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so at what age should u lose ur viginity
i really need to know

2007-09-04 10:12:07 · 40 answers · asked by Pierre Andrews 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

40 answers

why do you REALLY need to know, huh?

2007-09-04 10:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 3

You should have sex when you are ready and you know what the consequences are. Some of the consequences are (I am assuming you are a guy): She might get pregnant, you might get some STD (Sexual Transmitted Disease), you might go to jail if you have sex with anybody who is under 18 year old, etc. People put too much emphasis on sex nowadays. Have it when you are ready. Always use protection no matter what, even when she says that she on birth control. Because how do you know whether or not she lies or whether or not she she has any STDs? How about if she gets pregnant? Condoms break and pull put methods don't always work either.

2007-09-04 10:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0 0

That's not something that anybody can answer for you. But I can tell you this you should wait untill you are married because if you don't you will regret not waiting. I believe I lost mine too soon, I was 15 when I lost my virginity, I thought that was an ok age at the time and up untill a yr. ago when I found the love of my life, now I wished I would have waited till me and him were married, sex is something very special. You shouldn't share your body with just anybody. I can also tell you from older people telling me when you get married you will look back and think you were too young and wished you would have waited untill you were married. There's no rush to have sex

2007-09-04 10:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 0 1

There's no set age when someone should lose their virginity. There are too many outside factors to determine when someone should have sex. In my experience, I've noticed that most teenagers, especially girls, regret losing their virginity because at the time they couldn't comprehend the mental aspect of it. Keep in mind a person's brain isn't fully formed until they are 25. I would say anything under 16 is too young for the most part, but of course there are always exceptions. Don't act on a whim, think about it for a long time, make sure that whomever you give your virginity to is someone special, and I promise it will feel special.

2007-09-04 10:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Whenever you feel like you're ready. You shouldn't worry about it..since you're asking I'm guessing you're really young. But in my opinion, I say around 17-19. So if you ever get a lady pregnant and don't have the heart to get rid of your cell (fetus)..you could possibly support your baby and be finished with high school hopefully. Education is your support in managing your life.

2007-09-04 10:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Missy M 3 · 0 0

I remorseful approximately it because of the fact of what I discovered approximately her later on and felt like the excellent relationship replaced right into a lie. yet as is with each little thing else in existence, hindsight is 20/20! I wasn't too youthful, yet I particularly replaced into rather naive.

2016-10-09 23:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

At the age at which you are competent (mentally, emotionally and FINANCIALLY) to care for a child, should you get pregnant. At the age at which you have insurance through your work to pay for the STD test you will need to get if you are sexually active. At the age at which you can afford birth control. At the age at which you are comfortable talking about sex, stds, and pregnancy with your partner BEFORE you have sex.

At the age at which you realize that sex DOES NOT equal love, and that having sex with someone will not make them love you.

Hope this helped.

2007-09-04 10:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 6 0

Sex not occur before:

1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur
2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur
3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)
4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them
5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male)
6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male)
7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person.

Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex.

2007-09-04 10:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 6 1

i say f!@k it if ppl want to get laid at age 15 than let em i dont think when the first ppl fed eachother they thought about what age they were when they banged each other now one thing i have to say is if you are guna have sex make shure you aint doing it just to have sex than you will get a misconception as to what it is relly like make shure it is someone you will spend more than 1 nite with too trust me aint good it's like paying for sex without the paying part hope i helped

2007-09-04 11:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by war 2 · 0 0

There is no certain age. You have to be mentally ready. It is much better to wait until you are in a secure relationship. ie lonng term, marriage. Be careful and when it does happen make sure you use protection.

2007-09-04 10:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by audra h 4 · 0 1

Marriage

2007-09-04 10:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3 2

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