Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

I have a boyfriend that he goes to a different school than i do since i moved. Now I'm in this new school I flirt A LOT with other guys, and I'm starting to like someone. My boyfriend says that he truly LOVES me...so I have no clue if i should break up with him. I really like this new guy.

What should I do?!

2007-08-20 15:17:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her mother says she does not believe her daughter. although her mother has left her boyfriend in the past for abuse and even filed a restraining order against him. she dropped the restraining order the next day. she refuses to let his daughter come live with us. she knows her situation is bad neither her mother or boyfriend work and they have a convicted felon living with them on house arrest. also last year her mother made her miss 23 days of school. her mothers boyfriend is an alcoholic too. we called the police and they made us give her back to the mother because he only has joint custody. we filed emergency custody and seeked an attorney. does anyone know what happens in an emergency custody hearing and who all has to be present? based on the info i gave you do you think this is enough for her dad to get custody? any advice and help would greatly be appreciated. also, we called CPS and they did nothing.

2007-08-20 15:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by redenbargers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 15:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by mldavr29 1 in Friends

I want to give my bf a "just because" gift bc he already got me 2 for no reason. Hes 15 and Im 12. I want to get him something material but nothing too expensive. What should I get him?

2007-08-20 15:12:13 · 33 answers · asked by SCU 5 in Singles & Dating

well, my ex. my dad doesn't particarly like him, so he banned me from having any contact from him whatsoever. But he called me recently, and we started talking. And we are starting to call eachother now. but my dad doesn't know his #. when he grounded me, he said he was gonna find out. but since its my cell phone, it doesnt show the name. only the #. what should i say if he asks who that # belongs too? please help and thank you.

2007-08-20 15:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom is a very complicated woman. She's a perfectionist actually. she wants me to always clean the house! if it gets dirty, she spazzes at me even though i already cleaned the house. I cant stand her sometimes! she really gives me a headache! And sometimes she blames my best friend for all the things that are happening.she thinks that she's a bad influence to me. of course, i always stand up for best friend, i know she's a good person and she's not a bad influence to me. I hate my mom when she's being judgemental but everytime i tell her not to be judgemental she would say: "so thats what THAT GIRL (my best friend) thought you huh? "Me and my best friend talk about 2-3 hrs everyday, which i think its not that bad, because i think i deserve some fun since i always do whatever my mom wants me to do. but the worst thing about my mom is she hits me when she gets really angry..

2007-08-20 15:03:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been seeing my current bf & it is a new fresh relationship. we have grown 2gether& super close in a short time. it seems like we have been 2gether for @ least 5 or more yrs. since its new 2 us both, we are in touch & in tune & have a wndrfl relationship i treasure so much & he tells me how much he loves & cares.im not 1 2 sleep around & just hook up w/ anything. i have my standards & my morals. i dont just bang any1. we havent had sex yet. i kno we eventually will. im ready & willing, & when he asks i wont turn him down. hes very hesitant but the attraction is soo there b/w us! i find out the reason he doesn't want 2ask me 4 sex is b/c if he does he thinks he has a chance of losing me. he has said he never wants 2 take any chances & lose me 4 anything! so he refrains from asking. he thinks if he asks i will dump him. i wont i wouldnt. how can i advance this and show him that it would b ok 2 ask, & show him i would say yes & not give him a no or rejection.i adore him i love him!

2007-08-20 15:00:10 · 8 answers · asked by Pr3tti3 1 in Singles & Dating

of absence I have not had the chance to get to know my little girl after a bitter divorce she is almost 8 years old and have just seen her for the first time in 5 years two days ago. Mother is wanting to work it out for the sake or her I'm caucious and of course I still Love her mother always have but am more concerned for my daughter and self at finaly becomeing a family, we live 4 hours apart and I will sacrafice what ever nessesary to see her any advice???

2007-08-20 14:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by Ed T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 14:55:20 · 1 answers · asked by Les 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I give my partner what he wants?? He has asked me to give him time to get his head around our recent seperation. We are not living together at the moment. He says that he still loves me and that he IS comming home. But he just wants some space to sort his unresolved hurt out( I had told him I know longer loved him and wanted him to leave) He tried for months to get me to change my mind, he went out of his way to spoil me and loved me In everyway. But still I said no as I was just so confused. Well anyway, I realsied what he ment to me. I dont no where to start and feel so lost. I have that big lump in my throat and my minds all over the place. I feel so down, I Cry all the time and I text and ring him like a lunitic. I hate doing this but I cant seem to stop. I will get a strong moment where I think I can do it, but the most of gone without texting Is 5 hours. Its so horrible I feel like my mind Is going to explode. I trust him at his word, so how can I stop hounding him?

2007-08-20 14:54:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mary Poppins was travelling home, but due to worsening weather, she decided to stop at a hotel for the night. She approached the receptionist and asked for a room for the night.

"Certainly madam", he replied courteously.

"Is the restaurant open still?" inquired Mary.

"Sorry, no," came the reply, "but room service is available all night. Would you care to select something from this menu?"

Mary smiled and took the menu and perused it. "Hmm, I would like cauliflower cheese please," said Mary.

"Certainly madam," he replied.

"And can I have breakfast in bed?" asked Mary politely.

The receptionist nodded and smiled. "In that case, I would love a couple of poached eggs please," Mary mused.

After confirming the order, Mary signed in and went up to her room for the night. The night passed uneventfully and next morning Mary came down early to check out.

The same guy was still on the desk. "Morning madam...sleep well?" "Yes, thank you," Mary replied. "Food to your liking?"

"Well, I have to say the cauliflower cheese was exceptional, I don't think I have had better. Shame about the eggs tho....they really weren't that nice at all," replied Mary truthfully.

"Oh...well, perhaps you could contribute these thoughts to our Guest Comments Book. We are always looking to improve our service and would value your opinion," said the receptionist.

"Ok I will...thanks!" replied Mary....who then checked out, paused awhile, then scribbled a comment into the book. Waving, she left to continue her journey. Curious, the receptionist picked up the book to see the comment Mary had written. Here it is.........

"Supercauliflowercheesebuteggswerequiteatrocious!!!!

2007-08-20 14:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by Jim Jnr M 6 in Singles & Dating

aaah! my family's driving me crazyi have 2 little sisters 1 baby brother and theyre always annoying, my stepdad's a jerk, my moms lazy, and i have an awful headache and i just want to calm down, so how do i calm down in such a stressfull madhouse?!?!

2007-08-20 14:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

for those of us blissfully unaware...

2007-08-20 14:49:51 · 57 answers · asked by sharifjunaid 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My maid of honor lives far far away in another state. She isn't going to be able to help me out with a lot of prewedding tasks. When my other bridesmaids were getting their dresses ordered my maid of honor was slacking. I needed her to get measured and then send the bridal shop her measurements so we could order the all the dresses on time. I called her and email her repeatedly and she just ignored me and gave me stupid excuese until the day before the order was due. Can I ask another girl to be my maid of honor instead or is it too late? They wedding is in 3 months...

2007-08-20 14:47:21 · 10 answers · asked by stoli lover 1 in Weddings

Is it ok to get married by the justice of the peace first then later on have a real wedding?

2007-08-20 14:44:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay, there is this junior at my school, (i am sophomore) we have the same lunch and he sits at the table across from mine.
One day at lunch he said hi to me. day after that he stares at me a lil and smiles once at me. next day he laughed at me. (in a nice way, i said something funny and i guess he heard it.)

so what do you think??
i know he probably doesn't like me or anything, cuz i have never talked to him before, except for saying hi.
but i just want to know what his deal is.

thank you!

2007-08-20 14:42:39 · 1 answers · asked by omg.emma37 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i was bored so i decided to hump i pillow well i heard footsteps so i stopped and listened well i got off and turned around and my dad was standing right and the door he asked what are you doing and i said im on the computer and then he walked away my stomache hurts now and im scared hoefully he will forget i dont know if i was caught or not what should i do

2007-08-20 14:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im having a few issues with my mum. Don't get me wrong, i love the woman dearly! All my mum has ever wanted is one of us to get married or have kids. My sister delivered with the kids and now its my turn. My parents have said they'll contribute a set amount to the wedding which we were stoked about. My fiances parents said they'd pick up the rest of the tab. My mother said I have been putting the in-law to be's 1st and i have struggled to see where I have done this other than when we were first organising things & his parents were only paying for the booze, when mum wanted to buy wine for the tables I said no (figuring her money could be better spent somewhere else). She also says that i shoot her down about every suggestion (e.g. she said the song I walk down the aisle to should be a song about me and dad, i tried to explain it was the bridal march but no go). My mother is organising the cake, with no input from me, i have shown her the stationary and asked her opinion.

2007-08-20 14:40:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My family goes to this church with anither part of our families- sub family if you will. One of them is getting married this Sat. My fiancee is friends w/ the bride and the groom is my cousin. We were under the impression (b/c of brides comments to my fiancee' ) that we were invited yet no one else in my "subfamily" got an invite...no one! Now a week b 4 I ask if my fiancee', who was "invited" by bride, if he mailed the rsvp and he said another lady at my church had our invitation. I call her and she doesn't have it yet is invited. I really dont think we (any of us family or not) were invited at all ever. Would you go?

Im also getting married next yr. would you invited the bride and groom from "sub fam" to your wedding?

2007-08-20 14:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by LOVE BEING A MOMMY 6 in Weddings

I am looking for information about Heminger House in Plymouth, Indiana

2007-08-20 14:37:40 · 1 answers · asked by Mary C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-20 14:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by schmit21047 1 in Weddings

his guy I met at a camp we worked at is two years older than me and it took us two months to finally tell each other we like other. We have talked a couple times since then and he seems like he is a little less open with me. We don't joke around as much and hes always worried that I'm mad he woke me up or if I'm injured like I was recently hes always telling me to hang up and sleep. Is he making excuses not to talk to me are things gonna be weird with us forever. Whats he thinking?

2007-08-20 14:27:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 14:27:42 · 13 answers · asked by Thorium 2 in Weddings

my wife went out of town, and I asked my 2 step children to help put the food away that I went the store the day before. My step children called there mom in private to tell on me. My wife then called me to tell me that she was upset with me, and that I was a bad father and a worse step-father.

2007-08-20 14:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by jefferyjspencer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im having this rocky relationship with a married guy. I did try to break it off with him but we keep on coming back to each other. Then last sunday i saw him in church with the wife and the three kids. We are both Catholics and man, I felt like God was indeed saying something to me. I am deeply hurt and ashamed of what I've done. I am trying to avoid him now. He told me not to think about it too much and just brush it off. I can't. I am so in-love with him but afte seeing his family and how he smiled when he looked at his wife, I felt so wrong for thinking that that smile belonged to me. I've been a fool. I am hurting and mad. Sometimes I almost dont believe it anymore when he tells me he loves me. He doesn't. I don't want to talk to him anymore to break it off. Im thinkin more of just disappearing. Stop talking to him, stop texting, stop emailing... you think this is better? Im afraid taht if I see him I might end up in his arms again. I feel so worthless.

2007-08-20 14:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are any brides wearing this dress? Do you have a pic of it? I'm trying to find pictures of real brides wearing this dress. I feel like I can't get an idea of what a dress looks like in real life, when it's on a stick thin, 5'10 model.

The website does not offer any pictures of real brides wearing this dress?

Help Anyone!!!!


This is the dress, BTW

http://maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?line=m&attrib30=276&attrib32=287&keywordType=any&pageSize=8&page=4&style=J136&moreOptions=1

2007-08-20 14:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

2007-08-20 14:16:05 · 7 answers · asked by haley s 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been separated for quite a while but were still communicating daily. I begged her to make her mind up to either come back or end it. It was looking pretty good for a little while but the same old issues kept coming back into play and we started argueing again. End result, she packed up and moved away; I guess ending it. I still love her with all my heart and she definately has issues within herself. I just can't, or having a really hard time with it. I miss her and wish things could had got straightened out. My question is: How is the best way to handle this? I'm am so sad and can't keep my mind off her. Can anyone give me any advice to help through this? Thanks for taking the time to read this.

2007-08-20 14:15:57 · 10 answers · asked by Keeper 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is mad and not speaking to me and I've called him several times but he always hangs up on me. I've also driven by his house a few time just so I can see if I can see him through the window or outside. I also went by the school after he got out of cross country practice earlier but he acting like he didn't see me. My sister says I'm acting like an obessed idiot but I don't think so. I jsut wanted to know what do you guys think is the point of obessision?

2007-08-20 14:13:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What shade of blue would go good with silver? I'm getting married soon and am trying to decide on a blue for my wedding colors.

2007-08-20 14:09:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings