and don't do as much they love you more?
both men and women do this some but not all
2007-08-20 11:54:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I really don't thin one has anything to do with the other. People will do what they want to do. I seriously doubt that any sensible person will "act up" just becasue someone is treating them well.
2007-08-28 12:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by by N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many who have studied Freudian and Pavlov theories/studies would say behaviors displayed have to do with your spouse's conditioning as a child. Therefore, it may not be a behavior that you can change.
There are many factors to be considered which are not limited to just your spouse's childhood.
It includes:
-the order of the person's birth in the family,
-experiences your spouse has had in previous amorous relationships,
-what has been observed in other people's relationships ie. comparing with the Joneses, etc.,
-the length of your relationship-keeping in mind that it's also not quantity but "quality" of the relationship-ie meaningful time together, but that is also left for interpretation on what is defined as "meaninful" by each person,
-your spouses expectations in a relationship.
I don't think I give you the exact answer you are looking for but it will get you thinking in the right direction to find a meaningful course of action.
Best wishes.
2007-08-28 15:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea I think it is the state of mind some people are in. I mean this may seem true but it really isn't. Some people are just angry no matter how much you try to love them. I really think it has alot to do how you are raised by your parents. Good luck!
2007-08-20 19:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are missing you treating them good so figure they better give you more respect.
I believe we should always treat each other well and treat each other as if you may never see them again. Because, you know, it could be true.
2007-08-20 19:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when a spouse is to busy trying to give you things that you don't want it's a major turn off, because some people want your time not your gifts, for what ever reason
2007-08-28 00:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sky * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree when I'm nice to my husband he treats me bad but when I start yelling and treating him like **** I just see that he shows me that he love me more.......and this doesn't make any sense
2007-08-20 19:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not me my husband treats me great and i do everything i can to make him happy maybe your in a bad marriage if two people love each other this is not how it should be
2007-08-20 19:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a good question. I think that maybe it is because some like to challenge their happiness.
It never fails that when I would talk good of my husband then go home we fight. Go figure.....LOL
2007-08-20 18:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crazyness.
2007-08-28 14:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true.....
I need to find PROOF that they really want me, and not just by word sound and mouth...And if I begin to believe they do JUST a little then I might show them I care a little....
2007-08-20 19:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋