He comes home, his house is clean, dinner is cooked, laundry is done. He is a total *** to me. He barely has sex with me, and when he does, it for a minute or two. I am going to school right and working now, and he rubs it in my face. We both pay the bills. He gets everything and I get nothing!! He is so mean sometime and makes me cry and calls me terrible things, and tells me to **** off!!! I am misreable. our 7 year old daughter askes me why dad is being like that, and one day, I said, cause he is an ***, by accident. AND, now when he is being mean, she will come up to me say that dad is being like THAT again!! I didn't mean to say that to her, it just slipped out!!
He has so much debt and when I want to make a payment on my credit card, he get pissed and screams at me!! He drives my NEW jeep, and I drive a car that over heats!! I AM MISREABLE AND I WANT TO LEAVE!!! But, I want my daughter to have her father in her life!
2007-08-20 05:18:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
things wont change, besides he can still be in his daughters life! arrange for you to drop off your daughter at family members so she can still see her dad!....it works
2007-08-20 06:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously u are working for love when you dont need to.you know what? the question should be what do you really want out of life,do you want to be happy or miserable? raise up a daughter who will one day say that she has been abused and had a bad childhood? better to have a single loving mum than 2 miserable parents.
all the best.
2007-08-20 12:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by LILIAN M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My candid advise is that this man is not willing to change. he wants you to be sub-servient to him for the rest of your life. one of my sisters too had similar problem. she bought her own car with ehr own money and the husband ceased it. she goes about in cabs while the husband enjoys the car with his numeroud girlfriends. it was really pathetic.
my dear, single mothers raise their kids and raise them well. my sister left and she is doing fine now with her two boys (twins). i would advise you TAKE TO YOUR HEELS. this man will wreck you if you continue to stay.
let your daughter know how you feel and make her understand that the man is still her father but that you can not just cope with his idiosyncracies anymore. the earlier you leave the better.
i am praying for you. Good luck and please cheer up!!!
2007-08-20 12:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Inexorable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hardly stay if I were you. He won't change, so you have to decide if your daughter is better off with you in this environment where you're unhappy, or on your own where she'll see her mom happy and peaceful. It also depends on how he treats your daughter. Don't stay because of her--she'll be better off in the long run if you're happy.
2007-08-20 12:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and find someone who appreciates and loves you and your daughter.Lifes too short to spend it with someone who makes you miserable. Just because you are apart from him does'nt mean your daughter won't have her father in her life. Good luck.
2007-08-20 13:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by struminslam63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your heart already knows the answer and you just want some reassurance. Yes, it is time to leave and not be misserable. It sounds like you are pretty much single anyway...all you need to do now is get rid of the ***hole!
2007-08-20 12:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋