Here is the deal. I started talking to this girl about a week ago just threw emails. We met from friends we know. So we met up at a club Friday night and had alot of fun. We have been sending about three emails aday back and forth to each other. So my question is just got home and read her email and wanted to know should I not write her back today just to give it a break and to let her be and to think about it. Would it be good to maybe make her want me to write her back and make her wait a day? Or should I just keep going on doing what I'm doing or maybe call her instead? How about some girls opinon's on what would make them like a guy more in this situation.
2007-09-04 11:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by Jim H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just email her and stop playing games . why do you think it is okay to play head games cause that is what you are doing .
2007-09-04 11:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't call her that's for sure. Instead of sending her 3 emails a day try 1. And if she asks say you were busy. You don't want to seem too available. Also, bite the bullet and just ask her on a date, just the 2 of you. A club isn't really a good place to hang out if you want to start dating a person.
2007-09-04 11:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by mmorales00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't just give it a break and stop. You've got something going now, why put a break to it? I would email her and say something like hey can I call you? See what she says, and then call her maybe later on tonight. Ask how her day went. Girls love it when you ask about them. We generally like to talk so ask plenty of questions but at the same time give a little input too. Good luck!!
2007-09-04 11:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your existing pattern of emailing. Your lack of response to her emails may cause her to think you are no longer interested. If you like her, keep going with the emails...and try to get to know the person she is. Don't play these mind games--it always screws things up.
2007-09-04 12:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been doing 3 emails a day and today you decided to not email her at all? You will be lucky if she doesn't knock on your door to see if you are still alive. If you just leave her hanging, she will certainly NOT like you more!
2007-09-04 11:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm for anything that doesn't involve attempted manipulation of another person's feelings.
Now, really! If you like this girl and enjoy talking to her, do it! If she has to do something else, she'll tell you. Good luck.
2007-09-04 11:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a day...lose a day...
lost time is lost forever.
2007-09-04 12:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋