his guy I met at a camp we worked at is two years older than me and it took us two months to finally tell each other we like other. We have talked a couple times since then and he seems like he is a little less open with me. We don't joke around as much and hes always worried that I'm mad he woke me up or if I'm injured like I was recently hes always telling me to hang up and sleep. Is he making excuses not to talk to me are things gonna be weird with us forever. Whats he thinking?
2007-08-20 14:27:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is thinking like most people, that when you began to move into deeper waters, the relationship changes. It hasn't but the belief that he most treat you differently now is strong and takes awhile, if at all, for an indivdiual to breack and let a deep, meaningful relatinoship flow thru. So be patient with him, classic insecurites with woman, thats completely normal, just know he is trying to do what he feel is the best thing to do for you, is it always going to be the right choice? No, will you always be able to tolerate it? No, but realize that just talk to him abou thow you feel, he needs to hear that! It wouldn't of hurt you on that night he ask you to hang up, to say to him " Hey! Are you trying to get rid of me buddy?" you'd be happier, so would he, and you'd both get a laff, just don't let your feelings go unanwsered if you care for this relationship at all!!!! VERY IMPORTANT
hint: that is actually the very fundemental core of any relationship, the ability to express your good and bad feelings openly with each other, now go! do good for you guys!!! Oo and also call him on the WHOLE change, "Like hey buddy, why you got to be acting all different with me?" Just get out what you NEED, from him, thats the role we play in relatinships! now again! GO!
2007-08-22 08:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋