My boyfriend has been really grumpy of late. He keeps snapping at everyone and he wont tell me whats bothering him. It's been 2 weeks now and I don't know what to do. Please help!
2007-09-04 11:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slow let him know you love him. Don't push him to tell you but don't let him be mean. Good luck.
2007-09-04 12:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by ellacoolgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never pressure a man to talk especially if you ask him what are you thinking? women are more open to discussion whereas men keep it on the inside & once they figure it out then they might say something about it..if they never do will the woman should let it go maybe it was best in not knowing...now if he is saying hurtful things & stuff he needs to take back just wait until hes ready to say sorry or else you might make matters worse by putting more fuel to the flre...
2007-09-04 19:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is stressed about something or feeling a little blue. Just be there to support him. My boyfriend was like that for a few months. He was a little depressed and stressed about a lot of things. He wasn't mean but just not happy. I kept loving him and caring for him and letting him know that if he wanted to talk I'd listen. He really appreciated that I did that. Maybe that is all you need to do. Just love him more.
2007-09-04 19:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have tried to be understanding and there for him, but if he is not going to give you the same mutual respect that is incorporated in a relationship then you will have to take a step back and let him figure out what is bothering him, and when he is ready to communicate on an adult level you will be there to listen and support him. Until then do your own thing.
2007-09-04 19:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's nothing you can do to force him to tell you what's bothering him. The best thing is to step back and let him tell you when he's ready.
Hope everything works out.
2007-09-04 19:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't force him to tell you whats the matter
tell him that you are there for him when he wants to talk and give him a little space to think whats ever is bothering him out! i hope everything works out
2007-09-04 19:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by hawekkk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come talk to you when he is ready to act like a big boy and not a two year old.
2007-09-04 19:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he cannot tell you what the problem is so that you will be able to understand or maybe help...then don't take it out on you.
2007-09-04 19:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if theres anything you can do.and let him cool off.if hes still mad than its somthing to do with you and him.
2007-09-04 19:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Billie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he talk to you...if so ask him and listen good...he may be going through something and needs you to understand
2007-09-04 19:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by smalls 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋