This has been going on for 10 years! My 10 yr old childs biological father is NOT her biological father,and I can't seem to find it in me to tell him the truth.
How do I tell him?....When would the right time be?.....What would I say?........
2007-09-04 17:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
maybe I should of been a little more specific,Bio father and I don't live 2gether,he's remarried and so am I.My husband of 10 yrs now,knows the truth
2007-09-04 17:27:49 · update #1
Maybe I should of been a little more specific, I have remarried and so has he,we all are good friends to this day though.
2007-09-04 17:30:24 · update #2
Theres no child support,We ARE FRIENDS I wouldn't do that to him anyways.
2007-09-04 17:33:19 · update #3
Dont tell him.what he doesnt know cant hurt him.you ll just end up losing him in the end
2007-09-04 17:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell him right now?
Not that I think it was fair to deceive him in the first place, but why now? I don't think there will ever be a "right" time to tell him. If you are going to do it, then just get it over with.
Just be prepared that this will really hurt him, and may have him questioning EVERYTHING you ever told him.
And how will this effect your child?
2007-09-05 00:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who is paying child support.
If this guy has been paying, then I wouldn't tell him.
If nothing else, it gives the 10-year-old a back-up parent.
If he gets suspicious, there is always the ol' DNA test.
2007-09-05 00:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him after all this time. in all likelihood....he will divorce you and you will ruin your child's life. Confess to a priest of you feel the need to get it off your chest but don't tell him you will unnecessarily hurt him.
2007-09-05 00:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna say truth?
you gonna lose him...
i dont wanna say dont tell him. but ... your choice.
there are no right time to tell....
you gonna hurt his feeling anyway..
so just decide. tell him or not.
that's it.
good luck
2007-09-05 00:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by askawow 47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an email.
2007-09-05 00:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Katie B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋