Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

I never had this happen before but he had a hard time cumming..does that mean I am not good enough or should I not worry about this.

2007-08-20 19:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by amy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend got married six years ago.they have a son (6 yrs) within the first year of her life she suspected her husband flirting with girls.but could not prove it because of no solid evidence.they had serious fight on it.. it went to the extent of my friend trying to commit suicide.later he was alright for few years .he always says that he is not guilty.
But now again she found her husband having another girlfriend in a different city.she now has got solid evidence of their frequent sms & emails with her.he goes to visit her during weekends saying that he has some bussiness purpose for his visit.
but she is afraid to talk to him about it becos she feels that he might go away from her once for all.
she loves hom a lot & doesnt want lose him.at the same time she wants her husband to be faithful to her.she crying ...she is in a very bad shape what should i advise her .
what is idea behind that man's brain.will he ditch my friend.or he will stay with her.why is he playing a double game

2007-08-20 19:16:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as long if they dont have sexual relations??

2007-08-20 19:15:16 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would black men rather b with white women or a black woman? and white guys would u rather b with a black woman or a white woman. asian man would u rather b with white women or asian or black women? please tell me ur ethnicity (white black or asian) and what kind of women do u like best!

2007-08-20 19:11:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 19:10:01 · 4 answers · asked by laynarose_21 1 in Family

yesterday she came home from the movies and told me they had their first kiss. she's 16. as much as i want to know what she does, i felt a little disgusted after hearing it. eventhough i had mine at 16 too. seriously, i don't know why i reacted this way. please help!

2007-08-20 19:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-20 19:05:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He comes off to me and to others as a Mr. Fix It. Why does he also give uninvitied advice and states that his method is better if you just try it and if you don't he gets offended. By the way I am older than him by 4 years and have experienced things already that he tries to school me on.

2007-08-20 19:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by exactera 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the main reason perhaps was i met my old college friend and realised we had so many things in common, and that there's so much more to know about life. i now have intention to leave my husband but certainly not for this old friend. i just feel i can't go on in my marriage when i don't feel anymore love for him and that our interests and needs have changed. we don't talk anymore as we don't share anything in common. i was a traditional wife and felt trapped and unappreciated. (thank God i realised it but only after 22 years). i feel happiest when i am with my four children.

2007-08-20 18:59:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

while working I just happen to notice my friends wife starring at me in disapproval look or something. The only thing I could think why she would star at me with dissapproval my blouse was pulled down low showed a little of my clevage I did not know this until I looked down. I did straighten the blouse up. All this is going on I see her husband talking to someone I continue to do my job, this was at work by the way. I know her husband use to have a crush on me. Later on I caught her looking at me and she gave me a big smile. I was dressed in a Dark color outfit and her her husband was dressed in a same color dark suit it seem like Our outfit go to together. What is really going on?

2007-08-20 18:58:42 · 21 answers · asked by curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He says if its not me its noone else as "he is tired of all this". we r together for almost 2 yrs now and plans to get married soon. wat say? "he is tired of all this".

2007-08-20 18:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by bird 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a really long time ago and we haven't talked at all (well sometimes when i called him). When we dated I was underage and I wasnt "allowed" to date him so it was really hard to see each other but he always said that he was going to wait for me until I turned 18. But then we broke up when I was 18 because we used to fight so much because he would lie to me about dumb stuff! he acts like a really big %^&*@#! when he is around his friends, like he doesnt care about me, but when its just me and him talking he is alot nicer. (But alot of guys do that) Anyways he has a girlfriend who goes away to school in a different state and I heard through the grapevine that she is a snob, a slut, and she cheated on all of her ex boyfriends! What should I do to try and get him to talk to me? I miss him so much & I really believe that we are meant to be together! Has anyone ever dated there ex again after breaking up for a while?? Please help!!

2007-08-20 18:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by BreakTheIce 1 in Singles & Dating

couple years ago my sister wanted me to lend her $535.00 of my own money that i had saved in my savings account which i was going to buy a x-box 360 with it but she wanted to buy her first cell phone with it and i kept on telling her no its my money but she said please i promise i'll pay u back and never did yet and im still waiting and im getting mad and angry..what should i do

2007-08-20 18:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by hellkeeper15853 1 in Family

2007-08-20 18:42:39 · 24 answers · asked by Sweatburn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 18:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by Shasta 2 in Friends

i dated a guy for almost 2 weeks and i had sex with him the second day of our relationship after he ****** somebodys wife who was also a mother of a 9 month old baby he dumped me because i simply asked him about her. he used me for sex basically and i was his summer side dish of the week and now i feel degraded what should i do?? i am so mad right now he used me and i gave him something i would never give anybody else. i never new about this other girl till the next day after we did it.he basically doesnt care but i keep wanting to call him and tell him off or see how he is doing its so hard he never calls me back or anything because he says i argue with hi but i know its because he knows i was a **** and chuck what should i do ??

2007-08-20 18:37:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13 and want to get a certain guy's attention. I've tried being nice and friendly, but it won't work. I've noticed he normally dates the sexier-looking girls. How can I make myself look sexy for him without looking TOO slutty (I'm ok with a LITTLE bit slutty but not too much).

2007-08-20 18:36:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 yrs; 3 children; The last 5 yrs, I was the bread winner. Yr 6, when I was pregnant w/our last child, I went into pre-term labor at 6 mos. I knew then that I was stressed out. Doing too much, everything that I do now (stay at home mome) plus work 45 hrs per wk. So I decided to work from home, start my own business, eliminate day care, and raise my babies. I did make a really good profit, more than my 9-5! Yr 7 (last yr), was the roughest ever, yet I still managed to pull thru. Now business is slower than before, I still manage to bring in money; day care is still an issue $$, my husband is pressuring me everyday to get another job. He over look, I run a business at home & see after 3 kids (10, 5, & 2). (I'm working right now) All he sees is me at home. He is looking at paying bills & saving a little. I am looking at eliminating bills & saving alot. I told him, God wants me home with the kids, he said, I am not being logical, & using God as an excuse.

2007-08-20 18:35:25 · 12 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that guys think we can't see through the BS they give us.?
This jerk tried to tell me how much he felt for me. He tried to get me to tell him that I loved him, but in the back of my mind something was not right. I asked if he had a gf, he said no, i asked if he had any complications in his life, he said no. What was that promise he made, "Oh baby, I would never lie to you." Today I find out that he has a gf, and about 5 other things that create way too much drama for me. Thank goodness I had the sense not to allow myself to fall for it.

What is it with these jerks anyway. How would he have felt if I tried to play him like he tried to play me? Don't they even care that we have feelings?

2007-08-20 18:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7 in Singles & Dating

This really is a serious question. My girlfriend loves to give me oral sex, and it feels really good, but for some reason I can't come when she is giving me oral and when I don't she says "she feel inadequate". Other than that, we have a wonderful sex life. I don't know why I can't but I just can't so how do I explain it to her so she don't feel so inadequate?

2007-08-20 18:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my girlfriend went with her family to another state for some time, it is now 5 weeks, we have contact through msn and myspace, phone. Ok, when I enter her myspace, there is some guy writing her comments like "My love, why so lost?" or "My life, love you."

She writes him back comments saying "Love you!" and she writes me comments saying "Hope you are ok" I write her I love you comments, but she doesnt to me.

Ok, and then, when I once connected to msn, her picture had the face of the guy and I told her who he was, she responded "Its my cousin."

Next day, I checked the mans profile to see what was the first comment my girlfriend left him, and this was it " Hello! I can see you and I have similarities, Nice to meet you! Take Care!"

Ok, that being her first comment to him...ARE THEY COUSINS????? Obvious they are not!! She lied to me, what do i do?? What are your opinions??

2007-08-20 18:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and I know that I need to keep my mouth shut but I've had it. She's a heavy drinker and everyone in this small town of mine is asking me about my mom. My dad knows about the guy but expects "God" To tell him what to do... Well it's been 9 years now and he's still putting up with it. He's too nice and too scared of her to say it's over. Now I think it's done (the marriage) and now I regret ever telling him everything. Although, life without her would be better for him. She's torn this family apart and she's probably one of the meanest people you'll ever meet. I think she's disowned (sp?) me for good. Again, he already knows about this guy but I told him that we are all embarrased of her and her drinking/ cheating. He agreed. But was I wrong to say all that? He's the nicest man in the world. I just couldnt sit there and watch anymore...

2007-08-20 18:25:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this girl at my college. Her name is Stacy. She is in my class and we have talked, on the phone, etc and been on dates. I really like her alot and she does do, she is my first girlfriend at age 20. This is the first time I really had the balls to go up and start talking to a girl, but she different. But I am introveted and basically have no real friends, and I am very independent. She is kinda of different etc, her friends think I am weird and everything but she doesn't care. I think I am falling for her, lol she basically the only person who makes me smile when I see them for no reason. But I don't want to get to close to her, and the way its going that were its headed. I don't want to go head over heals. What should I do?

2007-08-20 18:25:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are sitting down watching T.V. when you see a disgusting bug crawling across your floor. You get up to smush it and notice it is your abusive ex. Only really tiny. What would you say and do????

2007-08-20 18:24:58 · 23 answers · asked by Linda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

their siblings.?
what do they do to you?
tell me your stories.

in my case its my younger sister;
shes the black sheep of the family;
haha.

2007-08-20 18:19:58 · 14 answers · asked by stephbabyy<3 2 in Family

this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn't communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?

2007-08-20 18:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by tray 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 18:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i lost our virginity to each other. and im embarassed to ask friends this cuz i dont want to sound stupid. is it bad when you vagina swells and becomes sore after you have sex for a long time at once?

2007-08-20 18:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

i like someone i met while on vaca in the DR and he likes me. i just met him recently for the first time, and come to find out he's my 3rd cousin...i know some may not consider that right, but i looked past it because of how real my feelings are for him. We've only known each other for 3 weeks and the other day he said the "L" word.. and now hes in boston visiting family... i feel so strongly for him but im afraid to go any further because he lives in another country and it would never work we'd only see each other maybe once or twice a year.. and i dont know what to do, but i cant stop thinking about him everyday.... and im afraid if he asks me to be his gf ill say the wrong thing and ill regret it..idk. what do i do?

2007-08-20 18:11:30 · 10 answers · asked by Rhonda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can they also still have a normal wedding where their non-Mormon friends can attend?

2007-08-20 18:10:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings