Hey guys,
i have met the love of my life and we moth feel the same way, he has been accepted to go play College Basketballl in Nebraska and will be away for 7 months... i will be going over there for christmas and new years...
i want your thought on how we can make it easier, and if anyone has had a similar experience your feedback will be greaty appreciated...
please only serious answers this is very important. i need to know if any other people out there has had a relationship survive this and how.
Thanks in advance!
xoxoxox
2007-09-04 17:11:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thank you to all who answer. i am finding your words uplifting in this tough time..keep em coming and thanks you agian for your honesty and sharing your experiences
2007-09-04 17:37:43 · update #1
well you said that he was the love of your life so c'mon think about how great its gonna be when he finally comes back for good. plus theres emailing and phones and your even visiting him. Itll be fine, when my boyfriend left for 5 months thats all i thought about (him coming back) and we made it. Dont worry.
-ana-
2007-09-04 20:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by AZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always great when I hear young people have really met someone special. First, get rid of all the fear you have inside, that it may not work, or you may loose him. Sometimes the things that we fear the most often happen to us.
Try to save a little extra money so maybe you can fly up again after Christmas and New Year. Maybe plan to meet on a long week-end half-way, so maybe you can both visit a place you have never seen before. I don't know where you live. But maybe catch the bus or train. If it is less expensive.
Phone call cards, are an easy and cheap way of keeping in touch, and of course so is email. You have Messenger and Skype too.
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2007-09-05 00:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO, I JUST WANT U 2 KNOW I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS AND I AM HAPPILY ENGAGED AND LOVING IT.
MY DUDE WHO IS A TRUCKER WAS HAVING HIS FIRST JOB OUT OF TOWN. HE WOULD BE ON THE ROAD A LOT AND AWAY FROM HOME FOR MONTHS, 2 BE HONEST IT IS HARD ON THE HEART, BUT IF U TRULY LOVE, RESPECT, AND U BOTH TRUST EACH OTHER ANYTHING CAN WORK OUT FOR U. U GOT 2 COMMUNICATE!!!! THAT IS THE KEY 2 IT ALL, MAKE SURE U HOLD NOTHING FROM HIM AT ALL AND THE SAME FOR HIM. HE HAS 2 BE WILLING 2 COMMUNICATE BACK AND BE HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING HE DO. NO SECRETS BETWEEN U 2 AT ALL; OK.
GOOD LUCK AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR U BOTH.
2007-09-05 00:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by ms.tea_z_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any long distance relationship is hard but if you love each other than it can work. My cousin and her fiance were states away from each other for like nine months but they both stayed busy by going to school and working which really gave neither of them time for anything else. That is why they are married now and very happy. I am sorry but it wont work if one of you get bored.
2007-09-05 00:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by missymae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months apart can be hard and to be honest not that many relationships make it
i never actualy seen anyone who can but hey theres allways hope so if u guys love each other then go for it and i wish u the best of luck
2007-09-05 00:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, if you really love one another it will work, It doesnt matter if its worked for some one else or not , love is work, Trust, dont listen to gossip. God Bless ya!
2007-09-05 00:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by shashonah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking and communicating.
2007-09-05 00:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋