do what you enjoy doing. I wouldnt run out and get a ring though, chances are she'll outgrow you in a couple years, shes 19, she'll go through several short relationships, my as well be you. I laugh at the rest of these idiots that judge people...... what small minds our country has created.....
2007-09-06 11:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like a basis for a relationship of equals, now does it?Sorry, but a 40 year old dating an 18 years old (age when you started), how much can you have in common- even as far as life experience? She's not considered old enough to drink in most states. May seem romantic and great ego boost, but , unless you are just looking for a trophy...
2007-09-04 10:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Down to earth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 and i am seeing a 32 year old man,in fact fixing to have his baby.Some people look down on it,but if you love somone and they are at a consenting age,then as long as you and youre gf are okay with it then it shouldnt matter what everybody else thinks.You say she is 19 well i think she is pretty capable of making her own decisions.So i really wouldnt worry about it. but to answer your question no there is not a problem.Love knows no bounderies
2007-09-04 10:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by tootie fruity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a problem. Now it might be a problem to the girls mom. N may I add do you really think it will work out?
Im 21 my husband is 29 turning 30. But i would never date any or marry past that age. 44 is too much for me. Now are you rich?? Cause I will divorce asap.. Just kidding. Have fun with you girl and just becareful. The mother might not approve but make sure you treat her good. for God sake please treat her good and dont mistreat hit or harm her/
2007-09-04 10:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 39 and my wife 22 when we had our first child. I don't think that there is very much to the age difference if you really love eachother. Also, being older married to a younger woman really puts things in a different perspective. Your needs may be different but if the communication is good you can make it last a long time. Good luck.
2007-09-04 10:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by green3ch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing about this, is......What could your relationship possibly be built off of. The only thing I can see is SEX.... You as the elder should stop and think. Why would I do this to her. She don't even know who she is. You didn't even know yourself at that age. You should be MAN enough to say I Love You , but I know i'm not the right person for you. The question is do you really LOVE her enough to say that, or are you just thinking of yourself, and what you want.
2007-09-04 10:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by emmo0920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem...right now. She may, however, leave you one day when you are feeble/sick due to age and she's still in her prime. Further, you're going to deal with a lot of people looking down on you. That kind of pressure on a relationship will be hard to withstand. You may be perfect for each other, but there may still be too many factors that are too difficult to overcome.
2007-09-04 10:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by polaris8215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋