2007-08-20 15:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by mldavr29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be there, do alot of listening............ dont give advice unless asked........ and let them know that no matter what you will be there for them..........
2007-08-20 15:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. Listen and keep him busy (doing things you guys enjoy doing). Like #1 said, dont' give advise unless asked and even at that, be careful what you say. Whatever you do, no matter what the situation is, don't bash or bad-mouth the wife.
2007-08-28 18:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a time of crisis in ur best friends life......so just try to be there for him........n show him that he will not be left alone after going through this.......always advice him correctly but let him make the final decision n don't be upset if in the end wht he decides isn't wht u want.......be there with him n if u find him constantly sulking then change his mood n bring up different topics for dicussion.......don't let his life rotate around his divorce involve him in activities he n u like and do it together......all the best to u..........
2007-08-28 09:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your trying to support a opposite sex its really difficult because its easy to step over the boundary or be mistaken of doing something that your not suppose to . i would make myself available when he or she needs someone to talk to. not sexual either just friends. people are usually more vulernable when things like this happens they are trying to find comfort instead of dealing with the feelings which he or should do
2007-08-28 11:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyjen28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to him, when he needs to talk. They could always get back together again so I wouldn't talk trash about the wife.
2007-08-27 22:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for him especially when he needs u try to be in his shoes by that i mean try to understand what he is going through support him in every decision that he makes and u know is the right thing to do and pray for him bye and good luck
2007-08-28 12:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Noelsco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to them, DO NOT offer advice or talk down about their soon to be spouse, you never really know if the divorce will actually go through.
2007-08-27 12:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support their decisions. Don't encourage them to do anything bad, like suicide, but listen to them and help them get through their tough times.
2007-08-28 15:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him , if he needs to talk to somebody. Just be a friend if he wants to open up and share.
2007-08-20 22:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to try marriage coulsing and if it doesnt work then its not ment to be llove always finds it way back to people heart
2007-08-28 17:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by kjkvjerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋