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Question

I dont get this. My bf is always so obssessed with celebrity women. Now let me mind you i am a fine @ss woman. I have my own long hair, all real, not extensions. I have the booty and the boobs. I am lightskinned and always get the stares of other guys when we go out.

But again, he still doesnt act like he appreciate what he has until i end up trying to leave his @ss. What is this about???

I think about it like this...you are damn lucky that you are with me, because someone who looks like me who also has the brains, and loves football, wrestling, video games, and mostly a tom boy woudl definitely be appreciated more by someone else.

Answer 1

i know would be a lot more appreciative of you. some guys just obsess over what they can't have.

Answer 2

Its not that he is obssessed it is just that we see these people on TV or in the movies all the time and we hear about their lives. So what if he is just attracted to celebrities Im sure you are attracted to celebs too. It is just a crush that they have with these people and 99% of the time it is with a character that that celeb plays and not the actual person. It is nothing that is going to become of anything as long that he isnt obssessed with anyone else then you actually have no problem. It is just normal for us because we are the technology generation and we basically live with these people. Also you think very highly of yourself and maybe he feels that you are doing him a favor for being with him cuz from what your saying is you are to good for him and I wouldnt be hung up on someone who thought that about me. Just some constructive critisim for you

Answer 3

I hear ya! I don't know - men are more visual, they say (I think 'they' are all men, lol)....

He needs to chill out on the gawking so much and I'd ask yourself what about him looking at celebrities he'll never touch is making you feel a little bit insecure (if you weren't, you wouldn't care cuz you know he's not gonna get near any of them)...is something else going on?

Either way; you sound like an incredible person...do something for yourself that'll also let him know that you don't NEED him...let him chase you a little bit like he did when you first met...make him work more to have you in his life (damn, I don't understand why relationships are like this - the run/chase thing, but they are)....

Answer 4

Maybe your TOO sure of your self.. Take a step back.. Leave.. let him see how it is to be without you.. Tell him he can always buy a poster of these so called girls that are celebrity's and do his thang to that.. You don't need guys like that.. Especially if you are a beautiful woman yourself.. Find yourself a MAN that will appreciate YOU..

Answer 5

You probably make him feel insecure by putting yourself up on a pedestal all the time. And its easier to look at a hot chick in a magazine that doesnt yap yap yap, than to put up with you making him feel like he doesnt deserve you. I can imagine that gets old fast. Be a little more humble and make him an equal and not an idiot.

Answer 6

Guys have the fantasy - of being with celebrity women all the time. This is not unusual. You have to make a decision if you are willing to tolerate it or not. If not, move on and stop complaining.

Answer 7

Give it right back to him. Guys will be guys. At least he is obsessing over people that he will never come into contact with. I have always said that if I had the chance, I would cheat on my boyfriend to be with Ryan Reynolds. But I can say that, because I know it will never happen.

Answer 8

This is my take: he is floored to be with you and that you are his girl (inwardly), but he may be insecure and is reacting to his own insecurity by passive-aggressivly projecting his own issue outwardly in his open appreciation (verbal) of female celebrities. Basically while he may genuinely find some of them to be attractive (don't we all), he knows they are unavailable to the general public, that he won't ever meet them, and that you (just may) have a jealousy-type reaction. Possibly subconsciously attempting to reassure himself that yes, you are moved by his "attraction" to other female personas, which means you do love him and value him in your life. Love psychology is wicked, but I believe he is very into you. Now if he does that with everyday chicks, that's a problem. You have no worries sounds like, he knows you are hot and may be afraid of losing you (but won't tell you that).

Answer 9

Uh, what's the question? You obviously know you're too good for this fool, so get rid of him permanently. Don't let his last minute pleas keep bringing you back in. Tell him too little too late then find someone who appreciates fabulous you all the time!

Answer 10

hes with you... PERIOD

if you feel underappreciated because of his obessions with women he will never have then thats his problem

if you feel underaprreciated because he doesnt do make you feel loved till he has too then thats YOUR problem

You have to sit down with him and let him know
that you care for him and will focus on him
but he needs to show you he cares too

But that last paragraph sounds more like veronica than betty
tell him you need a moose or an archie not a reggie but be prepared to be his midge or betty

later
wP

Answer 11

I already appreciate you. You are on the right track. Learn to love yourself. Then, you will only choose those who honor you by their being with you. If your bf doesn't recognize how great you are, dump him. You sound like a real treasure to me. I appreciate you.