So you would feel comfortable having someone on your property that you are almost sure doesn't like you?

Question

I posted a question earlier about my neighbor (also my husbands friend/co-worker). I get the feeling this guy does not like me at all. He is very friendly to my hubby but refuses to speak to me. All the responses so far everyone's saying that I am wrong for not wanting this guy on my property..... So what everyone is saying is that it would not bother them to have someone at their house they know doesn't like them??? You would have a cookout and feel comfortable inviting your nextdoor neighbor who refuses to speak to you?? So if me and my husband are in our yard playing with our kids and this guy comes into my yard with his girlfriend and introduces her to my husband but acts like I am not even there and does not introduce me.... you don't think that is kinda rude? Wow I am really suprised by all the responses and everyone saying that I am over-reacting. I think you people are wrong. I gurantee that if you thought someone didn't like you, you would feel uncomfortable around them!!

Answer 1

Well I think it's rude of your husband not to address the fact that this guy is so rude to you. There is no reason to do that to anyone...even if you don't like them at least use common courteousy with them. I wouldn't invite him to any functions occuring on my premises. If he were really your husband's friend he would at least make the effort to be civil to you....and for the record your husband needs to speak up or drop this friend completely. Perhaps the next function that you have you should have your husband go over and extend the invitation saying that it is only good under the condition that he can conduct himself in an adult manner and be civil to you. He is acting like a 5 year old...that is not how adults conduct themselves...and if he cannot be civil to you than you have no obligation to invite him to functions for your friends and family.

Answer 2

I would have walked up behind my husband and kicked him in he assets...I wouldn't have neighbor over to the house who is rude to you...If he shows up, get in your car and leave...Maybe hubby needs to see this upsets you to do something about it...

Answer 3

i dont' know who all said that to you but i would be ugly right back. i have had that happen to me and i am certain i would do something. hes probably just doen'st really like women that was my thought then and i am smarter then this moron yes i would makre mean remarks and make him leave.