I have a boyfriend that he goes to a different school than i do since i moved. Now I'm in this new school I flirt A LOT with other guys, and I'm starting to like someone. My boyfriend says that he truly LOVES me...so I have no clue if i should break up with him. I really like this new guy.
What should I do?!
2007-08-20 15:17:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shallow person. if u break his heart he gona go around and break lots of hearts.
2007-08-20 15:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by sanJose_Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your boyfriend knows you very well enough to say he loves you then he should know that you a flirt and he should be ok with it so lets say you start with the othe guy and he isnt as good as your boyfriend then let him go if he is better than your boyfriend you should let your original boyfriend down easily and say you cant handle a long distance relationship and you guys should start seeing other people. But if you cant decide talk to both of thm and see which one knows you and likes you the most and you see yourself staying with for a while because you dont want someone who you go on and off with trust me from personal experience it gets annoying after a while. Well good luck hoe you choose the right one.
P.S dont exactly break up with the other because if you and your choice dont work out then you will have the the other one to go to. So you can tell the one you dont pick that you shuld put the relationship on hold so your not broken up but at the same time your not going out with them GD LUCK :)
2007-08-20 22:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before... I was dating (long-term) a guy that lived at the beach and I was at school a of hours away. He loved me too... and I thought I felt the same way until I met a guy. I didn't know if it would even go anywhere with this new guy, but I figured that if I were having feeling for someone else then it just wasn't meant to be. So, I broke up with him so that I wouldn't be unfair to him.
Turns out it was the best decision I ever made. He found someone that truly loved him back and I found someone that I did also...
Good luck... follow your heart and be fair to yourself and your boyfriend.
2007-08-20 22:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Renn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend loves you or not has NOTHING to do with your own feelings. Therefore you should ask ONLY yourself. Not me or anyone else here knows how you feel, but how YOU feel about him is ALL that matters.
So better check what YOU want and do what FEELS right for you. But It's not something you can decide rationally. Its your intuition that makes the choice.
You should also know that if you stay with someone while you would rather leave, you're not doing them a favor at all. Its the opposite of that.
2007-08-20 22:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Wildan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you do not belong in any kind of committed relationship. You are too young, immature, and inexperienced. You should tell your friend that you are not ready to date just one guy and that while you still like him (if that's true) he should see other people too. Just the fact that you are flirting a lot means that the relationship with the other boy is one-sided at best. Let him find someone else.
2007-08-20 22:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been together first off. your at a new school with new people and your intrested in "something new" right? your starting to like someone, that may be just you wanting to get to know the new place and the fact that you like this guy doesnt mean you should break up with someone you love (if you do love your bf you never said). but if it would make you happier break up with him, don't put yourself through somthing you dont deserve good luck, this is tough but you'll know what to do,
2007-08-20 22:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are all ready in a relationship, you shouldn't be flirting. It's okay to be friends with other guys, but you are all ready taken. If you wish to continue flirting with other guys then maybe you guys should break up. Long distance relationships are hard, but they will work if you BOTH put forth the effort. How old are you guys anyway?
2007-08-20 22:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by winny2zeld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. yeauh most definatly love has to come from both sides in a relationship and if you really arent feeling this guy i say u should most def dump him and enjoy yourself . i say just talk to him and say that you dont have any feelings for him anymore and that you hope he can understand and what you would like to do right now is move on . its really hard but u have to be careful how u say it so it wont sound mean. trust me if you have no feelings for him it would make things harder staying with him. Good Luck :)
2007-08-20 22:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by crystalf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young and in school...Break it off and stay single for a while. Sounds like you feel as if your missing the partys. There is nothing wrong with flirting unless your married.
2007-08-20 22:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by G-man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... do you love him? If you do the stay with him but sometimes people notcice they love someone they had but than its to late, so think about it first, and get to know the new guy, cuz he can be an ***-hole, just trying to make you fall for him.. You and ur bf should spend more time 2gether to find out if u love ur bf more than you may like the new kid
i hope i help = ]
2007-08-20 22:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by kristen. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weigh out your options...how long have you been in your present relationship?? if your questioning it already for someone else then its not that serious.do you love him?? there are 3 guys to every 1 girl so liking another guy sometimes is normal..guys do it all the time,but the grass isnt always greener on the other side...flirting is nice..changing relationships is awhole different story...keep flirting
2007-08-20 22:32:53 · answer #11 · answered by inlove? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋