well i am a 21 yr old male, and i've had sex a couple times, and both me and the girl had a good time (it seemed atleast). but i was just curious what exactly makes a guy good in bed? i mean wouldn't doing what comes natural be your best bet? i grew up watching a lot of tv, so there was always talk about guys being really good in bed, or being really bad in bed. and i never understood what it meant to be good and bad. i imagine being good means being sensual and passionate, but idk telll me your opinion.
thank you
2007-08-20 05:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by bob seesk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta smash that like an Idaho Potato everytime. Experiment, hit positions she will find interesting, make sure she "gets hers" and concentrate 100% on pleasing her. Listen for what she is asking for and do it.
2007-08-20 05:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, so my feedback is based on what I have been told by women, but good in bed seem to vary, based on what each particular woman is into. However, there are two things that all comment had in common: You need to last long enough (but long enough varies significantly as well) and you need to pay attention to what she enjoys and focus your effort on that.
Other than these two things, some women wants it rough and some soft, some wants it in the dark and some with the lights on, some wants in from the front and some from the back, ... And even with the same women, on different days she wants if differently...
2007-08-20 05:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is different for different people but my personal opinion is attention. Men tend to rush things or be kind of selfish in bed and its really nice when i man takes his time, kisses, touches and talks to a woman he is with and really gets her going. If you are having sex with someone you should be able to ask her what she likes, so try it and then actually try what she tells you.
oh and keep in mind alot of women cant have an orgasm from just sex so maybe being good is going that little extra to make sure she gets the big O too.
2007-08-20 05:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by kitty_witty18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being good in bed is to give attention to every part of your lover's body, not just the "hot spots". Take your time! Rushing in ruins it for a lot of women! Kiss a LOT. Everywhere! Good luck!!
2007-08-20 05:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by Beth G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy to be "good" in bed, it usually entails him being in tuned to his partner.
Some guys will finish faster then their partner does, and when they do, they think it's ok to be done making love.
Well a good partner would want to continue until their partner gets satisfied too.
And even if you're not "able" to finish, there's other ways to satisfy her ;)
What makes you good in bed is when you want and make sure your partner gets fulfilled too.
And you pay attention to what pleases them, then remember that for next time too.
Ok, Sex Education I, is over for today :D
2007-08-20 05:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. Asking her what she likes, if she likes what you're doing, etc. Giving her good feedback and getting some in return is the surest way to haev a good time.
2007-08-20 05:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by soelo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's "good" will depend on your partner...not everyone likes the same things so part of being good is being flexible in your style and willing to discover what your partner likes and do things that way (just as your partner should for you!)
2007-08-20 05:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want to become really good, you need to read a lot of books on the subject and please the woman first before pleasing yourself and be sure she isn't faking it.
2007-08-20 05:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being able last longer than she can my goal is to make her come as much as she can b-4 i do! yeah baby
2007-08-20 05:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do anything on the table!!! dont say i wont do that give her anything she needs for as long as she needs it to be done.
do this and she will think you are a god!!!
2007-08-20 05:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋