This guy at work gave me his number a few weeks ago because he was leaving. I've seen him twice since then, and I haven't called. We flirted a lot, but now I've found out that I was not the only one he was flirting with. At least 4 other girls that I know of. He wrote two a note saying that he wanted to kiss them both. I'm moving, so I'm not looking for a relationship, but I kind of want to call him. I'm conflicted, because he's kind of a player, and it might inflate his ego to call him.
Do I just call him, or wait until his birthday so I have an excuse to call him? I'm really confused.
2007-09-04 17:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK hun I am going to try to cut to the chase. Right from the first minute you have to realize that you are setting up and establishing patterns in your relationship that once woven will become the entire "rug" so to speak. If you are the one chasing him calling him then you cannot expect him to turn around and chase you. That is why you should not call. I have baked cakes for guys, given elaborate gifts and done some amazing things but the fact is that when you go too much out of your way, they just dont get it...or get a big head. DONT CALL...you dont need to be his literal 5th wheel of girls in the pack...your going to be someone specials girl, and you dont deserve how this guy is behaving I dont care if his penis is made of gold...NOT WORTH YOUR TIME, I can tell by the way you care that you are the most valuble girl at the table and he hasnt really even given you the time of day. Take Care and Good Luck in your search. -Rachel.
2007-09-04 17:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, please don't call him. If you're desperate, wait till his birthday but you don't need to stroke his ego like that. Just imagine what he'll say to his friends about you, regardless of why you actually called. It's really not worth it.
2007-09-05 00:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cindarella R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl dont u dare call dat playa dey alwayz trouble take it from an expert!!
2007-09-05 00:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call.. and then when its his birthday, just text him, of course if the number he gave you is a cell phone.
2007-09-05 00:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on your feelings. if you really like him call him...if wanna chat ;) call him on his birthday and maybe do something with him.
2007-09-05 00:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Adam W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him at all - he's a pig
2007-09-05 00:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty Vomit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call
let him hunt
2007-09-05 00:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't call.
2007-09-05 00:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋