Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

Fighting recently so he decided on a break while he got to ready to move here to college. It was just a let's not talk/see and it lasted 4 days ony because I helped him move into his apartment like we agreed on. Also we had not had sex in over 2-2.5 months because of a christian moral/long story short I wanted to but he was confused later saying he wanted to. So I stayed the night the first night and we ended up having sex and it was great. The next morning he didn't really cuddle like normal and just got right up although maybe because now he has roomates? He has not called me yet, even when I say call me after class and I call him everytime. He texted me once to invite me to dinner. He doesn't want to hold hands or cuddle nearly as much as we used to. Kisses are few and far between (only when I'm leaving basically or I go for it). I asked tonight how he was or did he want to talk. He said he was fine and he doesn't know what to say. I'm clueless so I told him to tell me if I'm

2007-08-20 16:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by misschick87 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 16:27:08 · 15 answers · asked by Imani T 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is not all men and that women do it too. And not all relationships are the same. How come though it seems like guys are less willing to stick it out through tough times. I know there are other people out there you can just move on to, but is that really what you want to do? Im just curious as to why this seems to be.

2007-08-20 16:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so my girlfriend just broke up with me about an hour ago. we were together but every month we would breakup cuz we would want to see other people. ok so now its summer i havent seen her and she says oh i wanna break up cuz i never see you and i said its becuase u dont call me (i call her though..she never answers) so i was like were over, ok fine. then she texts me an says were cool right? i feel so mad! this ever happen to any1. she says when school begins we r gonna resume the relationship. i dont want to cuz i dont want to break up every month. can any1 help me move on.? thanks. also is she wrong for acting like thatt asking if were cool or am i just angry?

2007-08-20 16:18:49 · 22 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2 in Singles & Dating

i remember;; up until fourth grade it was me and all my friends from my neighborhood;; no drama, it was just us. in 5th grade;; i drifted apart from them cause i was tired of the drama. then i met 3 girls;; julie, tyler, and megan. me and tyler were best friends;; then when i changed schools she backstabbed me, and now i cant talk to any of them without getting into a major argument. now;; i have two girl friends, and the rest of my friends are guys. theres NO DRAMA, and there the best friends ive ever had. but now im known as a whore! dont you just wish everything could be like it used to?

2007-08-20 16:16:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He plays around with me and tries to get close to me.

2007-08-20 16:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

its been weighing on my mind alot lately. I just don't know if i should go back to him, put aside my pride, and tell him the truth or just suck it up and move on? we dated on and off for 3 years, and we have been broken up for a year now. I think about him everyday, actually he is the first thing that pops in my head when i wake up, i cry atleast once a week.. ( i don't tell anyone or talk about him just because i don't really want them to know) we sorta have some of the same friends, but he has not talked to me at all. nothing, he dated a few girls i think, and i got upset and my best friend was like they might betogether but that doesn't mean he is happy, and she has talked to him scene we broke up, so what do i do?? if he has not talked to me then he hates me right even tho he told me i was his everything. and cried himself to sleep over me. ourfamilys hate each other, he is scared of my dad.. what to do? do u think he still loves me, he gave me a ring?? thanks.

2007-08-20 16:10:07 · 2 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a person think they got depression can that person beat the odd of it with just help from friends without going to a doctor about it ? need help

2007-08-20 16:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by just me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

jinappropriately ohnny is beating his mother senseless in the middle of wal mart during his temper tantrum. his mother (probably zoned out on valium) calmly tell him that if he doesn't stop acting inappropriately , she will put him in TIME OUT....WTF???

2007-08-20 16:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How rich are you in comparison?

2007-08-20 16:08:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Apparently a very close guy friend i have thought we were dating though we agreed friends is all we'll ever be, but he gets mad at me cause I am considering a relationship with someone I like. We've always said we were just friends, nothing more, were not at all physical, except for maybe some major flirtation, but no kissing or holding hands no cuddling, like you would think a couple would. So he gets so mad and jealous of my other guy friend and he doesn't know him. So i tell him first of all, i didn't know we were dating and I had given up hope of anything with you anyways because you said friends is all well ever be. I feel so bad for hurting him like this but I've also hurt myself, I feel better to get away from this a little bit but hes all i think about now and I want to see him and talk to him so bad.

i was just looking out for myself i guess, i don't want anything serious with him, we are two very different people running opposite ways. How do I tell him that I want

2007-08-20 16:06:04 · 2 answers · asked by p_shell1987 2 in Singles & Dating

this girl I really like well today i caught her looking at me from far away (she appeared to be looking at me at least) but when i caught her eye she casually turned away and stop looking does this mean anything. We know each other but not good and shes not a shy pearson

2007-08-20 16:03:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend told me not to gossip but to pmd

2007-08-20 16:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by New Intelligence lol 2 in Friends

. I was fine until I met tis guy and we were together for about a year doing a(very) long distance relationship. Things seemed perfect and then he broke up all of a sudden and till today I dont know the reason. All I know is that he went quiet and stopped taking my calls and a few months later I surprisingly showed up in his town and found out he had fiance

Now someone else would've moved on in a month or two..
It's been more than 9 months and I can't get over him or what he did to me


I think less of myself and question both my looks and personality. I constantly feel that he "discovered" I'm not that attractive or nice?.. I NEED to be with someone and I can't find someone good, I want to love again but it never happened.
Is this normal? What do I do please if you had this experience or something similar help me :'(

2007-08-20 16:01:32 · 23 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

My daugther will be having a grand debut on her 18th birthday. As a father, I will be her 1st dance. I want a music that is something nostalgic worth remembering. It may be an old music. The lyrics may have some meaning for her, etc.

2007-08-20 16:01:12 · 4 answers · asked by zanjoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i live with my mom and pay her rent. my brother lives with us and he is bi-polar and sometimes its really tough dealing with him. my sister also live with us and we're extremely close. We live in South Florida. my best friend who lives in New York City offered me a room (rent free). all i would have to do is babysit her children from time to time. im really comfortable in my mom's house in the sense that i have my own bedroom, tv, private phone line, and computer. but i often wonder how it would be to live somewhere else. any advice?

2007-08-20 16:00:46 · 1 answers · asked by noname 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Really HARD...

2007-08-20 15:59:47 · 15 answers · asked by .. 3 in Singles & Dating

because i am stuck with mine and am in need of sympathy stories.
*and dont be mistaken, im really very nice

2007-08-20 15:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by live for today 4 in Family

Im going to the fair with my cousins and i need a way to stop my stomach from freaking out!!
HELP!

2007-08-20 15:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friends and I were drinking and I was dared to kiss one of my friends.
Later that night my friend said that I should kiss one of my other friends and I wanted to so he said that he would talk to him and see if he was interested.
Then I hung out with him a few days later and he was texting him telling him reasons NOT to hook with me... that I was a bad kisser and just ALL this stuff about me, I accidently read it and then the next day I was IMing him and he was asking me about the night and was like "so you didn't get to hookup with him", I don't know how to act around him now....


P.S. I know as a FACT he doesn't like me, trust me, he doesn't like girls like that...

2007-08-20 15:56:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im really nervous about starting highschool. any advice or things i should know about highschool?

2007-08-20 15:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by trisha 2 in Family

2007-08-20 15:41:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-20 15:35:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She says she offering support but then ends her letters with "love and hugs".
I don't even get "love or hugs" Should I be pissed off?

2007-08-20 15:33:57 · 41 answers · asked by huxtable_grimm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u look for most in a girlfriend like a long lasting one not just a hook up?

2007-08-20 15:33:39 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband soooo much and we have been married for almost a year.About three weeks ago we found out he has Hodgkins Lyphoma Cancer. Stage two. He is 20 and i am 19. Since we found out he has had surgeries and tests off the wazoo. He is such a strong person, and is the nicest most caring person i know. He started chemo the 16th of august, and it made a bit nauseated, and weak, and very tired.I am trying to do everything for him and take care of him the best i can. I know God is going to heal him but i am so scared that i am going to lose him, and it hurts so bad to see him weak and tired and just not his strong self.I want to make it all better and i know he is the one going through it but i am hurting to. It kills me just to look at him becasue i want to cry everytime i look at him, its just because i love him so much and i hate that he is in pain and i am scared to lose him, and that i know i can't make anything better. I need advise, incouragement, and prayers please!!!!!!

2007-08-20 15:29:20 · 22 answers · asked by Christian 1 in Family

is it better if a kid is younger and can't speak or walk or halfway before they become adults? When is best?

2007-08-20 15:29:20 · 23 answers · asked by Cub_Fanatic 3 in Family

I need your help. My daughter just turned 12 and thinks she knows EVERYTHING we have tried talking to her about the way she dresses and acts(her idols are Paris Hilton and Nichole Ritchie) She is also mouthy and thinks she should get anything she wants but doesn't want to do anything for anybody .We've tried the grounding thing, no phone and stuff like that. Please tell me what else i can do before she gets worse. Thanks.

2007-08-20 15:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

During my parents divorce. My mom was fighting with my dad on the phone. I got upset and ran to my Taekwondo school. My instructor was on the phone at the time and got her husband's attention. I ran to him ( there was no class) and he told me that he would never let anyone hurt me. His wife got off the phone and she said come here, She held me while i was crying. She said that while her and her husband was there no one can hurt me. I said Why are they fighting. They said sometimes parents fight. I am like Please dont leave me. They also said dont worry we arent going to leave you. But there was kids coming in for a class. My male instructor said take her and talk to her. Maybe you can tell her its alright. I am like no its not. I don't like it. I still have a Taekwondo teddy bear that my female instructor gave me. She's like if they are fighting and we aren't there to help you out just give this bear a hug and know that we care about you and that you are also like a daughter to us.

2007-08-20 15:19:41 · 1 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

So I have loved [Yes loved, i have known him 4 years] this guy for a year now. But basically he just graduated and is Alaska until tuesday. I have not talked to him since the beginning of June when he graduated and he told me simply HAVE to come over to his house and visit. But then he got a girlfriend. His first actual real girlfriend. And she's such a sweetheart.

But he doesn't know i even give a crap about him. I used to make fun of him in High School and i think it really hurt him, but we did share a locker and he did have 8 fricken coats there at one point in time.

Also he's going in the Navy in November.

Should I tell him my feelings, even though, he has a girlfriend and it wouldn't mean anything for six years?

2007-08-20 15:18:27 · 2 answers · asked by Miranda S 2 in Singles & Dating