Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

just walkin down the street.?
I always see girls just walkin around that I wana get at but don't kow how to start and break the ice.

I'm a black teenager so plz nobody say stuff like start with the weather or just say hi. I really need to know how to get past that tension.

2007-08-20 02:32:14 · 11 answers · asked by Mr.Cooler 2 in Singles & Dating

On a scale of 1-10.

2007-08-20 02:26:37 · 21 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Singles & Dating

If you are married and have a real good friend (that is married) that would be willing to be a FWB what would you say to that??

2007-08-20 02:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents took a job in a different country. Without even consulting me, and when i did tell them what i thought, it didn't matter, cause we were already moving. I'm starting high school tomorrow, and in a new country, and i knwo absolutely no one there. My brother and cat and friends and all the people i care about most are back in my old country. I'm very angry at my parents for putting me through this kind of a situation, and im sared to death to start school tomorrow. Is this a reasonible thing to feel? I'm very sad and very angry. Help?!

2007-08-20 02:19:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a 30-yr old guy. Recently, I was on a date when the conversation reached a lull and my date specifically asked me: "Come on, you couldn't have been a good guy all your life. Tell me some wild stories". How do I respond to this? I can't possibly tell her stories involving other women or anything bad, because there's a fine line here. I'm honestly not one with a lot of wild stories (e.g, I don't bungy jump or anything), so what kind of stories can I tell that are funny and would make me sound a little more interesting? With this particular girl, this happened a few months ago. She had a BF in another city, and I only realized later that she was confused and playing me (by giving confusing signals). So when she asked for a funny story, I told her about when this girl who gave me her number, but when I went out with her a few days later, and she looked totally different on the date. I was trying to be funny, but came off as shallow. I don't want to repeat this mistake. Any ideas?

2007-08-20 02:12:29 · 3 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you turn a guy on? and without getting in his pants

2007-08-20 02:08:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been seeing a guy I really like for three months but recently we decided ( I didn't want to) to take a break for a month as he told me he split up with his ex a few weeks before we met and needs time to heal, he says he doesn't love her but felt like he did not get the time return to his single status before embarking on another relationship. He doesn't want me to leave him but wants time to clear his head and when its done he told me he wants to start our relationship properly. I understand all this but can a relationship be successful if this kind of thing is happening?

2007-08-20 02:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Singles & Dating

we met online she lives in another city we both started school this year i graduate in april and i was gonna move with her.now out of nowhere she says she cant be with me anymore .after we had plans of living together and starting our own family.it hurts me so much cause i havent felt like this for someone since my babys mom and i broke up

2007-08-20 02:04:56 · 9 answers · asked by mike g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf & I have dating for 6 yrs. so its basically like were married w/out rings, anyway a year ago my bf & I bought a house, his mom brought over wed. dinners (which I despised but didn't say anything). We have been living there for 1yr & 3 months but we have realized that we would much rather live out in the country than in the city, we feared telling her because she it very protective I guess. He finally had to tell her because she could tell we were keeping something from her &she thought I was preggers. We just found out that she called her x-husb. (my bf's dad) and said she wanted to have like an intervention with us about moving. His dad said she was crazy and that were not alcoholics we just want to sell our house. we weren't supposed to know about the"intervention" so we can't confront her about it, but is there anything we can do? She is one of the reasons we want to move an hour away! ps she is still really protective because he only moved out 2 yrs ago (were 20) & he is

2007-08-20 02:03:20 · 9 answers · asked by River rock 3 in Family

Okay. I'll start off with I am 16 and a junior. I have been dating a guy for almost 5 months. And I am in love. *He is a senior this year at another school* He says that when I graduate he wants to get engaged. I would like to get in a few years of college at least before getting married. He doesn't plan on going to college, as he doesn't need to with the job he plans on doing. *Fire fighter* So my question is what do you think I should do? Is it dumb to make him wait a few years after becoming engaged? Am I just freaking out over nothing? Any suggestions would be great.

2007-08-20 02:00:12 · 15 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

In a conversation I was having with this girl, a topic came up and she said that her ex was also interested in that. Is she hinting something (ie that she's avilable)?

2007-08-20 01:57:42 · 2 answers · asked by hrf1007 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 01:57:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-20 01:54:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lesbians & Heterosexual people...you know what I'm talking about!

2007-08-20 01:53:24 · 22 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

I really wanted my cousin's twins to be my flower girls but they will only be a month shy of being 2 when we get married. (they probably won't make it down the aisle.)

But I still want the "fall leaves" to be in the aisle when I walk down, any suggustions on who could or how I would do that?

2007-08-20 01:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by angelmisk 1 in Weddings

and the man who I do love seems to have no mind of his own. He orders the same food I order. We both go to church he will pray when I pray stand when I stand. I put him to the test yesterday and told him he does not have to tell me he loves me all the time so he stoped it seems he does evrything to make me happy. He does love me but is this behavior out of fear of losing me or something else?

2007-08-20 01:41:33 · 15 answers · asked by me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 01:40:57 · 4 answers · asked by sexycinderella 3 in Singles & Dating

how would feel if u like someone and u want 2 marry him/her
but ur parents want u 2 marry someone else then how would u feel will u tell ur parents or will u just marry him/her ur parents choose

please tell me what will u do tell ur parents or marry the person whom u don't like 2 marry
(u can suggest amy thing thx)

2007-08-20 01:36:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I just need a pep talk.

I've been married for almost 17 years. I have four children with my wife, from 16 yrs to 10 yrs. My wife has a 4yr old.

Yes, that's right, several years ago she came home from the bar pregnant. Now, I don't know the bio-father and I don't care. The child is my son and I raise him and treat him as such. I told myself I would be here for my kids until they are adults no matter what.

But, lately, it is very very difficult. I don't want to be intimate with my wife. She is angry all the time. I would rather not spend time with her. I don't like being at home at all. I drive home from work regretting the eventual turn into the driveway.

I guess the infidelity has burned a hatred into me that I can't escape. I still enjoy every minute with my kids and I don't want them to have to grow up in a divided home, but I'm not sure I can hold out until they are of age.

Words of advice?

2007-08-20 01:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

please girls give me truth ful answers n no stupid answers please!!!!!i really wanna no

2007-08-20 01:26:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

knowing that your girlfriend's ex boyfriend is flirting with your girlfriend, and trying to steal her from you... how would u react in this situation? would u be calm or ask him to leave immediately coz he's not part of the group...

2007-08-20 01:00:42 · 17 answers · asked by extian_03 2 in Singles & Dating

hi, im 27, still single, last time ive had a girlfriend was 10years back, i unfortunatley became an IT tech, which was a grave mistake, lots of money but no social life in that field. all my friends and peers from school are all maried/have partners and kids&i have nothin at all. i fell so ashamed as i no longer have any1 to go out with, and i hate being the 3rd wheel&hate it when they cuddle up&i have no1 :( .I do have new friends, but they all immature brats who do stupid and silly things. y am i destined to be alone. i dont feel well, these guys are all havin a blast in life&im still stuck here waiting find sum1 and get my life started. where did it go wrong? how could my friends leave me like this?

2007-08-20 00:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 00:54:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad and I had a good relationship until last night! He doesnt want to walk me down the isle or come to my wedding, because my mother and her side of the family will be there. He said he feels uncomfortable being around them. He and my mom divorced almost 6 years ago. He left my mom for another woman and now theyre married. So last night we argued. He thinks its wrong of me to try to get him to do something hes uncomfortable doing, and I think hes being selfish and putting his feelings before mine. He even offerred to pay for the honeymoon...like if thats going to make everything ok! So now, I guess my brother will walk me down the isle. But he is supossed 2 b a groomsmen. How am I going to pull that off during the ceremony? And am I being selfish?

2007-08-20 00:45:17 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we married before 4 yrs(love marraige).i had very confidence on him,but he breaks my heart by doing affair with one girl.and when i came to know he never accept that but when i show him proof,then he said yes but i was just time pass not more than. for that also i forgive him ,then after that
he again chatting on net and dont want to give me password ,any how i ask with him then next day he change the password,again i ask and he gave me the password ,and he done same again ,it makes me hurt and thinks may be he is cheating to me .and for every thing he wants me to tell lie.

2007-08-20 00:33:58 · 22 answers · asked by saamasayeed r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how did it turn out?
did you cheat on them?
did you have babies?

2007-08-20 00:33:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 00:31:19 · 13 answers · asked by Ratnam S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If an Indian male wants to get married to a non-Indian female in Europe, which certificates are requested for him?
What kind of VISA does he need to get?
Any other certificates than birth certificate, passport and visa necessary?
What about marriage witnesses? Can any friend from the bride´s side be his best man?
How long does it take to get an appointment ant the civil registrar´s office for the marriage ceremony?

2007-08-20 00:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by Janey 2 in Weddings

2007-08-20 00:09:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

dont get me wrong i love her but she is very stubborn she never wants to understand anything because she knows everything and when things go wrong i have to clear up the mess it has reached the point where i think of divorce or seperation but immediately i think of my children because they are the ones who will suffer most and i love them too much to put them through that

2007-08-20 00:07:38 · 27 answers · asked by ganges 3 in Marriage & Divorce