I cry after I orgasm from penetrating myself. I have never cried from orgasming after sex with a man. This has been happening off and on for a few months now. When it happens, I just feel consumed by sadness but I don't know why I feel that way..? What does it mean and how can I make it stop?
2007-09-04 17:05:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that I feel ashamed or upset about masturbating. It's just something I do, even when I am in relationships. The crying is a new thing though.
2007-09-04 17:12:31 · update #1
Wow, some of you are having WAY too much fun giving answers thumbs-down. None of the answers were that bad.
2007-09-06 13:55:33 · update #2
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2007-09-04 17:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by johnnystain 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
TG is onto something, but I think he's overanalyzing. I think that what you're experiencing is fairly normal for a few reasons. The first is that masturbation usually results (in both men and women) in a more intense orgasm. The second is that tears carry away substances similar to hormones, so crying isn't all bad and can have a cleansing effect. The third is post coital depression. You've been flooded with chemicals that give you a high and suddenly they're gone. You're in withdrawal. With a partner, you can cuddle up for comfort. Without a partner, you could maybe find something to cuddle up to for comfort although it won't be the same.
I think you're perfectly normal. Try not to make a big deal out of it. Do what you need to in order to adapt to it.
2007-09-04 17:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hi I cry slightly too! in certainty, the 1st time that I had an orgasm i became into with my boyfriend, I cried so complicated and for for this reason long that he concept he had finished something incorrect and left! So, i think of it is common. i think of it in basic terms comes from the launch and the sweetness of the hormones that flood your equipment once you orgasm. as long as a results of fact the crying isn't accompanied by using unhappy emotions, why could that is undesirable? We cry at weddings and good video clips, precise?
2016-10-18 00:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, Ashley. Sometimes your emotional content from masturbation may be greater than the emotional fulfillment you gain from the act. It's okay that your emotional bank account is not in balance, everything will even out in the end. It may be that there is great emotional happiness in your future, such that you'll be laughing after your orgasms with your future partner (with them, not at them). Sex between heterosexuals is perhaps the funniest thing on the planet, what with the posturing, the face-making, and the act in and of itself, so there are plenty of reasons to laugh.
2007-09-04 17:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by chick2lit 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's common for women to cry after orgasm. The physical release triggers an emotional release and everything just comes out. It may be that when you're with a man you are unable to relax as much as you do alone, and you may not achieve the same level of release. If you are having more intense orgasms when you masturbate, this may be why. One solution may be to have more sex with a partner, but a better answer might be to talk with a counselor. You may have some unresolved issues to work out.
2007-09-04 17:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
The sadness of being lonely can be overwhelming. That you can cry afterwards is, to me, a sweet relief and acknowledgment to your feelings.
Some might be what goes through your mind as you do the deed, I hope you are not lingering over a past love. Dream of a future love instead or .... dang, now you have ME all sad!
I don't think you can make it stop and I don't think it's bad or wrong. Being sad is a part of life.
Dorothy Parker said:
Lips that taste of tears, they say
Are the best for kissing.
Hang in there, we are all cheering for you.
2007-09-04 17:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It could be that you are not getting real intimacy that you desperately so want and desire with a man.
I don't recommend you find just any guy to have sex with instead wait for the right one that will love and respect you and give you all of the intimacy you need.
You could have depression and/or a hormonal imbalance.
A good idea would be to see a therapist and physician to really find the answer.
2007-09-04 17:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by maryv2013 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you feel sad because it's you doing it and not a man. Maybe you are lonely right now. Do you think that's it? Try not to get upset I mean I'm sure everyone does it every once and awhile! You're human. Orgasms are a good thing!! Keep that in mind :)
2007-09-04 17:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Phat T 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Do you have guilt feelings, perhaps by the attitude toward masturbation you were brought up with? You may need a sex therapist, but maybe you should just masturbate without penetration, if it only seems to happen with penetration.
2007-09-04 17:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
sounds to me like your lonely for true love. Maybe you do such a good job your scared you'll never have a man that can satisfy you the way u can.....maybe this is the answer but if i understand you correctly that's what i make out of it...i hope this helps
2007-09-04 17:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Why stop?
Sounds like you're having a great time all by yourself.
YOU GO, GIRL!
Geezus titty f*cking christ! People are WAY too uptight on this site.
2007-09-04 17:09:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋