Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

Ok I just got a new job at the gym for a front desk and have already been trained this past week and starting tomorrow, I have to work the counter by mysel from here on out. I feel so scared because I have had someone to help me this whole time and now I wont have anyone. I am just thinking, What if I mess up? Am I going to get fired if I do something wrong? Or What if someone tries to argue with me about the guest gym fees? I dont know what to think.... any advice will help please!!

2007-08-20 05:19:23 · 5 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Friends

He comes home, his house is clean, dinner is cooked, laundry is done. He is a total *** to me. He barely has sex with me, and when he does, it for a minute or two. I am going to school right and working now, and he rubs it in my face. We both pay the bills. He gets everything and I get nothing!! He is so mean sometime and makes me cry and calls me terrible things, and tells me to **** off!!! I am misreable. our 7 year old daughter askes me why dad is being like that, and one day, I said, cause he is an ***, by accident. AND, now when he is being mean, she will come up to me say that dad is being like THAT again!! I didn't mean to say that to her, it just slipped out!!
He has so much debt and when I want to make a payment on my credit card, he get pissed and screams at me!! He drives my NEW jeep, and I drive a car that over heats!! I AM MISREABLE AND I WANT TO LEAVE!!! But, I want my daughter to have her father in her life!

2007-08-20 05:18:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He comes home;his house is clean, dinner is cooked, laundry is done. He is a total *** to me. He barely has sew with me, and when he does, it for a minute or two. I am going to school right now, and he rubs it in my face. We both pay the bills. He gets everything and I get nothing!! He is so mean sometime and makes me cry and calls me terrible things, and tells me to **** off!!! I am misreable. our 7 year old daughter askes me why dad is being like that, and one day, I said, cause he is an ***, by accident. AND, now when he is being mean, she will come up to me say that dad is being like THAT again!! I didn't mean to say that to her, it just slipped out!!
He has so much debt and when I want to make a payment on my credit card, he get pissed and screams at me!! He drives my NEW jeep, and I drive a car that over heats!! I AM MISREABLE AND I WANT TO LEAVE!!! But, I want my daughter to have her father in her life!

2007-08-20 05:17:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, this one guy liked me, i was friends with him and didn't want a relationship at that time. we were really good friends!

towards the end of the holiday he started ignoring me and now that we've started school he ignores me point blank!

during the holidays i thought i wanted a relationship with him, but it turns out it's kinda hard to tell that person when they ignore you!

i know he's a good person, but why the sudden change in attitude? i started seeing this other guy for a while and all the time i was with him, my friend kept sending me these bad texts saying i'm a slut and stuff! so i broke off the relationship!

he once again ignores me! where do i stand with him? does he still want a friendship and maybe more?

2007-08-20 05:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so im not saying all of u r mean i am jst saying ppl come here for advice and alot of u guyz jst b***** to them and make them feel worse! why is tht?

2007-08-20 05:15:57 · 9 answers · asked by Jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 05:15:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

maybe i didnt make myself clear for all the smart *** answers i recieved. for the man who said he works 60 hours check this out, i work a full time job and go to school part- time plus there is not a meal missed at my house plus the home is always cleaned and on top of that my kids are clean, so don't give me that about you work 60hours, plus my man knows his place we already had this discussion so he does help out but i was seeking for different opioions on how people react to these types questions now because its the most common thing in a relationship whether your married or not this pops up a lot. now if you want to comment on that you can, and if you want to personally say something email chantelmrtn@yahoo.com

2007-08-20 05:13:35 · 2 answers · asked by CYM_2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i am a 21 yr old male, and i've had sex a couple times, and both me and the girl had a good time (it seemed atleast). but i was just curious what exactly makes a guy good in bed? i mean wouldn't doing what comes natural be your best bet? i grew up watching a lot of tv, so there was always talk about guys being really good in bed, or being really bad in bed. and i never understood what it meant to be good and bad. i imagine being good means being sensual and passionate, but idk telll me your opinion.

thank you

2007-08-20 05:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by bob seesk 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not anyones judge and jury, but I believe women who date married man suffer from extreme insecurities. Give me your thoughts regarding why you did it, or why you think women do this.

2007-08-20 05:13:07 · 24 answers · asked by ava 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:12:24 · 11 answers · asked by srk fan 3 in Singles & Dating

OKay so my COUSIN is in his mid 20's and I am 15 and he moved down and lives in the back of my house and he is really a cool cousin.
Well yesterday he heard me singing and said that I should go on American Idol{I didnt know he was listening} and said I sang very good. Then today he picked me up from school and said what do u look so dolled up for? I was like well I always dress like this{which I do} and said well you look good and I was like thanks. Then he went past my driveway and i was like where r u going and he said well u distacrted me and I was like uh huh and said nah I was just seeing if u were paying attention. Is he just being friendly?
I dont know my other cousins very well and I dont have any guy friends so idk much lol. Is he beingh friendly or should I be worried?

2007-08-20 05:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Singles & Dating

Im at the end of my tether with my future in-laws, firstly my bridesmaid (fiance's sister) was asked not to get her hair cut as I needed it long for the style and accessories that I wanted for her hair and 4 days b4 the hair trial she gets most of her hair cut off and absolutely nothing could be done with her hair as it was too short, a waste of my time and money, she then makes a song and dance about havin to go herself and pick her shoes, I obviously im not going to know what is comfy and what isn't so I asked her to go on her lunch break and pick a pair and I would go and buy them, my fiance ended up hanging up on her cos he couldn't listen to her anymore and then to top it all off.....

2007-08-20 05:09:43 · 33 answers · asked by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 in Weddings

Should I be reterliating when people offends me.

2007-08-20 05:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by daniel Sodiq 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i should rethink the wedding. things are'nt gonna change. his mother and sister are one in the same. weird, mean, selfish and weird! do i really want to deal with them forever?

2007-08-20 05:06:28 · 43 answers · asked by kiss e 2 in Family

My ex and I broke up back in early March. She was such a great girl but I felt I was too young for the perfect girl and I broke up with her. She's with someone else now and I think about her all the time. Even last night I had a dream about her and I have dreams about her atleast 2-3 times a week. I'm kind of 'seeing' someone else now, but I'm still madly in love with my ex. She was my first real girlfriend, we were together all throughout college. I don't know what to do. I want to stop thinking about her but it just never ends. It's been nearly 60 days now of depressing thoughts. I just want it to be over. I hate this!! :(

2007-08-20 05:06:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some of my friends have been really funny with me lately and i really dont know why one of them i had a fall out with

we had an argument and then she told my ex i ws sleeping with her ex, which is complete rubbish and then people are just dead nasty for no reason, im just trying to do the best for myself with my job etc recently i got a promotion and recieved an audi a4 as my company car and people have started to act dead wierd around me. I would like to think it is not becasue of this bt it is the only reason i can understand their actions

do you think it is jealousy??

So many girls see me as a threat and i am the last person in the world who would ever try to come on to any one elses man---why do you think my girlfriends are snubbing me???

2007-08-20 05:05:53 · 14 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused me and my husband and a "girl" friend of ours which happens to be his ex (we are all really god friends now" went to a concert the other night... we all had been drinking... our "girl" friend leans over and open mouth kisses me i reject so she goes in for my husband should i be mad at this because he didnt push her off he tells me he is tottally involved in me and no one else but i seem to have this un easy feeling in my stomach about it what should i do

2007-08-20 05:05:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

30yr old son and wife with 2yr old son and 4yr old daughter are divorcing. Wife has temp.custody of children which has dashed any hopes my son had of attaining permanent custody..
Children are not in life threatening conditions but are exposed to the mother's dysfunctional,explosive and abusive behaviored family not to mention the possible fondling by an older cousin.
Neither parent is really a bad parent but I do question some of their parenting skills and decisions.
I am not trying to be the "take over" grandparent but I want these kids happy and safe.
Both parents smoke "weed" and inspite of some of the dirt presently brought up by both parents they have promised not to mention "weed"during divorce/custody ordeal.
I not only want these babies safe but I want them close so I can protect them and help them to grow up in a much healthier environment.
ANY and ALL legal advise will be GREATLY appreciated because even with my legal knowledge I am at a loss at how to go about this.

2007-08-20 05:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by Just Q 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been in my relationship for about 7 months now and ive never been so happy in my life, i know im IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN,and i dont want to spend the rest of my life without him. he is a great man and loves my 2 year old daughter. but this is his first serious relationship and im afraid he got in over his head and will want out he doesnt have kids and never lived with another woman but he tells me he loves me and will never leave, i want to believe him but nowadays anything can happen right? should i stop worrying?

2007-08-20 05:03:58 · 1 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have children together and I messed it up by not trusting him. Even though that he's not doing anything behind my back. We both suppose to build our trust, respect, & the support for the relationship with the children and us.

2007-08-20 05:03:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you feel ignored when you old friend doesn't like you but you know her but she likes forgets about you??!!

2007-08-20 05:03:05 · 20 answers · asked by Cool Dude 1 in Friends

i meen that is the main thing in the relation bettwn 2 lovers or their are another important things ?

2007-08-20 05:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by mazen g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by Celest 1 in Marriage & Divorce

facts only please

2007-08-20 05:00:50 · 17 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, well, i am really short for thirteen, like not even five feet, not that that affects my social life because it doesnt... i'm pretty popular, i feel that i'm too skinny, "areas" are to small, can't do anything correctly, am i pretty enough, etc. and i always seem to be moody. like i'll be happy but then i will get all sad and i constantly feel like crying because of stuff that happened a while ago, like ever since my grandpa and dog died, i just don't know what to do with myself. do i have depression or something?

2007-08-20 05:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by hrloveangle 2 in Friends

2007-08-20 04:58:55 · 18 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this might be a blonde moment but it bothered me last night. When one day, I buy someone an engagement ring, Do I just buy my special someone the ring or should I buy one for myself as well? How expensive should one be? (or two, at least) Haha.

2007-08-20 04:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Kevster 2 in Weddings

to have a child would it come out looking like an albino or would it look white, black or what ever the case maybe. Also can white people be born albino???

i was seriously wondering. only asking out of curiosity not offence.

2007-08-20 04:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well is it..im a gurl?

2007-08-20 04:56:43 · 1 answers · asked by adviser_emmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships