He's definately a good catch .. but is he ready? could he be ready for dating?
2007-09-04 12:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by Chiquis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not ready for a serious relationship. But if you just want to date, the go ahead, enjoy. Just do not give him all the serious relationship pressure for a long time.
Also, watch your nagging. Nothing will make him run away faster than your nagging. Let him be a bachelor for a while.
2007-09-04 12:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating only when the divorce papers are signed. Until then, he's STILL married, like it or not. It's asking for trouble. Some attorneys have used that as an adultery issue if found out and that could hurt him during divorce proceedings. Separated does not equal available. Sometimes seperated people use the people they are "dating" as a rebound to their spouse. Men or women who try to act as if they're single, but aren't divorced, have no integrity in my opinion. You stated that he is RECENTLY seperated, which sounds to me that he JUST seperated from her...You're not giving them any time to reconcile. Marriage is something you do before God. He ordains it. No man (or woman) should ever tear that apart. If he truly wants to be with you and you with him, dear, you both will WAIT until the dust settles. It's only right and I think YOU know that yourself..you were asking for justification.
2007-09-04 12:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by hartbreaker00003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about that, the best i can suggest is to ask Your dad to see her more or to live with her. But as far as i know you cant =( im sorry. But if he did do anything mean or abusive you could tell someone at school and they could help you through these legal troubles. If he did something that you KNOW was abuse and that he physical hurt you i know he could get in alot of trouble! That's all i can suggest for now. Sorry dude
2016-05-21 06:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband after he ended an 18 yr marriage. I did not think it would led to anything serious because he was so recently divorced, but 5 years later, we are married. You just never know. Some men really enjoy having that special someone in their lives. Just take things slow.
2007-09-04 12:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. That is one of the oldest lines in the book. Wait until that divorce is final before you do anything with this guy. Most men do not stay with their "transition" girlfriend anyway so why be one. You can wait and while you are waiting stop to think about this, Just why is his wife divorcing him?
2007-09-04 12:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the reasoning for their divorce. You need to find out .You also don't want to be the rebound girl cause then that causes a lot of problems and you will get hurt.He is obviously trying to get over his ex and may be just trying to get it off his mind. but also he may need someone to be here for him.If you really like him and hes not to blame for his divorce I say be his friend be there for him but don't get attached anytime soon just relax and be the girl he thinks about in a good way.don't be drama for a while cause you may say something his ex has said to him and it could trigger emotions and shut downs and break ups.Just chill lol good luck
2007-09-04 12:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the divorce is final and then keep your guard up.You don't want it to be a rebound situation.He may be a good catch that's not biting just yet.
2007-09-04 12:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date him seriously. Go out with him occasionally and date several other people as well. Casually stay in touch and see where you are both at in 6 months.
2007-09-04 12:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you said he was a good catch but is he completely over his wife if not you will be letting yourself in for being hurt.
wait until everything is final before jumping in with both feet.
good luck
2007-09-04 12:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Sorry he may be a good catch but I would wait till everything is final.
2007-09-04 12:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋