is this a confidence problem?

Question

people tell me i have a shot with this girl but i think shes way too hot for me but everyone says shes not and i think if she met me she wouldnt like me anyway but everyone else tells me different idk if im retarded lol or just shooting myself down cause i really like this girl but too scared to even say hi or anything

Answer 1

perhaps she thinks the same way , who´s to say , perhaps she fears rejection as much as you do , so get out there and make the first move NOW before somebody else does (then how would your confidence cope after that !!!) Try to be more confident and find YOU ARE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF! Loving and accepting ourselves is THE MOST CRITICAL FACTOR in experiencing joy,happiness, and success in life. When you really love yourself and you really love other people, you find that life is really an incredible journey where things flow, and no matter what happens you always find a way to enjoy yourself and you feel fulfilled. You MUST love yourself completely.
This determines your STANDARDS for what you are willing to accept or settle for. It determines how well you treat your body and your health, how much money you feel you deserve to earn or feel you can make, your belief in whether you can achieve your goals, how much others RESPECT you and how they treat you, and even whether people like you and want to be around you. People love being around confident people. You see, confident people do not feel the need to judge you or tear you down in order to elevate their own self-worth. They radiate a positive energy. You feel safe around them. You need to consistently and confidently take action to move towards your goals, and towards your ultimate destiny. People who lack in confidence often get ‘stuck’. So you see, your entire DESTINY is shaped by your degree of confidence. True self-confidence comes from an absolute sense of certainty deep within, that you are able to handle anything life throws your way. Truly confident people exude calm, control, power, certainty. They care about people, and they make people feel good when they are around them.They never brag – after all, actions speak louder than words. People who brag are just masking their insecurities. People have varying degrees of confidence depending on what activity they are performing. For example, someone might be totally confident in performing a piano concert, or driving a car, but feel totally inadequate at a new job they’ve started, or at flirting with members of the opposite sex. People with Total Self-Confidence, though, have complete belief in themselves. They never ask themselves “Can I really do this? What if this doesn’t work out? Am I good enough to pull it off?” They know that if they really want something, and they are committed to getting it, it will happen. They know that it’s just a question of time until they’ve mastered the skills and knowledge to make whatever they want a reality

Answer 2

Congradulations your HUMAN!!! And that means your insecure like the rest of us!!! Yep!!! Now if you want to make your fore fathers proud, me, ever male thats been there, and maybe even angles weep, TALK TO HER YOU STUD! Really this is a constant problem for EVERYONE, espacially ME!!! So you standing up and talking to her and taking that fine peice of property on is a step above and beyond the call of duty, CAN YOU HANDLE IT?