Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

wel he is coming over homw with me in few minuts..so what should i do i really want him to kiss me...what are some ways i could give him a hint about it...tell me what should i doo>>>???

2007-08-20 12:29:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 12:28:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I chose my wedding dress because I thought it was beautiful. I didn't think about the technicalities of wearing it however. I have a small frame, and this dress is big with a long train. When I had alterations done for the first time, I realized how much it hurt my lower back. My friend says to just get another dress for the reception, but I hate the thought of having paid money on this dress only to wear it for 15 minutes during the ceremony? Plus my wedding isnt going to be super glitzy or over the top and I don't want to look like I'm putting on a fashion show by changing. Is this a tacky thing to do? Would you just grin and bare the original dress for the night?

2007-08-20 12:21:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Today my friends and I were performing a seonce, when my parents got mad at me for lighting candles in the house (im 13). They are opposed to Wicca, but not in favor of Christianity either. Usually, we go to the park in the woods to perform magic, but it was raining today. My parents grounded me and wont let me go the park tommorow. What do I do? (And also, if youre going to say something negative or that i am too young to light candles or wicca is evil, i will report you)

2007-08-20 12:19:25 · 15 answers · asked by Sean L. 1 in Family

I have been completely isolated for the opportunity to make friends. It's been 7 years and he's been involved with some questionable activities lately. He's full of double standards, he has no conscience and blames all our problems on me. I moved with him 9 states in 7 years for his job and have tried to be supportive. But he won't let me work or leave the house without permission. And now I want out and that would mean going to the streets in a strange city. I sometimes think I'd be happier there. But the prospect scares me. Has anyone or is anyone in the same situation? What do you do? I feel trapped.

2007-08-20 12:18:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been completely isolated for the opportunity to make friends. It's been 7 years and he's been involved with some questionable activities lately. He's full of double standards, he has no conscience and blames all our problems on me. I moved with him 9 states in 7 years for his job and have tried to be supportive. But he won't let me work or leave the house without permission. And now I want out and that would mean going to the streets in a strange city. I sometimes think I'd be happier there. But the prospect scares me. Has anyone or is anyone in the same situation? What do you do? I feel trapped.

2007-08-20 12:12:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'll try to make my story short--one of my grandparents is not doing well. she's taken a huge step backwards. she has trouble doing the basic things and can barely make full sentences. right now, she's in a nursing home. whenever i go there i become depressed and resort to unhealthy habits to deal. i have limited the number of my visits but feel guilty about it. it's a topic that always come up throughout the day. overall, i find the whole situation to be sad.

so, i guess i'm asking if anyone else experienced the same thing. did you regret not visiting your love one more often?

2007-08-20 12:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in college. I roomed with a friend spring semester. @ first it was cool, but now i hate him. he treats me like crap, puts me down because I don't see eye-to-eye to him, calls me fat-a$s (he's not exactly skinny either), criticizes every little thing I do, not constructive criticism, but like how I have no clue what I'm doing and will amount to nothing. He's extremely arrogant and talks bad about me, also to other people. Last year we had ONE class together, now we have 3. Beginning and advanced boxing on tues. th, history on Mon. Wed. Fri. that means I have to put up w/ this a$$hole EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK!!! I tried switching out of history, but they're all full! I can't drop this class and love boxing. How do I handle him? Do i just say "hey, if you're gonna put me down, don't say anything to me. I'm tired of hearing it and really don't like you that much." or something like that.

2007-08-20 12:04:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont know what to do. A few years ago my daughter told me my brother in law (her uncle) had touched her. I freaked out and called the police. They arrested him. I pushed the matter for my daughters sake. He's still in prison. My daughter has problems. I have other posts about her. The psycologists working with my daughter have made major progress (Bipolar). Recently this is all coming out. She told them and me that he did nothing to her. Shes really upset about the lie that put him in prison. My god she was so convincing when she told me he did this to her. I don't know what to do. The DA won't do anything. They say he's be convicted and that has to stand. My daughter even talked to them.
At the trial they didn't have any evidence but, they said that children don't lie about molestation. I believed that at the time and so did the judge. My daughter and I have been in a therapy group. I was surprised to find that so many kids do this.
What else can I do to help him and my sister?

2007-08-20 12:04:05 · 11 answers · asked by julie_pstr 1 in Family

What do you think ZIf you talk to a person online and start to get into them and after a week they disapear and you don't hear from them for a couple of months then discover them on the dating site again and start talking and now they are all in love with you and ready to devote their life to you. Would you trust that? And we haven't even met yet!

2007-08-20 12:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I had sex on the first date, and here we are 7 years later and married. I know this is an unusual situation and I do regret it. No lecture needed. I have since turned my life around and am on the right pathway. Today, we were talking on the phone and joking with one another. I was asking him to do me a favor and I teased him and I said I'd put out if he did this favor for me. He then replied that any girl who would sleep with a guy after the first day, especially when dinner was at Applebee's, would certainly put out for this favor. He had always teased me about sleeping with him on the first date, but this time he personalized it even more by mentioning where we went on the first date and that it wasn't even a nice restaurant and I put out anyway. He said he was joking (of course) but my feelings are still hurt. What do I do now? I feel like he subconsciously doesn't respect me at all because of that, but we have been married almost 6 years.

2007-08-20 11:58:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a straight male. How do I incopperate him into my wedding? He is like my brother and I would like for him to be my maid of honor. How does that work? What should he wear? What are his roles?

2007-08-20 11:55:49 · 89 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months and i love him to death. hes everything i could ever want and we plan on getting married. But in the begining, he would always get jealous of the guys i was friends with. Now, he doesnt realli feel jealous if guys stare at me or whatever. is this bad? also, i want to keep the spark alive in our relationship. From a guy's point of view, what can a girl do to keep the relationship fresh?

2007-08-20 11:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by =) 2 in Singles & Dating

and don't do as much they love you more?

both men and women do this some but not all

2007-08-20 11:54:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have just been asked to be a bridesmaid in my sister-in-laws wedding (that part is fine and great!) it's her husband to be that is the issue. Not ONE person in her family likes him (he has no drive or motivation and has been using her since the beginning) and she is aware of their feelings but they have told her that it's her decision to make. We all feel that she is blinded by the fact he is her first 'love' and boyfriend and all her friends are getting married. However.... my dilemna is that I feel the same way as her family and have some reservations about standing up for a wedding I feel is doomed for failure. Now I do keep my feelings to myself and support her or tell her I'm sorry that I can't be involved for that reason? Any advice is appreciated!

FYI - I haven't given her an answer yet as I am in two other weddings in the same year so I said I would have to think about it for the financial side of things which is another deciding factor but not the important one.

2007-08-20 11:49:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

our upstairs tenants just torture us, right now I'm watching the chandler swing. i talked to my husband about moving in with my mother (who is never there and doesn't ever bother us) until we can afford to move to a better place, he wont go; I honestly think I'm going to die from a heart attack living here. I cry everyday and he hates it too but won't leave; should I move out? I don't know what to do anymore please help me

2007-08-20 11:48:18 · 43 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have a habit of talking "dirty" sometime when we are being intimate. Have talked about having done "bad" things and such. It has always been generic, and very non specific, Then the other night she is telling how bad she had been then all sudden tells me she screwed her old boss in his office twice while I was outta town on business. Considering everything had been generic and she would not let details ever been involved I am little curious. Any opinions?

2007-08-20 11:43:05 · 8 answers · asked by Wonderingman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I 7mths ago I moved in with my boyfriend of 2yrs, and we haven't had sex in 5mths. He has been acting strange lately, he show no affection, no need to have sex. He only wants to rub aganist my butt until he ejaculates 5 seconds later. Is there a possibility that he could be gay? How could a man sleep with a (naked) woman every night and not want to have sex with her? Men should love to ejaculate. I have asked him if he was gay and even told him that I like to have lots of sex, I told him that I was not used to not getting any action, my ex-boyfriend would want to have sex anytime and anywhere. Why does he not have any intereset? When we had sex before it seemed like he didn't know what to do or how to do it. I thought maybe he was just nervous because we were at he parents house (house sitting). How can I tell if he is gay or not?

2007-08-20 11:42:20 · 2 answers · asked by MrsAB 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife has been seeing my "best friend" behind my back. how do i stop them without going to prison?

2007-08-20 11:42:15 · 19 answers · asked by Paul B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me an my family

2007-08-20 11:39:14 · 9 answers · asked by tanya 1 in Family

What benefits have you reaped? What changes have you seen in your marriage? What changes have you seen in yourself and/or in your husband?

2007-08-20 11:35:36 · 12 answers · asked by Barefoot Betty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We're having a VERY small wedding party-very personal.

My best friend is my MOH, my fiance is having his mother stand for him as "Best Person" since his father passed, and my 13 yr old daughter is walking me down the isle and will also be sitting at the "head table" along w/my MOH and our Best Person.
So far, this is what I've come up with as far as how to have us announced when entering the reception:

Parents of the Bride-Mr. & Mrs. "-----" & "------ ---------"
Mother of the Groom and Best Person- Ms. "----- ------ --------"
Maid of Honor- Ms. "---------- ------------"
Daughter of the Bride - Miss. "--------- ---------"
(And then we'll be announced)

I'd like to have some type of "title" for the postion she has of walking me down the isle so that I can have her announced both as my daughter and "title"---in the same manner as we're announcing his mom as both relation and title of Best Person.

Any suggestions?

2007-08-20 11:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by secret_oktober_girl 5 in Weddings

With all the discussion about Madeleine I find the parents attitude towards their children rather sad. They have 3 kids by IVF then leave them in a creche all day and an apartment alone at night. What about a good old "family" holiday ? Is it a case of professional people who want children but then just find them too much like hard work?

2007-08-20 11:34:07 · 20 answers · asked by lynda p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are these two boys that i am crazy about i already been with one of them but i cheated on him and he forgave me and then we started talking again and now it is like i realize i love him but then there is this other boy who i am so crazy about i feel the same way about him as i did the other boy now i do not know who to choose. I am so confuse. The boy who i cheated on now is locked up so i do not know who to choose. We still wright each other and call one another but it is like i want more and the other boy we talk all the time have so much in common i never had so much in commom with a boy like i did with him. But the boy who is locked up we grew to understand one another so if anyone could tell me what i should do i would greatly appreciate it cause i am so confused and i don't know what to do and by the way my name is Erin

2007-08-20 11:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok about two wks ago I had a girl come up to me and tell me alot of horriable things he denies it and she swears to it I have a torn heart what to do who to believe and what to do i have been married six yrs and have 2 kids and I am only 21. I just cant seem to shake it off like before what should I do I dont want to have any regrets I am so confused please help me figure it out. As of right now I am trying to hold on to my marriage. But I cant trust him anymore. Should I still be holding on should I still be fighting for something I think he only wants out of convience. If he really loved us he wouldnt have done this right he wouldnt have risked it all. PLEASE HELP I AM CONFUSED!!!!!!

2007-08-20 11:26:15 · 15 answers · asked by letty_alfonso 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm stuck with a neurotic brother-in-law that is hard to avoid because he still lives at home and I love visiting my in-laws. This guy is 22, smokes pot, drinks heavily, was on cocaine a while, has a filthy room, doesn't shower, and is also on anti-depressants.

At Christmas he kept us up all night blaring music, he laughed at my engagement diamond, and most recently after I joked that his cat was gay (it was trying to mount their other male cat) he got furious and said "Stop it, I know what you're trying to do and it won't work. You're trying to get to me through my brother and I don't like it." Then he walked away. WTF ???

Since then he's only spoken to me once. We were all having dinner and talking about karma. I said my opinion and he replied "Well I dont really care what you think."

He's extremely insulting, no social conscience, doesn't appear to respect women and as violence goes, seems to be a ticking bomb. May get kicked out soon, a real psychopath.

2007-08-20 11:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by NDO 2 in Family

I just watched that movie where a pretty girl that is confident and successful weds herself, but ugh she finds a man. Ugh..

I would like to wed myself.

Heck there's heter, gay, and how about single marriages?
Your thoughts?

2007-08-20 11:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

How do you know it is true?

2007-08-20 11:21:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what happened. I started hating sex more and more, but ignored these feelings at first. Now, I hate sex so much that I would rather go to the dentist and get a filling than have it. I force myself to do it to keep my husband from divorcing me, but I am almost at the point where I feel like crying when I have to. Sometimes I wish my husband could have a whore around to satisfy him. I know this is a horrible way to think, but I have no idea why it started and if it will ever end. Please give me some advice!!!

2007-08-20 11:21:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 11:08:59 · 22 answers · asked by mati 3 in Marriage & Divorce