this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn't communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?
2007-08-20 18:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by tray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your trying to have a relationship with a girl that you cant even talk to?
learn spanish REAL fast (try rosetta stone) or move on to the next fish in the sea.
2007-08-20 18:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she would lead you on or use you if she doesn't speak english? I don't think so. It is awful not being able to understand when you are in a country and you do not speak the main language. I am sure that if she didnt like you she would immediately avoid you and not see you again. Trust me, she likes you otherwise she wouldnt go through all that trouble of translating things to communicate with you. By the way, if you think she is using you...then you are wrong.....if she was just in it for the money she would of gone to someone with much more money than you. Someone who would give her straight up cash, not clothes.
2016-05-18 21:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in constant contact so you can develop a relationship. Maybe she didn't contact you for like a month cause well simply put she speaks only spanish! You need to make the moves in this relationship if things are to work, talk to her in spanish, english translate if you have to do what you gotta do. I think she definitely likes you but doesn't know the words to say.
2007-08-20 18:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by the worr e ore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she kissed you Because you bought her some clothes she is not a "good good catholic girl". I suggest you ask her out again, and go on a picnic and dont make any moves on her and see how she reacts to you.
2007-08-20 18:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her? It sounds like she kissed you to thank you but that is an assumption unless you ask her directly. Why don't you start learning Spanish if you are that interested in her? or why not ask her to teach you Spanish even if her English is very rusty.
2007-08-20 18:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you are doing. You can also try to teach her English. I think you're doing quite well... Don't let the language barrier hold you back. Let the universal language of the tongue do the talking.
Buy her roses.
2007-08-20 18:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn more spanish and keep taking her out. It sounds as if you already know some of her language.
2007-08-20 18:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in touch with her, make her feel special. by her flowers or a box of candy, she'll get the idea. she is probly attracted to you too, dont let this go. you're on the right track :)
2007-08-20 18:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by apple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn Mexican QUICK! She would appreciate the effort at the least so you cant go wrong.
2007-08-20 18:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by cstmdsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go on more dates with her, and if she kisses you again then you will know what it means and if she doesn't then move on.
2007-08-20 18:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋