Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

i have a problem...
i have known this boy since we were little, like 2, and haven't seen or heard of him since about a month ago. he lives about 45 minutes away from me. we emailed a little bit but that was all...and then he mentioned he wanted my #...so i gave it to him. he called me and we talked a lil bit. we were just like old friends...but then he mentioned going to the movies sometime...i dont want to go to the movies...there are ppl i like at the same school with me...please help. what can i do? i dont want to hurt his feelings..but were not 16 so it would be really weird if we went to the movies or something...i just dont want to hurt his feelings! please help me!i dont want to go anywhere with him...or lead him on...but i cant hurt his feelings!

2007-08-20 04:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well, it started out before she was going out with me. She was with him for about 10 months and she loved him A LOT. She tells me know its over between them and nothings happening. But when they were going out, just for an excuse to be together her him and two other people made this group named CCCJ. and they spent more time together then, but now they don't because they don't have anymore time to. K but here it is, even though they don't have time to be together out of friendship they see each other rarely in Martial arts. Everyone knows a guy would get jealous if another guy like that was in his girls life. especially when its her ex. so right now present time, her and him are like brother sister. but i dnt know i don't believe the guy. Would asking her to sacrifice seeing him or talking to him be such a sacrifice i shouldn't ask for? I just hate the guy that much, and hate how she talks to him still. What would be the right thing to do?

2007-08-20 04:31:01 · 2 answers · asked by [t].spoon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl I was seeing hasn't been in contact with me for weeks. We had a thing going on for the first couple weeks that we knew each other. I think to her it was a fling. I, on the other hand was finally glad that I was getting something going with ladies in a while. Basically, I think I was used. No calls back. Last time we were together, I remember us having a blast.To leave me hanging and having my confidence hammered down so suddenly, it hurts. Should I move on or wait it out? I think I should go on. What do you ladies think?

2007-08-20 04:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Choppinsumwood 2 in Singles & Dating

I walked into her house one day, and she had a pair of nail clippers in her hands. She looked like she was taking the clippers, and cutting the skin at the bottom her foot, peeling the skin off, and eating it.
i almost votimited.
She told me about it
Is she doing it to hurt herself?
Are her parents feeding her?
idfk
It scary

2007-08-20 04:27:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think that more people are more selfish when it comes relationship's then they think or care to admit? A lot of people love say its about FREEDOM'S, CHOICE ect.Two very popular words these day's. But many times you look around in are society and just feels like its more about selfishness and self-invovlment/using. And we mask it, under freedom's and choice. So do you think that there is more selfishness then people wanna admit? Do you think we're in culture in denial?

2007-08-20 04:26:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that she has dated me for the last year during her seperation or them finding that out after the fact.

Im about to meet her parents and we dont know how to handle it.
should she tell them we have dated for the last year and have become very very serious or...
should she introduce me as a new boyfriend that had she met over a year ago and we just hung out alot until recently....

down the road we are planning to marry.
we have talked about it and that is what we both want when the time is right.

I just dont want them to not even give me a chance because i dated her before her divorce was final
however...
I also dont want them to find out and then hate me for it.

what would you suggest the best way to handle this would be
thanks

2007-08-20 04:26:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just started talking to this guy, so far he seems nice, and funny. We have some things in common and he seems to have his s**t together. The question is his very flirtatious nature. He's always mentioning how pretty he thinks I am or when I asked him what he liked in a woman, he responded with "look in the mirror". While I find this very flattering, I would like to know what he is REALLY looking for, without him constantly getting back to my looks. Is this guy just looking for a piece of a** or what? I am really looking for guys' opinions here, but women if you've had a similar situation please feel free to answer! Thanks in advance!

2007-08-20 04:26:06 · 23 answers · asked by Vbonics 6 in Singles & Dating

ok many people i know are really hatin teresa and i happen to be one of many that hate her.... i mean seriously wouldnt you think she would want jr to have a good racin career? i sure would..... i wouldnt be wantin money money money... i mean duh alls she wants is money and she dont even like nascar at all! so why exactly is she such a B***H? i would really appreciate any answers or info. that you have on this topic..... thanks so much~~~

2007-08-20 04:25:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im only 15 turning 16 !

2007-08-20 04:25:24 · 68 answers · asked by Tressa B 1 in Singles & Dating

thought it was resolved when "Mark Nightro" helped and answered my last question...it did help the position somewhat on where my comments/friend module should go, but for some reason it is still not where it should be...if you go on my profile, scroll all the way down..and you can see what i'm talkin about..

i have no clue what i did, but it is still buggin the crap outta me...

if neone has any clue, especially you "Mark Nightro"...it would be very much appreciated...

thank you..

here's my profile again....

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=163004284&MyToken=1ac73c47-a413-45d1-b4ef-372976903ab1

2007-08-20 04:24:17 · 1 answers · asked by hOt wAx aNd stApleS 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having probelms with being where I am and where I want to be. My mom took my brother and me to move to Chicago. However, I told her I wanted to stay in Ohio. She said she understood, but she doesn't want to. I think it is because of her mother. She said I can always make new friends, but I don't want to. Any good advice?

2007-08-20 04:23:43 · 3 answers · asked by GG 2 in Family

i haven't seen my boyfriend in a year and i can't even talk to him on the phone or email cuz he is too busy. i too young to settle down with one guy anyway. should i break up with my boyfriend?

2007-08-20 04:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Cierra K 1 in Singles & Dating

its this dude and i wanna meet him s o badly. im not sexually attracted to him. i think its just the fact that i have kept in touch with this dude for so long over the internet and i have never met him. it started with a conversation about my chemical romance of all things but i did have a sex dream about him and i did ask how long his d i c k was and he was weirded out about the sex dream but answered my d i c k question.


does anyone have a diagnosis per se for my situation

2007-08-20 04:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is to get a greater view of things. I have an ongoing 'debate' with a friend of mine.

He says that once a man establishes a friendship with a woman that there is no way she would ever consider dating him. (it would be like dating your brother or she wouldn't want to "ruin the friendship")

I on the other hand believe that if she is interested in the him, she wouldn't hesitate in dating the guy. That if she pulls the "don't want to ruin the friendship" it's a nice way of saying I like you but not in THAT way

What are your views? Can a man and a woman go from friends to a couple or no way? Have you do this? Did it work out?

Come on who is right? Him or me? LOL :P

2007-08-20 04:22:11 · 25 answers · asked by ηιgнт ѕтαя 5 in Singles & Dating

Last night, my 9 year old daughter got mouthy when I told her it was time for bed, and I told her that if she continued to be disrespectful, she would be grounded. She did continue, and my fiance jumped in and yelled at her that she was grounded, and then she kept it up and he yelled that she was grouned for two days. I felt like he "stepped on my toes" by intervening in my disciplining my daughter. I definitely want him to be on the same page with me when it comes to disciplining her, but lately he's been telling me how to discipline her and becoming really controlling almost. One other side note to mention is that my daughter and I just moved in with him 3 weeks ago. He was not like this before we moved in. I'm feeling smothered and undermined. Also, he constantly brings up how "good" his daughter is. It's really getting under my skin. I guess my question here is should my fiance be able to discipline my daughter with me there? He is not her father nor her stepfather. Help, please!!

2007-08-20 04:20:13 · 18 answers · asked by dmh1973 1 in Family

Ok, so my best friend's brother is TOTALLY hot, and smart. But he is four years older than me. He flirts with me, but then when I am not there he tells his sister he thinks i am crazy. What do i do to change his mind?

2007-08-20 04:19:42 · 3 answers · asked by caren 1 in Singles & Dating

friends have told me that my ex boyfriend (my baby's dad) has been going out with young females who are in grade 10/11, he turned 30 years old in april. I am 22 years old in my second trimester. I have told people that I don't need to know what he does specially that I am pregnant, it hurts alot...I have been tryen to keep strong and not think about it but its hard...I feel so unattractive when ppl tell me stuff and just feel so fat and huge. I was the only one working when we lived together came to a point were I had to work 2 jobs because he wasnt happy with my hrs, complained about barely spending time with me, I quite my job in the endhe would get mad if I joked about him cheating & hung out with his friend to cruise or go on his own barely wanted to hang out w/me. sum1 told me they saw a vid on a girls cell her going down on him and him going down on her while me and him were still together he didnt tell her that he was in a relationship and has a lil one on the way. HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-20 04:18:17 · 5 answers · asked by shorty_ma 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if a guy is just engaging in harmless flirting or really likes you ...he's also my friend . plz suggest ways or anything you can .....!!!!!!!!

2007-08-20 04:16:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i see this guy he is great, i spend time with him & his kids, he took me on the boat with his brother and his kid, he takes me to the movies, when i get to see him it seems like he does not want me to leave his house, but after the wknd is over is like i dont exist he does not call me or return my call. i dont know why he does that, when i am with him he is always saying Baby this baby that and we spend a great time together whats up with that? should i let him go? why would he take me around his kids and famil if he did not like me?

2007-08-20 04:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by shaquie 1 in Singles & Dating

Hair colours, Body Type, Eye Colour..?

2007-08-20 04:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes you can't figure out what you should do especially when you are are involved in social problems and at the same time you don't like to let others to exploit the situation. What to do when you are in a mess and you don't know what to do?

2007-08-20 04:12:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been trying to figure out ladies for quite some time. I am sure i will get lots of people stiring . seems like i can never do anything right, Is this common with all women to men that the men are never right? please give honest answers instead of smarta** answers.thanks

2007-08-20 04:12:06 · 30 answers · asked by uwdntblvitifitldu 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy sending me sms and calling me everyday in the first 2 weeks, everything seems so great. Suddenly he stop call me, after 1 week waiting, i call him and he ask me out again but i said no.
After that, I was regret and i want him to call me back again, i send him a non-completed sms and hope he will call me back to ask about that message, but he didn't. So i call him and apologized for sending him that message, however, he sounds piss and cut off my line right after i said sorry.
Is he mad at me, should i call him again, please help. I don't want to lose him.

2007-08-20 04:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

I know everyone is different, but would like to know a personal opinion, not what you think most women want, thank you

2007-08-20 04:07:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

life itself? fellings, love? taste buds? friends what is it?

2007-08-20 04:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say you meet a girl that's single, but pregnant... Would you date her? Why or why not?

2007-08-20 04:04:32 · 15 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

Hello what do people think of the idea of free time for individuals in a marriage - do you give yourself a couple of hours a week or month away from your spouse and what do you do with it ? Do you think this is healthy for the relationship and do you have to explain what you do in that time?

2007-08-20 04:03:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should I tell him I left the house? I told him that I did not go anywhere, but I went out for food and to talk to some friends. Should I tell him the truth, or keep it a secret?

2007-08-20 04:01:49 · 17 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife & i have been going through some ups & downs. during this time she has started speaking w/friends she had before we met. she hasn't went out w/these friends except 4 a few times. what bothers me is this: when we met and began 2 see each other she quit all contact w/these friends. She was dedicated to only me and our kids. I never asked her 2 do this it just happened that way. the last few months have been a little rough and now she has rekindled these old friendships and every so often goes 2 see them. (lake trips/bar/out eating/etc.) I don't think they r bad people r forbid her from going. in fact, she usually invites me however i somewhat feel she does bc she knows i am not into the barscene. she then comes in at like 5 or 6 am which bothers me greatly. i worry bout her safety and who she's with. Is she preparing herself 2 leave me or am I just in an emotional breakdown phase?

2007-08-20 04:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend...I mean ex-boyfriend broke up with me two days ago because he felt guilty for makingout with another girl (so much so that he didn't tell me...I had to ask him about it) and that he "feels better being single right now" :( I'm confused about it all even though he says I did nothing wrong...He decided that since I was his "best girlfriend ever" and because he really does love and care about me that we should just be friends...he's coming over for a movie today...and I'm not sure I can handle being "just friends"...should I wait or what? ((Also he honestly seemed to care about me and seemed genuinely sad about the breakup...but now he's back to flirting with girls and such...[not meaningless flirting mind you, flirting with a cause...]...how is it that he can bounce back so easily...but I can't???))

2007-08-20 03:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Katie-bo 2 in Singles & Dating