How can a 13 year old make themselves look sexy for guys?

Question

I'm 13 and want to get a certain guy's attention. I've tried being nice and friendly, but it won't work. I've noticed he normally dates the sexier-looking girls. How can I make myself look sexy for him without looking TOO slutty (I'm ok with a LITTLE bit slutty but not too much).

Answer 1

Hey kid! This is dangerous. You sholdn't be thinking about this. You gonna attract the wrong attention! Stop that now!

Answer 2

Sexy 13 Year Old

Answer 3

Yes, you are too young for this, but I'll try to help anyway.

Try wearing your hair so that you can flip it or run your hand through it or be able to twirl it with your finger(very flirty move).

Wear natural looking make-up so that you can tell that you have it on, but you don't look like every other 13 year old girl that's just learning how to do make-up with bright ugly colors. I recommend the ( I think it's loreal) stuff specifically to bring your eye color out ( it comes with instructions) it's about $10 at Walmart.

Wear shirts that show off your shoulders or your back, a little bit of cleavage won't hurt, but since your 13 I advise against it (along with mini-skirts) because then your sending the wrong message. Short skirts are ok, but they look trashy unless they're almost to your knees or longer. Also, well fitting clothes. NOT tight clothes, not loose, but well fitting.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

OK, so I know that everyone is saying all these incredibly blunt (but veryvery truthfull) answers about being either a ty person or just other things. Don't be ty, your reputation will get damaged and you will look back on it and be ashamed, trust me. I am 14 years old so I understand. The point is, don't change yourself for a guy. It's not worth it. Don't change yourself for anyone. I understand that nice and friendly only gets you so far but after that... you have to be flirty, not necessarily y. I bet you are thinking, "How does she know?" Well, I have been in a relationship (starting when I was 13) for almost 6 months now, and this is how I got him to ask me out. Well, I was the stupid, clumsy, and flawed person I make fun of. It's part of my personality that I get scared easily and when we would hang out, I just let that part of myself show a bit more. Be sweet. I blushed, and it was funny we have jokes about it now. Just emphasize the more attractive parts of your personality. It sounds weird, but you have to remember if this guy has been out with a few ier-looking s, it might be that he is a wannabe player, and that is stupid in guys. Also, you must (we all) must remember that there are other guys! You're in, what 8th grade?? Don't worry about guys so much now, but if the right one comes around, you'll have the times of your life. It worked for me, I'm in love!

Answer 5

Sometimes looking a certain way doesn't always work. Especially if the guy is very very good looking. Chances are he's bored of getting the girls who are ga-ga over him and is looking for a challenge. Most very good looking guys want to be the ones doing the chasing! Get his attention by being witty yet acting as if you're not interested. Almost as if he "aint all that". Insult him in a semi-friendly way even... "Are you gaining weight?", "Man you eat a lot!", "Ever think about working out?", etc. I know this sounds harsh, but that will get his attention cause he'll wonder why you're not looking at him or acting the way the rest of them are. When you're around him, the less you look at him, smile, or give him attention, the better. Try this and see if he starts to notice you. I've seen this done before and it worked!!

Answer 6

Please, let this guy go and wait for a guy who doesn't think 13 year old girls should dress sexy. If you are a "little bit sl****" does that mean you're having sex already? You are taking a terrible risk. 13 is too young. I know you don't want to hear that, but it is. You could get pregnant, or you could get a sexually transmitted disease. You could also get your heart broken, or get into a situation where a guy hurts you physically.

Is there an adult you can trust that you can talk to about this? If you have taken this step already, you need to talk to someone about the risks and responsibilities of sex.

Answer 7

A 13-year-old girl is not going to look sexy. Period.

And anyone who finds a 13-year-old sexy, is a sick ****.

Why would you want to get the attention of someone who only cares about looks anyway?

Answer 8

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How can a 13 year old make themselves look sexy for guys?
I'm 13 and want to get a certain guy's attention. I've tried being nice and friendly, but it won't work. I've noticed he normally dates the sexier-looking girls. How can I make myself look sexy for him without looking TOO slutty (I'm ok with a LITTLE bit slutty but not...

Answer 9

Idk if you really want that cause being a guy and knowing about guys at that age, if you look sexier for him, he'll only want you for that. At first it'll seem all good but you'll end up regreting it later because he might just move on with someone that he thinks is sexier or he might just get bored. And don't even think about the idea this idea: After I get with him, I'll change him and make him like me for who I am. Sorry, it won't happen. I'm not trying to be mean or anything but it's the truth. Maybe you'll understand when you get older.

Answer 10

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A nice body, holds her shape well and takes pride in her appearance. Wears makeup to make themselves prettier cause guy's look for sexy chicks! Big butt, big boobs, thin body. A nice personality, peppy and ready to do about anything. A great kisser. That's all my boyfriend cares about -.- And I'm around that age.

Answer 11

FIRST OF ALL AT 13 TRYING TO BE SEXY SHOULD BE THE LAST THING ON YOUR MIND! IF A MAN CAN'T EXCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE,.. THEN HE AIN'T EVEN WORTH THE TIME AND ENERGY FOR YOU TO PUT FORTH IN ASKING THIS QUESTION. AT 13 I WAS WORRIED ABOUT OTHER THINGS. IF A GUY WAS INTERESTED,..THEN THAT WAS WHAT IT WAS. YOU HAVE SO MUCH MORE TO LOOK FORWARD TO. DON'T WASTE IT ON SOMEONE THAT YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO DO SOMETIHING EXTRA TO GET ATTENTION!