What do you think ZIf you talk to a person online and start to get into them and after a week they disapear and you don't hear from them for a couple of months then discover them on the dating site again and start talking and now they are all in love with you and ready to devote their life to you. Would you trust that? And we haven't even met yet!
2007-08-20 12:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A little seriuos advice would help. And if you think they are hot! That seems to screw everything up! I don't know what to do.
2007-08-20 12:03:11 · update #1
Follow your conscience and your conscience is saying,
"Warning, Warning, Warning Will Robinson".
I think they may be taking the mickey out of you.
If you enjoy this persons company I think you should continue, but don't do anything stupid and don't believe everything.
As long as its fun and nobody gets hurt, it all OK.
As long also, that you aren't the one that ends up hurt.
Thats my 5 cents worth anyway....
2007-08-20 19:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥jg spunk♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go slow and keep it platonic. You do not really know a persons motives until you talk to them for a while. A week and they disappears well people get busy with there lives they do not always have the time for love matters. If they are in love with you this quick it probably means they have been rejected a lot for personal issues and fall in love very easily and are clingy which may be not the best relationship to get into if you are looking for someone stable. Have a chat over coffee, but I would not take her home. Her biological clock sounds like it's going off and she wants babies. Take it slow or not at all. Good luck.
2007-08-20 12:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Vivianna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tony this is truly coming from my heart,I think a lot of you and I would not want to see you end up getting hurt. I got a bad feeling about this and you know about a Woman's Intuition.You deserve the very best and it will come to you. You are a very attractive guy ! The HOtt thing-don't trust that. It's what is in the heart that should really matter and it sounds like this person disregarded your Heart-Feelings there for a while and I don't think much of that.You can find a Hott Woman-that is trust worthy but this one -I don't believe in!!!Good Luck Sweet-Heart...Hey if you need to talk you know where I am. Anytime Buddy, Anytime....
2007-08-20 14:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Trust should take a lot longer than a week to establish and love should take even longer,but I suppose you can't have one without the other.I would say that you definately should meet first though.It's possible that she met someone on the site and was seeing them for the past couple of months and it didn't work out.You never know,if it were me I would just ask her where she's been in a subtle way,don't want it to seem like I'm trying to get all invovled inher life after a week.
2007-08-20 14:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tazz 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man I feel your pain please dont trust anyone that does something like that to you.The internet is good but has its down side ppl can be anyone or anything they want and some do this just for fun.
I have used many pay sites and have given them up because of the games most ppl play but yes you can find someone but chances are you will have to weed out all the players first!
Conclusion never trust online dating ever!How can someone love a person they have never met!
2007-08-20 13:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Injun 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say give it a try. If you already have these ideas which are questioning her motives, then you will fulfill what you want to believe, which is that she is playing games. Be optimistic and go for it, you never know.
Simplest solution: Why not just ask HER why she behaved the way she did?
Best of luck :)
2007-08-20 12:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by leela 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by dobrzykowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't trust that, especially with the long absences. The person is probably playing games with you and others on the site, sorry.
2007-08-20 12:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by nimo22 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would be very cautious!!! It sounds like she is playing the field .... if you like her stay the course , but with a guarded heart. Hope for the best.. but prepare for the worst. I know what I'm talking about!! Good luck my friend.
2007-08-22 11:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, NO!!! Of course not!! After a week?!?They don't even know you yet, nevermind love you. Probably a serial killer of something!! Watch out buddy!
2007-08-20 12:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Carly Summer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋