i meen that is the main thing in the relation bettwn 2 lovers or their are another important things ?
2007-08-20 05:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by mazen g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Love, Trust, Respect, Fidelity, Friendship, God....Those are the essentials of a relationship....
Sex is an expression of love but it does not define Love. When the time is right sex will add spice to the relationship.= )
2007-08-20 05:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definetly an important part, very important, at least as far as the guy is concerned, and if the girl really loves him she will at least make an attempt to keep him happy. Obvioulsy there are other things, or else it wouldnt be a relationship, just like if there is no sex then its not a relationship either. I mean, i hang out with guys and female family members, have a good time, but i dont consider that a relationship. If I pick up some girl for a one night stand or just some sex now and then, thats not a relationship either. I consider a great relationship is when you have sex in the morning, get up and spend the day together doing things, and then have sex before you go to sleep. A good one would be one with sex only in the morning, and a bad one would be if she isnt interested when you are and makes no attempt to satisfy me.
2007-08-20 12:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by rand a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are other things that are just as important in a relationship. Depending on your age of course sex ranks ups there pretty high for most people. If you are younger not so much because you can confuse sex with love. Some people rush into sex way too fast sometimes and it's the getting to know one another phase so much you miss out on feelings all the little things that comes from all the firsts! But when the time is right for both people, yes, it is important because you are are expressing your love by the closeness you share during sex. It's not so much the act but the feelings of love you are giving the person. But on the other hand there is nothing wrong with just being thrown over the arm of a coach and having mind blowing sex for hours at a time, which can be just as important to some.
2007-08-20 12:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by sweet2amy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is only the main part when it's not happening. Otherwise it's just a small but wonderful part of a good relationship. Communication, laughter, dealing with day to day issues and coming out better for the experience together is the main part.
2007-08-20 12:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have a misconception that human nature can be circumvented, human nature is to be social and physical. We might be a more complex species of animal, but we are still animals. We have the urges and needs we've had and always will have.
Sex isn't something to be consider a big or small part of a relationship. Between two healthy people, physical attraction is part of knowing getting to know eachother. It's absolutely normal to be attracted to someone and want to have sex with them, and it very well should be acted upon, between two consenting people ofcourse.
It's not that it's a main thing, but part of the whole picture.
2007-08-20 12:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is an important part of a long term relationship but not the main part. You need to not only love the person but like them and who they are, be able to have conversations and do things together. There are many aspects to a relationship to keep it healthy and happy and yes sex is one of those.
2007-08-20 12:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by kitty_witty18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If true love, then got sex or no sex is no more important...What important is love or don't love...
Sex only can make love life more happy but not the main part...
If not true love, then sex 100% is main part...Because if not true love, then just enjoy sex only...
So, sex can be main part and also can be small part....
Just see is true love or not...
Good Luck...
2007-08-21 04:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the most important thing between to people that love each other. sex is involved but if you don't communicate you are on a dead end street. Believe me sex is also important but not first.
2007-08-20 12:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by marianne d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex to me is just a way to express feelings enjoyment pleasure it should never be the main part of any realationship building a strong bond being trustworthy and thier for 1 another is most valuble to my view
2007-08-20 12:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by joey m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people treat it as if it's the main part in a relationship, but it should be just a small detail until you get married. That's a reason why you should stay a virgin until you are married or at least until you are engaged.
2007-08-20 12:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋